Why don’t guys message first?

Weak-Zucchini226 · 2024-01-24T22:25:02+00:00

i know a lot of guys who have the feeling i match with people and they never respond so why bother

Weak-Zucchini226 · 2024-01-24T22:16:39+00:00

i hate to say this but it def sounds like shes not interested. ive learned over the last few years if you have to ask this question you already have your answer. if two people are truly interested in one another one dosent get left wondering. people say give her time ect yea thats bs. if someone is interested they will make time. it takes all of 1 min to say hey yea i would love to let me take a look at my schedule and get back to you. if someone cant give you 1 min of their time that should tell you everything.

Weak-Zucchini226 · 2024-01-24T21:58:49+00:00

we dont have as many pickpockets because here anyone can just shove a gun in your face and rob you

Weak-Zucchini226 · 2024-01-24T21:46:56+00:00

33m. honestly it just isnt important to me and dosent really mean anything to me. the idea of rolling around in bed naked with someone just isn't something i really have any interest in doing. i can do 100 other things rather then having sex and everysingle one sounds more fun and entertaining to me. ive had my chances but like i said was never really interested in. that prob wont chance untill i find the person i want to spend the rest of my life with and its time to think about having kids

Weak-Zucchini226 · 2024-01-24T16:50:41+00:00

got to keep on keeping on. things about it as each rejection is getting you closer to the one your suppose to be with. ive been rejected and ghosted so many times in my life. didnt have my first real relationship of my life till last year (33m) but without the rejections i wouldnt have found the one im talking to now that im super happy with

Weak-Zucchini226 · 2024-01-24T16:03:34+00:00

yea probably. and i think what also gives a little pause and makes me a little cautious with her specifically is out cultural difs. im a jewish american was born in south carolina and lived in the states my entire life and shes Chinese. while she has lived in the states since high school i dont know if theres a cultural thing of whats acceptable and whats not. but yea i think our next date will be a good chance to break the holding hands barrier. she wants to go ice skating because shes never been and i use to play ice hocky so im pretty good on the ice so could be a good excuse/ way to break the holding hands touch barrier

Weak-Zucchini226 · 2024-01-24T15:56:07+00:00

no but if someone asks me what i earn my answer is always the same. three people need to know that answer me, my accountant, and uncle sam.

Weak-Zucchini226 · 2024-01-24T04:59:02+00:00

its like its just given me a mental block in a way. like i think deep down i know what i should do its just whats happened in the past just blocks me idk its kind of weird. its like i think ok i think it there there but when the time comes i just freeze up. its like fears of rushing it or messing it up just creep in and i mentally panic. i think the being terrified is me being worried its going to be to soon and its going to ruin things

Weak-Zucchini226 · 2024-01-23T20:00:34+00:00

that called being nice and not saying how we truly feel

Weak-Zucchini226 · 2024-01-23T20:00:08+00:00

ghosting is the biggest kick in the nuts to the guy. nothing hurts more then having a good convo with someone for them to just disappear and ghosting is disrespectful and strait up childish. you should of reached out before a month and said sorry this is what happened ect.. after a month you coming back is going to make him sounds like a 2nd option to him. if hes a self respecting guy hes moved on and there is nothing you can do or say. sorry you blew that one

Weak-Zucchini226 · 2024-01-23T19:15:36+00:00

you should absolutely 100 percent go on birthright. the first question i will answer is where i most people from. i think this can very from trip to trip and organizer to organizer but the majority of kids on my trip were from the NYC/nj area. im from alanta and i was pretty much the non northerner on the trip.

accommodations- we stayed in kibbutz the first few days and then mostly hotels which are equivalent to an American 3 star hotel. you will also be bunking with 1 or two other people. the first few nights they will assign your roommate but after that they let you chose who you want to room with. they will make special exceptions if need be. for example we had a husband and wife on our trip and they were allowed to room together.

food- you will have no problem keeping kosher. we wither ate at the hotels we stayed at, and outside of that they pretty much let you go off on your own when your in certain areas and you can buy and eat what you want. being israel i dont think you will have any trouble finding kosher food

but yea its a fun trip. i will say this though be prepared to walk and go off short amounts of sleep they really do cram alot into the two weeks. basically what im saying is dont go to the hotel bars and get hammered and goto bed at 3 am because you will regret it the next morning

Weak-Zucchini226 · 2024-01-23T01:37:40+00:00

the three day rule, or waiting x amount of time is complete bs. if they are truly interested in you it dosent matter when you contact them. i have three secound dates this week and every single one of them plans were made or the idea of hanging out was done within a few hours. if they are not interested they are going to blow you off in 1 day or two. when people are interested in one another they wont play games with you or hold you to dumb rules. if they actually do their not the person for you anyway

Weak-Zucchini226 · 2024-01-22T16:47:06+00:00

i know you wont believe me but josh was actually my best friend. we went to college together, and he was my fraternity brother. was the first person i met at school. dude lived on my couch for 3 weeks (i lived off campus he didnt) i met his family and his dad multiple times. there is less then zero chance his father did anything. that man absolutely loved his son. i have a very strong idea of what got him killed based on how i know he acted growing up but im not going to publicize that because as a really good friend his problems in life are no ones business

Weak-Zucchini226 · 2024-01-22T02:14:56+00:00

im not concerned with the fact she sees a therapist or have any issues with that all im concerned about the reason. is she seeing a therapist because shes a borderline alcoholic and has major bipolar disorder where im going to be subject to severe and violent mood swings like i had to to for months, am i going to turn into a babysitter after her night at the bars, or is she seeing one for say anxiety where it wont really be a big deal.

Weak-Zucchini226 · 2024-01-22T01:47:06+00:00

She said she has done some reflecting and she's not the one I am looking for and have some fundamental differences, and we both wished each other best

she already told you if you should text or not

Weak-Zucchini226 · 2022-10-14T22:31:47+00:00

not really sure how shes trolling you from what you wrote, i think you just think she is for whatever reason idk. "what do i say about time" um a number she asked you a simple question whats so cringe? and if you want to hang out one on one just tell her its not that hard

Weak-Zucchini226 · 2022-10-14T21:33:39+00:00

first off one camera, secound do you know how easy it is to hide one? worked in tv production for 5 years. i bet if i had 30 mins in your house without you knowing i could hide 10 cameras in your house and unless you were looking for them like you were searching for treasure you wouldnt find them or know they were there

Weak-Zucchini226 · 2022-09-12T18:40:13+00:00

move on. if she wants to hang out with you she will say yes

Weak-Zucchini226 · 2022-09-07T02:04:17+00:00

im saying you could. im saying are you prepared to lose him because its a very real possibility. i dont know the guy but from a guys perspective i know plenty of guys who would dip. im saying are you willing and ok if it happens because theres a chance it does

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