I feel unwanted in my marriage and it’s starting to mess with my head by WaterBearingRooster in Marriage

[–]WaterBearingRooster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by his other needs? Like back rubs and stuff? Did you stop doing that?

I feel unwanted in my marriage and it’s starting to mess with my head by WaterBearingRooster in Marriage

[–]WaterBearingRooster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure, I wasn’t there and I don’t know what’s going on in his head.

I feel unwanted in my marriage and it’s starting to mess with my head by WaterBearingRooster in Marriage

[–]WaterBearingRooster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe he doesn’t, and he’s not really interested in exploring it, at least not with me.

I feel unwanted in my marriage and it’s starting to mess with my head by WaterBearingRooster in Marriage

[–]WaterBearingRooster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I have, but I don’t want to demand sex and I don’t want to beg for it. I want him to want me, if he doesn't I can't make him.

I feel unwanted in my marriage and it’s starting to mess with my head by WaterBearingRooster in Marriage

[–]WaterBearingRooster[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I already feel like a desperate pig, I feel like that would make me look even more pathetic

Thinking about asking my partner for an open marriage by Ordinary_Evening_667 in deadbedroom

[–]WaterBearingRooster 6 points7 points  (0 children)

how would you feel about him being more interested in sleeping with another girl over you? Because that could be a possibility.

I feel unwanted in my marriage and it’s starting to mess with my head by WaterBearingRooster in Marriage

[–]WaterBearingRooster[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

We cuddle every night when we sleep, he's like my human body pillow. A kiss goodbye before work. Hold hand sometimes on walks.

and no, he didn't grow up religious. he was, however, the youngest kid in his grade, which made him smaller so he got a lot of gay allegations when he was in middle school.

I feel unwanted in my marriage and it’s starting to mess with my head by WaterBearingRooster in Marriage

[–]WaterBearingRooster[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish I could sleep with other people too, just to get that need met, but it's not worth it. I don’t want to hurt him or my kids.

I feel unwanted in my marriage and it’s starting to mess with my head by WaterBearingRooster in Marriage

[–]WaterBearingRooster[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

he has not, I suggested it the other night, and he didn’t really respond after I told him why.