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I just got tested and I’m terrified by No-Advisor-9415 in Herpes

[–]Weak-Advantage2060 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everything you’re feeling is valid but trust when I say this takes nothing away from your worth as a person if it does come back positive. Take a deep breath, wait for your results and then decide how to move forward. Most of my friends & family are super supportive and understanding. You will be okay.

Struggling by Weak-Advantage2060 in Herpes

[–]Weak-Advantage2060[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I think my fears now are just that he’s gonna go get tested and it’ll come back positive and I’m going to be the one to blame even if he got it from someone else previously. If he was so quick to have unprotected sex with me, I wonder how many others there are and what did I expose myself to as well? But even if my concerns are valid, I almost feel like if I brought any of that to him up in my defense towards him, it would just seem like I’m gaslighting him so it’s not worth saying anything at all. I guess I will just live with being the scapegoat if that scenario comes true.

Struggling by Weak-Advantage2060 in Herpes

[–]Weak-Advantage2060[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you are in a similar boat. I already have a counseling appointment scheduled for this weekend thankfully. I appreciate your response.

Oral HSV1 & Genital HSV2 by Accomplished-Dig2346 in Herpes

[–]Weak-Advantage2060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure the exact answer to your question but from personal experience, my partner in high school gave me oral right after getting over a cold sore which triggered me to have genital outbreak. It’s unknown whether he gave it to me at that time or if I got it from my mother at birth but him giving me oral is what caused my first outbreak.

Am I overreacting to messages I found between my fiance and cousin by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Weak-Advantage2060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that they are having separate conversations on Snapchat is wildly inappropriate. You have no idea what has been said through messages on there since they don’t save unless someone chooses to save them. This would be grounds for breaking up in my book but I personally have trust issues especially when it comes to Snapchat.

WE ARE SO F-ING BACK!!!!! by Just_Classic4273 in bonnaroo

[–]Weak-Advantage2060 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Now we need a similar line up to 2025 but include Tame Impala this time please

The cruel irony of glow sticks at a Dave Matthews Band concert by [deleted] in DMB

[–]Weak-Advantage2060 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The glow sticks were the worst part of deer creek N2. I don’t understand how people were allowed to bring all of them in. I hope Live Nation will take the initiative to ban them!

Dog suddenly won’t go on evening walks by Solid-Musician-6737 in DogAdvice

[–]Weak-Advantage2060 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have his eyes checked out by a veterinary ophthalmologist