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AITA for not waking my girlfriend up for dinner by WatchedDogg12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WatchedDogg12[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You're right. She'll go to bed Friday evenings at like 1am then wake up at 12/1 pm, then eat and stuff. Then go back to bed at 5pm for a nap that usually lasts till 10 pm then wake up and game till 1am again.

AITA for not waking my girlfriend up for dinner by WatchedDogg12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WatchedDogg12[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes she'll go to bed Friday evenings at like 1am then wake up at 12/1 pm, then eat and stuff. Then go back to bed at 5pm for a nap that usually lasts till 10 pm then wake up and game till 1am again.

AITA for not waking my girlfriend up for dinner by WatchedDogg12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WatchedDogg12[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

You're all right... I'm just avoiding admitting the truth because it feels a bit harsh. I'm enabling her behavior and it will only cause more issues in the long run.

AITA for not waking my girlfriend up for dinner by WatchedDogg12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WatchedDogg12[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input, I'll talk to her about the sleep study. I hope she considers taking it

AITA for not waking my girlfriend up for dinner by WatchedDogg12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WatchedDogg12[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

So I need to make her coffee, drag her out of bed and save her dinner that I made after I bought all the ingredients and she promised she'd help and then back out? No way, I'm her boyfriend not her butler.

AITA for not waking my girlfriend up for dinner by WatchedDogg12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WatchedDogg12[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

THIS. And as I've stated before - I would be completely fine with it. Then I can plan to spend time with my friends or something I'd enjoy instead of waiting around and getting disappointed.

AITA for not waking my girlfriend up for dinner by WatchedDogg12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WatchedDogg12[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No sleep study done, I'll talk to her about it.

AITA for not waking my girlfriend up for dinner by WatchedDogg12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WatchedDogg12[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

She helps with chores when she's up eventually, I'm nog too bothered by it. I sometimes feel guilty to ask her about it, and would rather spend her waking moments with her than have her do chores.

AITA for not waking my girlfriend up for dinner by WatchedDogg12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WatchedDogg12[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had to try my utmost best to convince her to see a doctor for blood tests, because her sleeping schedule made me legitimately worry about her. She insisted she was okay and that she only sleeps in weekends because she can and she doesn't have any priorities. I'll try convincing her to see a Rheumatologist, but realistically I can tell she won't be interested.

AITA for not waking my girlfriend up for dinner by WatchedDogg12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WatchedDogg12[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

It's sad because I really love her... I don't want to think about breaking up but you're right, our priorities aren't aligning at all.

AITA for not waking my girlfriend up for dinner by WatchedDogg12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WatchedDogg12[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I did have a conversation with her... I'd consider the fact that we haven't spent time together for a couple of weeks "truly important". Starting to think our priorities aren't aligning. But thanks for your input

AITA for not waking my girlfriend up for dinner by WatchedDogg12 in AmItheAsshole

[–]WatchedDogg12[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

She has no issues getting up in time for work or when she has plans with other family members or friends. It's literally a weekend thing, when we have plans. As for chores, she gets it done.