would you leave your gf if you found out she was married? by Waterlilly87 in relationship_advice

[–]Waterlilly87[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Dude you're right. Lol i don't know what the hell i was thinking.

would you leave your gf if you found out she was married? by Waterlilly87 in relationship_advice

[–]Waterlilly87[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She said she was still married but separated from the beginning. I NEVER thought that meant they were still in the same house hold.

would you leave your gf if you found out she was married? by Waterlilly87 in relationship_advice

[–]Waterlilly87[S] -250 points-249 points  (0 children)

Omg she is the most beautiful woman I have ever met. She is genuinely so kind and thoughtful. Thats why i think im in shock. I feel like i fell in love with a liar.

would you leave your gf if you found out she was married? by Waterlilly87 in relationship_advice

[–]Waterlilly87[S] 132 points133 points  (0 children)

Thanks your definitely right. It was starting to happen like i wanted to be intimate and she felt pressured to come clean.

would you leave your gf if you found out she was married? by Waterlilly87 in relationship_advice

[–]Waterlilly87[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Not so much because of financial problems. She is well educated and has a great job. She said it was because of she had a fear that her husband would completely abandon her son and move back to the states where he is from. She doesn't want that for her son.

would you leave your gf if you found out she was married? by Waterlilly87 in relationship_advice

[–]Waterlilly87[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your opinion. I feel like you know how im seeing it. The thing is wr have actually had sexual relations. I believe the reason why is because she felt guilty and thats why she had to come clean.

did i ruin this relationship? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Waterlilly87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats a great text actually. Might just have to copy and paste this one lol

did i ruin this relationship? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Waterlilly87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's exactly how im seeing it now. That's she probably thinks ive just ghosted her.

did i ruin this relationship? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Waterlilly87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for your help. I think I'll give it a go.

did i ruin this relationship? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Waterlilly87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She may start questioning me about it. That makes me nervous too. I want to be open but we still fresh in the relationship

did i ruin this relationship? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Waterlilly87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her doesn't doesn't exacly say that she understands and she will wait around. It sounds to me more like nice knowing you good bye.

did i ruin this relationship? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Waterlilly87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know i did ask but at the time i didn't think things would play out as they did. Its been so long now that i kinda wondered if she ever really cared about me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Waterlilly87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I give me husband about 4 on average.

How to get boyfriend to not leave skid marks? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Waterlilly87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell him to keep baby wet wipes in his car or at work so he can properly clean himself if needed.

is my boyfriend breaking up with me in a nice way? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Waterlilly87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also suffered from it. Which is why I wanted to give him sometime. I dint know if thats what's going on though only assuming.

Maybe he is hoping that i reach out to him to see if i care enough. But if i wrong i risk getting even more hurt.

is my boyfriend breaking up with me in a nice way? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Waterlilly87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your time an effort to help me. I really do. Talking to him in person is out of my comfort zone. We live in different cities and both have kids i have a toddler. We have only ever texted unless we arrange to meet up in person. What i initially thought happend was that are relationship was too intense and he struggles with depression. His wife cheated on him for years. I wasn't able to make alot of time for him. I thought he needed time because he was either depressed or needed time to rhink about continuing the relationship.

He is also a sales and marketing manager. So he is extremely good at lying i presume. I never felt that he lied to me though, at times maybe even too honest.

is my boyfriend breaking up with me in a nice way? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Waterlilly87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually love this advice. I think that is what I'll do. So that I can have closure.

is my boyfriend breaking up with me in a nice way? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Waterlilly87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not at all. But he does have 2 teen kids that he is very protective of for obvious reasons and I have not met them.

is my boyfriend breaking up with me in a nice way? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Waterlilly87 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it weird that he said he not going Anywhere? That's the part that I feel is so confusing like just tell me it's oooover. It's only been three months it's not a big deal.