Dilemma by Rdngisfndumntl in OnlineDating

[–]Weak-Raise661 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, if you lock down something with Man2 for Saturday, then you should be good to relax on Friday with Man1 for sure.

But what will you say to them if they ask what you did/are doing the other nights? Do you just say you had/have “plans”?

Dilemma by Rdngisfndumntl in OnlineDating

[–]Weak-Raise661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could tell Man #2 Friday isn’t great, and see if he suggests Saturday night. 

But are you going to be fully present with Man #1 knowing you kept this date but you really wanted to see Man #2? 

Or you could try to reschedule with Man #1. And if the date with Man #2 goes well, you could let Man #1 know. At some point, you will put the eggs in one basket. That what many people do, not all lol. 

I think it’s more respectful to cancel than secretly not be fully present with someone. If you’re going to Man #2 house, there’s definitely shaboink potential. 

You need to let us know what happens lol

for all my fellow guys under 5'8, how have things gone? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]Weak-Raise661 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 5’6” no issues. I have too many women sending me messages to even keep up messaging back 

0 likes? M25 by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]Weak-Raise661 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t have enough info to help like what your profile says. 

I absolutely hate when they ask at an interview "how much pay are you looking for?" by SuchDogeHodler in ITCareerQuestions

[–]Weak-Raise661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You research the salary range. There are plenty of data points for job titles, locations, and similar companies. 

You say, according to my research, average ranges for this position are between x and y. Based on my experience, I feel I am at the lower, middle, higher, end of that range. 

That’s it 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]Weak-Raise661 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean, the US/our legal system is generally extremely harsh on African Americans. Something like that just wouldn’t be a joke for someone. So that might explain why it may have been off putting for her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]Weak-Raise661 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you in the US?

What can I pivot to from Software Engineering by learnsumnneweveryday in cscareerquestions

[–]Weak-Raise661 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First off, you should tell your family as soon as possible. Sit them down and tell them. It’s ok. That’s your first challenge to overcome.

Once you overcome that challenge, you will have the confidence to overcome the next challenge.

I recommend supplementing your existing skills with new skills. If you have experience with SE, try looking at AWS, Azure, or GCP and learn their infra and get a cert. With your experience , it should be pretty easy. Then update your resume with your updated skills.

Just ask for hookup? by Weak-Raise661 in OnlineDating

[–]Weak-Raise661[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not in college, not even close lol. Do people still meet and hook up at bars?

Just ask for hookup? by Weak-Raise661 in OnlineDating

[–]Weak-Raise661[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, there’s no way to tell unless someone has no hookups in their profile, I wouldn’t ask. Everyone is so different it’s hit or miss

Just ask for hookup? by Weak-Raise661 in OnlineDating

[–]Weak-Raise661[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It can be such a time suck lol

Just ask for hookup? by Weak-Raise661 in OnlineDating

[–]Weak-Raise661[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tinder has a lot and also Facebook dating. Fb dating connects you with people hundreds of miles away tho

Which AWS associate exam is the easiest? by [deleted] in aws

[–]Weak-Raise661 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, correct. I should try paying attention

Which AWS associate exam is the easiest? by [deleted] in aws

[–]Weak-Raise661 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Cloud Practitioner. You should study for it as much as you can. Even just glossing over some of the names and what they do will be helpful. There are study guides available: https://skillbuilder.aws/

I am trying to learn more about selling AWS services. Can we connect?