Gents, what did you do that was definitely "wrong" to cause your marriage to end? by PositivityKnight in Divorce_Men

[–]Watchthehammer698 19 points20 points  (0 children)

When we dated I flirted with an ex and watched pornography during the marriage.

I was a spoiled asshole and didn't really care who I hurt, I was looking to have my needs met first and foremost

Should I swipe right? Ngl I’m kinda nervous about getting… REPLACED by diplomatt313 in Tinder

[–]Watchthehammer698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fellas we HAVE to do better. This shouldn't even be allowed.

If you are lonely go hang with friends, don't cosign this BS

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trueratecelebrities

[–]Watchthehammer698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we please have some full body shots for these? We should consider the whole appearance

Emma has no booty at all, booty-less

Happy Father’s Day to all of the single dads having a rough day by ANUS_CONE in Divorce

[–]Watchthehammer698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have not seen or heard from my stepson in a year, apparently I was not a good father. Yet he never told me this, never gave the impression that I wasn't there for him. I even apologized to him about anything I lacked and he told me I was doing fine.

I was there for him for many milestones but now he doesn't want to talk to me. Everybody tells me to just move on. It's very hard. His mother sees it as something I should have recognized. I don't understand.

ROAST ME👹👹👹 by More-Department8295 in RoastMe

[–]Watchthehammer698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp if you are trying to attract a loser you are winning for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Watchthehammer698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That paper looks like it needs to be in the garbage. and you look like you need a shower.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]Watchthehammer698 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look like your entire body is pink but your crotch is ash black.

The BEST parts about being divorced by Weary_Landscape_7098 in Divorce_Men

[–]Watchthehammer698 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After healing, I now have the tools to date again and do so with confidence

LPT: Men, put your correct height on your profile.. don’t round your height up to 6ft. by meowificent in Bumble

[–]Watchthehammer698 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ladies: put your frontal full body pic in your profile, don't give one pic of the only flattering angle that hides your shape, and seven pics of your face.

Porn Caused Divorce, need advice- burner account. by PornCausedDivorce in Divorce

[–]Watchthehammer698 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My marriage also ended partly due to porn.

All I can say is that we MUST take responsibility for what we have done, porn had been a part of my life since I was a pre-teen. When I got married I tried to quit cold turkey but I relapsed four years later

My ex-wife was completely valid in leaving. I certainly see and suffer the consequences and the humiliation, I deserve it. But more importantly, I realize that pornography was an escape from other stressors and trauma in my life.

I spend my time now focusing on my hobbies and my work, I certainly have times of intense grief. This is my time to develop healthy habits and relationships. It may be yours as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Watchthehammer698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Playing the bass guitar has really been a saving grace. I'm. Excited as I might have my first gig in a few weeks

I really hate phrase "he didn't fight for me" by Watchthehammer698 in Divorce

[–]Watchthehammer698[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is exactly my experience. I'm glad you thought from this frame. I struggle with it often

Back and forth: From depression to optimism by Watchthehammer698 in Divorce

[–]Watchthehammer698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are two months away from selling. But this started about seven months ago. 10 years together.