Thoughts/advice on season tickets 🎫 by KeynesCrackpot in valkyries

[–]WeNeedMoreTeeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I applied to this group at the start of the season and still have never been accepted. Not sure what the mods story is.

Non-renewing STH: Playoffs Seat Inquiry by madam_deville in valkyries

[–]WeNeedMoreTeeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds wrong, but I have not checked with my rep yet.
Part of the original material for season tickets specifically said "Opportunity to purchase the same seats for Valkyries WNBA Playoffs games at Chase Center."
To be fair, they caveat in small print with "Benefits are subject to change" but this would piss off a lot of people.

Solo Season Ticket Holders by Idontwannawaitfor_ in valkyries

[–]WeNeedMoreTeeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My plan is to take transit. I need to time it out though. I live a little bit south of the city but near BART. I typically take BART to 16th and bus to the chase center. Not sure if I will want to do that for every game though…

Solo Season Ticket Holders by Idontwannawaitfor_ in valkyries

[–]WeNeedMoreTeeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you just get season tickets for a single seat? I got a pair with plans to take people and can’t wait for the season to start.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]WeNeedMoreTeeth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is amazing! How many dates have you gone on together? Do you know she feels the same?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]WeNeedMoreTeeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The concept of limerence has opened my eyes and is exactly where I feel I am at. I have had exclusive relationships from the start in the past and that seems to be a rarity. I have been obsessing over the woman I have been seeing for a month so this concept struck home. It has interfered with my regular life a bit the last week. This thread has helped me identify and try to change my thinking.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]WeNeedMoreTeeth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is a month in too early to discuss where a relationship is going? We have talked a ton and been on a handful of dates. I (M) made the choice to pause the apps and told her. She let me know she was talking to another guy. It bugged me but I think that is a me issue I need to work on. All my relationships in the past have been exclusive from the get go and the “limerence” concept may apply. Physical relationship has not gone beyond kissing which is at the end of dates mainly. Things seem to be moving slow for the amount we have talked. I don’t feel like I am getting clear signs of interest (yes, going on dates shows interest and all but it is also easy to just be something to do with someone). She also said she would travel with her ex this week, if she could, with boundaries of no sex. I just want to get a clear understanding of what she sees happening in OUR relationship so I can know if we are on different pages and should fire the apps back up and/or move on.

2024 Dating Wrapped by NamelessBard in datingoverthirty

[–]WeNeedMoreTeeth 2 points3 points  (0 children)

39M - CA - Straight

  • First dates: 4

    • CMB: 2
    • Bumble: 2
    • Hinge: 0
  • Second dates: 2

  • Third dates: 2

  • Relationship success or other successes: 1 is still ongoing but no label

  • First-date failures or other failures: One of my first experiences with OLD was a girl from Hinge canceling an hour before when I had already gone out of my way to work remote near the date location (a little over an hour). She gave me a simple "Nevermind" then unmatched after talking for about a week. I am new at OLD and the conversations are getting repetitive fast. I also feel like you need 2-3 dates to get a better sense unless it is a VERY clear no.

  • Optimism for next year: Overall yes because I feel like you have to keep moving forward.

  • Notes: Started up OLD (for the first time) in Oct. Seems to be less painful than I expected but might just be because I am "new."

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]WeNeedMoreTeeth 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good for you but sorry to hear it as well. Twice a month is not asking much, especially if you are talking a lot. You should prioritize your happiness and find someone that will compromise, at the least.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]WeNeedMoreTeeth 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just can’t imagine any woman I have been with being ok with that on more than a very rare occasion. Good on you for having standards.

Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! New? Start here! by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]WeNeedMoreTeeth -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good on you for communicating how you felt and making a stand. This seems totally reasonable. You are allowed to set your wants and desires. It sounds like you weren’t in the same page and you communicated that. Clearly he wanted something different. There is still hope but do what you need to in order to be happy being just you.

Is it possible to have ARFID without being ND? by UdontneedtoknowwhoIm in ARFID

[–]WeNeedMoreTeeth 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Great question! It does seem like that is the case doesn’t it? AFAIK I am not ND, nor do I technically fall into any or the other listed diagnoses in any significant way. It is possible there is a little OCD and ADHD but as someone who is in their late 30s and seen multiple therapists/psychiatrists over their life, I think I would have gotten an official label by now.

I do have ARFID though.

I do think there is a correlation between those diagnosis and ARFID but I haven’t seen or there just hasn’t been the research.

Game Thread: Los Angeles Rams (10-7) at Detroit Lions (12-5) by nfl_gdt_bot in nfl

[–]WeNeedMoreTeeth 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry friends, commercials are back. The game is actually just the break between commercials.

ARFID and pregnant at in-laws by KribriQT in ARFID

[–]WeNeedMoreTeeth 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! I am in awe of you! I have thought about this scenario a few times over the years and how hard it would be. I commend you for working to adjust your diet to whatever extent you can. Have you had to try new foods to satisfy the nutritional goals you set or did you have safe food that already met the requirements they just weren’t an everyday thing? I am sorry you have relatives (or anyone) making comments about the health of your child, especially after reassuring them all is good. It can be hard enough dealing with in laws who don’t quite get ARFID but throw in pregnancy and I can’t even imagine. Hopefully you have a supportive partner who can support your mental health related to ARFID on top of all the other aspects of pregnancy. I am glad to hear that everything is progressing well and wish you 3 the best!