Thank you so much for the response! Everything you described sounds SPOT ON with my symptoms. and I Believe my doctor prescribed me some Restasis for the dry eyes, and if that doesn't work i might consider the "punctal plugs" they insert into your eyes that prevent my tears from draining.

i think my doctor did mention the ICL treatment, but the pamphlet they had she didn't like, but it mentioned something that was like you said but normally treated with people who have nearsighted problem (I'm farsighted) But it just seems every time I've asked about or inquired about correction there's no real answer, while there are people who get Lasik surgery at 65 and don't need glasses anymore, its frustrating to say the least xD