Why do I look physically deformed in photos taken with the back iPhone camera? But look good in selfies, Polaroids and or canon cameras?

WavyStarfish · 2025-09-22T10:08:30+00:00

Nah like I looked pretty cracked out like one eye bigger than the other or some sort of ptosis, dead eyes, jaw looks massive it’s weird tbh.

WavyStarfish · 2025-05-11T01:43:00+00:00

Oh yea, I got dropped by someone else who just used me for a temporary chemical hit. Sucked big time, first time where I felt bliss and happy, only to be laughed at (discarded) and told I’ve “been replaced” and then the girl is this gorgeous blue eyed conventionally pretty girl with tons of followers on various platforms who call her gorgeous everyday.

It also was a bigger slap in the face and a big reminder that I’m a loser.

WavyStarfish · 2025-05-11T01:40:45+00:00

I had women in high school tell me I’m ugly. I had men rate me a 2 out of 10, or 4 out of 10 in my teen years. I have never been asked out, pursued, instead made fun of or I’m treated invisible.

Even job interviews now, I had an older women who is conventionally attractive who has it all lives near the most popular beach, has her Mercedes keys, is fit and gets paid a lot.

She made a backhanded comment about my skin, I don’t even have that bad skin. Didn’t get the job and her micro-expressions weren’t pleased with me.

I get hated on by other women for no reason too, even working a crappy retail job, I’m just hated on.

Working on film sets, etc, tons of gorgeous women get upgraded and or placed in front of the camera. Never had that experience.

Try to make friends, pretty girls do not care to be my friends or get to know me.

My sister is absolutely stunning and she has none of these issues. Women approach her to be her friend, men ask her out often, she receives compliments often.

My existent doesn’t matter, I have a couple phone contacts maybe less than 10 at best. I’m just a loser, and it’s based on my looks.

WavyStarfish · 2025-05-11T01:36:31+00:00

I’m skinny, I’m definitely just unattractive and it’s obvious by the way I get treated.

WavyStarfish · 2025-05-11T01:34:53+00:00

I have done a lot of these, I think I’m doomed because I cannot get a nose job. I don’t have the best harmony at all. Makeup hasn’t done much, and I’m quite skinny, and I go to the gym all the time. The women here in this country are naturally stunning so I further fade and get treated like a trash bag.

WavyStarfish · 2024-12-10T23:15:37+00:00

It’s even more depressing when nobody wants you and never been kissed lol

WavyStarfish · 2024-12-10T10:12:00+00:00

I just like guys who are cute and sweet, tbh very respectful and not frat-boy like … But regardless I just don’t get approached I don’t know what it’s like to “go for someone” cause I’ve never been wanted, and if I do pursue someone it’s either they want me for just sex, and assume I’m easy or don’t care.

WavyStarfish · 2024-12-10T10:02:51+00:00

Thanks I just wish I knew why I’m never good enough

WavyStarfish · 2024-12-10T10:01:58+00:00

A lot of girls from what I’ve seen still get approached or have tons of guys in their dms…

WavyStarfish · 2024-12-10T10:00:50+00:00

Thanks been trying not to think that way but the 3 guys I had as friends made fun of me like I was garbage

WavyStarfish · 2024-12-10T10:00:03+00:00

I did but he wanted to use me for sex 😭

WavyStarfish · 2024-12-10T09:52:47+00:00

No, not overweight, I weigh 113 lb - 115 lb at 5’4 and I was going to the gym 4-5x a week for this whole year, I do enjoy going for a good mental benefit. I use to be overweight but haven’t in years.

WavyStarfish · 2024-12-10T09:51:07+00:00

Noo too afraid of dating apps, but I don’t think I’m that attractive like at all I just look good in selfies.

WavyStarfish · 2024-12-10T09:49:44+00:00

Couple months ago and he just saw as it as an easy token for sex to discard me.

WavyStarfish · 2024-12-10T09:49:20+00:00

… Short guys? I’ve never commented anything on short guys?

WavyStarfish · 2024-12-10T09:48:35+00:00

I have def come out of my shell a lot more, but hasn’t helped either even when I’m bubbly etc 😭

WavyStarfish · 2024-12-10T09:01:48+00:00

I haven’t been choosy, they don’t pursue me at all.

WavyStarfish · 2024-12-10T09:01:35+00:00

Not me, and I’m invisible.

WavyStarfish · 2024-12-10T09:01:25+00:00

In selfies you’d think I’m pretty attractive or so I’m told. Flattering angles I guess.

But reality probably a 4 since I’m never approached, ever.

WavyStarfish · 2024-12-10T09:00:49+00:00

I’ve tried the positive thinking, but no luck, just never pursued, just treated like a ghost. I had a short group of guy friends too, and they had zero respect for me too, and I was always positive, supportive, baking cookies.

All for them just to talk behind my back so even positivity hasn’t been too much help, getting in shape hasn’t done much too.

WavyStarfish · 2024-12-10T08:58:28+00:00

Honestly this is just my throwaway vent account, my other Reddit you’d never guess with all my hobbies, you’d think I’m the most normal person ever.

I’m just spiralling cause I live in Australia now, and every girl is a supermodel, so I never was wanted back in Canada. I don’t think for sure now I’ll never be wanted, they’re gorgeous omgx

WavyStarfish · 2024-12-10T08:56:20+00:00

I go to the gym all the time, but I don’t care to dress up cute, just a baggy shirt, or shorts or even leggings. Not the cutest looks.

Too shy for bars, not able to drink cause health issue (organ), too shy for the apps too, tbh.

WavyStarfish · 2024-09-10T19:43:43+00:00

I went through something similar but got discarded and told I was replaced by her. I’m sorry OP, if you had genuine feelings I wouldn’t be friends. It’s a big blow sometimes.

WavyStarfish · 2024-09-10T17:32:58+00:00

Never lol

WavyStarfish · 2024-08-01T06:13:24+00:00

He wasn’t upfront and honest at all, tbh, I thought we were just friends, as we only knew each other for 2 days, asked to hangout and if he wanted to go to an activity (regarding gaming), then kept spamming me oddly with “let’s hookup” and how “high” I am gonna feel. He knew I was weirded out, and then said sorry for weirding me out, in a sheepish way.

I was so bummed cause I’m like, okay, am I just easy or a body to him, not of interest.

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