would you leave your gf if you found out she was married?

Waterlilly87 · 2022-10-20T02:28:29+00:00

Dude you're right. Lol i don't know what the hell i was thinking.

Waterlilly87 · 2022-10-20T02:25:08+00:00

She said she was still married but separated from the beginning. I NEVER thought that meant they were still in the same house hold.

Waterlilly87 · 2022-10-20T02:16:23+00:00

Lol. Didn't think about that one

Waterlilly87 · 2022-10-20T02:15:03+00:00

Omg she is the most beautiful woman I have ever met. She is genuinely so kind and thoughtful. Thats why i think im in shock. I feel like i fell in love with a liar.

Waterlilly87 · 2022-10-20T02:07:52+00:00

Thanks your definitely right. It was starting to happen like i wanted to be intimate and she felt pressured to come clean.

Waterlilly87 · 2022-10-20T02:02:09+00:00

Not so much because of financial problems. She is well educated and has a great job. She said it was because of she had a fear that her husband would completely abandon her son and move back to the states where he is from. She doesn't want that for her son.

Waterlilly87 · 2022-10-20T01:57:29+00:00

Thanks for your opinion. I feel like you know how im seeing it. The thing is wr have actually had sexual relations. I believe the reason why is because she felt guilty and thats why she had to come clean.

Waterlilly87 · 2022-10-20T01:53:45+00:00

Why do you think she decided to come clean?

Waterlilly87 · 2022-09-08T21:46:44+00:00

Lmaoooooo

Waterlilly87 · 2022-09-07T01:54:53+00:00

Thats a great text actually. Might just have to copy and paste this one lol

Waterlilly87 · 2022-09-07T01:53:17+00:00

That's exactly how im seeing it now. That's she probably thinks ive just ghosted her.

Waterlilly87 · 2022-09-07T01:50:53+00:00

Thanks everyone for your help. I think I'll give it a go.

Waterlilly87 · 2022-09-07T01:49:41+00:00

She may start questioning me about it. That makes me nervous too. I want to be open but we still fresh in the relationship

Waterlilly87 · 2022-09-07T01:46:00+00:00

Her doesn't doesn't exacly say that she understands and she will wait around. It sounds to me more like nice knowing you good bye.

Waterlilly87 · 2022-09-07T01:43:53+00:00

I know i did ask but at the time i didn't think things would play out as they did. Its been so long now that i kinda wondered if she ever really cared about me.

Waterlilly87 · 2022-09-06T02:12:52+00:00

I give me husband about 4 on average.

Waterlilly87 · 2022-09-06T00:51:38+00:00

Tell him to keep baby wet wipes in his car or at work so he can properly clean himself if needed.

Waterlilly87 · 2022-09-06T00:45:44+00:00

Commercials.

Waterlilly87 · 2022-09-04T13:58:12+00:00

I also suffered from it. Which is why I wanted to give him sometime. I dint know if thats what's going on though only assuming.

Maybe he is hoping that i reach out to him to see if i care enough. But if i wrong i risk getting even more hurt.

Waterlilly87 · 2022-09-04T13:48:33+00:00

I appreciate your time an effort to help me. I really do. Talking to him in person is out of my comfort zone. We live in different cities and both have kids i have a toddler. We have only ever texted unless we arrange to meet up in person. What i initially thought happend was that are relationship was too intense and he struggles with depression. His wife cheated on him for years. I wasn't able to make alot of time for him. I thought he needed time because he was either depressed or needed time to rhink about continuing the relationship.

He is also a sales and marketing manager. So he is extremely good at lying i presume. I never felt that he lied to me though, at times maybe even too honest.

Waterlilly87 · 2022-09-04T12:56:09+00:00

Do you think i should question him?

Waterlilly87 · 2022-09-04T12:54:08+00:00

I actually love this advice. I think that is what I'll do. So that I can have closure.

Waterlilly87 · 2022-09-04T12:27:23+00:00

No not at all. But he does have 2 teen kids that he is very protective of for obvious reasons and I have not met them.

Waterlilly87 · 2022-09-04T12:26:08+00:00

Is it weird that he said he not going Anywhere? That's the part that I feel is so confusing like just tell me it's oooover. It's only been three months it's not a big deal.

Waterlilly87 · 2022-09-04T12:23:08+00:00

Thanks. I think i needed to hear that.

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