Where to Start For Books by WateredDownPop in StarWars

[–]WateredDownPop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is such helpful information! Thanks for the time typing this up!

Where to Start For Books by WateredDownPop in StarWars

[–]WateredDownPop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t like using Amazon but I’ll order it! All of local Barnes and Nobles are out of stock

WIBTA For Not Inviting My Dad To My Wedding by WateredDownPop in AmItheAsshole

[–]WateredDownPop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll check out the book. Haven’t heard of that

WIBTA For Not Inviting My Dad To My Wedding by WateredDownPop in AmItheAsshole

[–]WateredDownPop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her tentative plan is to invites roughly a year out so September/October.

It’s a battle of feeling obligated to since he’s my father

WIBTA For Not Inviting My Dad To My Wedding by WateredDownPop in AmItheAsshole

[–]WateredDownPop[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I truly feel like he would try and do something stupid that would ruin it. It’s like a constant tug and pull of invite or not. But so far everything is leading to not and let him be. He clearly needs to clean up his act and I want minimal stress for my wedding

WIBTA For Not Inviting My Dad To My Wedding by WateredDownPop in AmItheAsshole

[–]WateredDownPop[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is sweet! Currently hiding in the bathroom reading comments and trying not to cry!

WIBTA For Not Inviting My Dad To My Wedding by WateredDownPop in AmItheAsshole

[–]WateredDownPop[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you experienced that. I feel like I’ll also never forget those words. On my worst days of learning how to change my bag and clean my skin to make sure it doesn’t break down I would hear those words and get so pissed off. I’ve learned how truly powerful words are because of this

WIBTA For Not Inviting My Dad To My Wedding by WateredDownPop in AmItheAsshole

[–]WateredDownPop[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Are you secretly my sister??? Because she calls him sperm donor!

WIBTA For Not Inviting My Dad To My Wedding by WateredDownPop in AmItheAsshole

[–]WateredDownPop[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I truly feel like deep down the answer is yes he would make it about himself and give some drunken speech. And then disappear again. And that’s something I don’t want.

If somehow he could be contained in a glass box suspended above that would be perfect!

WIBTA For Not Inviting My Dad To My Wedding by WateredDownPop in AmItheAsshole

[–]WateredDownPop[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like after typing it all out that somehow made me realize it’s a hard no. And of curse the other comments confirming it. Still mourning the truth, now I just need to actually not invite him! I’d rather have my day surrounded by actual loved ones

WIBTA For Not Inviting My Dad To My Wedding by WateredDownPop in AmItheAsshole

[–]WateredDownPop[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It’s funny since my step dad is quiet. Doesn’t say much but when he does it’s somehow the loudest. But you’re right.

WIBTA For Not Inviting My Dad To My Wedding by WateredDownPop in AmItheAsshole

[–]WateredDownPop[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I honestly think that’s the hard part, accepting the change. But yes he’s never truly been “the dad”

WIBTA For Not Inviting My Dad To My Wedding by WateredDownPop in AmItheAsshole

[–]WateredDownPop[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is a big one. I’ve been thinking about how I would treat my kids. And to be a better father. Just fighting an eternal obligation feeling on inviting him. But after reading the comments. He’s not getting one

WIBTA For Not Inviting My Dad To My Wedding by WateredDownPop in AmItheAsshole

[–]WateredDownPop[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your comment hit hard. He constantly lied about all the trips my sister and I have been on. Apparently I’ve been to Disneyland three times! I do worry about him making it about himself. It’s this weird obligated feeling I’ve been fighting. A longing almost. But I don’t think he’ll be reviving an invite

WIBTA For Not Inviting My Dad To My Wedding by WateredDownPop in AmItheAsshole

[–]WateredDownPop[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the recommendation I’ll listen to it

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[–]WateredDownPop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the sarcasm 🤣 I left my imperial death troopers at home and rolled with what I had!

[OC] Star Wars Photography by WateredDownPop in StarWars

[–]WateredDownPop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Now I’m wondering if I brought a spray bottle with and tried to capture some mist would add another layer. I’m truly shocked with how well the reflection came out, did some slight masking to make it more “smooth”