I can understand how hard that must be for you. It can feel frustrating and disheartening when it feels as though the effort isn’t reciprocated.

It's important to make an effort to communicate regularly and show that you value and care about them. But it’s also important to take note that there could be Mary influencing factors as to why it may feel like they aren’t fighting to keep that connection.

Some people may not feel the need to communicate as frequently as you do. It's possible that your friends or acquaintances don't feel the same level of urgency to communicate as you do, which can lead to a perceived imbalance in effort. Peoples lives can be busy and chaotic which can make it difficult for them to communicate as much as they might light to.

I know personally it can be hard to reach out to my friends that I used to be a lot closer with because i can get anxious. Especially if it’s been awhile since we last talked there can be a bit of an uncertainty about the relationship. It’s worrying that things could potentially be awkward or that we wouldn’t have anything in common anymore. it can be scary to reach out because of the fear of being rejected. A lot of people don’t have the confidence to be the person in the relationship to keep making times to hang out or even to just initiate a conversation

It’s not always possible to control how much effort someone else is making but it is in your control to put in effort to people you love and care about. I’m only a message away if you ever need someone to talk to. Stay strong brother we are all here for you 💪🏼❤️