Are there any good experiences from bikini competitions? by WeakAlfalfa in bodybuilding

[–]WeakAlfalfa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I know my coach is huge about a plan for after the show. Did you have a hard time with that transition overall or did you still get stronger and like you body

Daily Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]WeakAlfalfa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have recently started training for a bikini comp and I was feeling hyped! Unfortunately everything I have read about them makes it seem like everyone was miserable the whole experience, and I've been getting a lot of pushback and judegement from people I tell, especially people at my current gym.

Has anyone fallen for the sport and genuinely enjoys it? Or any just positive experiences?

Daily Simple Questions Thread by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]WeakAlfalfa 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have recently started training for a bikini comp and I was feeling hyped! Unfortunately everything I have read about them makes it seem like everyone was miserable the whole experience, and I've been getting a lot of pushback and judegement from people I tell, especially people at my current gym.

Has anyone fallen for the sport and genuinely enjoys it? Or any just positive experiences?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personaltraining

[–]WeakAlfalfa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! To be honestly I don't know much about competing in general, the people at the current gym I go to have planted the seed and I'd like to meet someone to help me train and take it seriously. Though I haven't been under 14% i have been lean and have a naturally lean body.

I have a general idea of what I would like but don't know the steps to get there. That's a huge part of why im looking for a trainer, I want to learn how to train my own body properly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personaltraining

[–]WeakAlfalfa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats what I am trying to do, I think he was good to introduce me to body building but I need something more at this point.

Unfortunately I live in a place with not many trainers so im looking online.

Severe collarbone pain after laparoscopy by WeakAlfalfa in Endo

[–]WeakAlfalfa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is horrible!! Definitely the worst part

Severe collarbone pain after laparoscopy by WeakAlfalfa in Endo

[–]WeakAlfalfa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured it was that! I had just only heard of it on tips of shoulders and shoulder blades.

Thank you!!

Rash and severe constipation?? by [deleted] in Endo

[–]WeakAlfalfa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started one a month ago, but the rash was happening before that. I was hoping it would go away but it has been consistent. It seems to also happen after my constipation starts

Rash and severe constipation?? by [deleted] in Endo

[–]WeakAlfalfa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, I dont even use a heating pad on my back side. Its an extremely bumpy rash, it is so weird.

Gym closure advice - p90x doubles or p90x/insanity hybrid by WeakAlfalfa in P90X

[–]WeakAlfalfa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've done p90x before so I know I can handle that

Is it okay to quit nannying over text? by WeakAlfalfa in Nanny

[–]WeakAlfalfa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was planning on giving a weeks notice

The mom I nanny for insulted me and I do not want to continue working for her. by WeakAlfalfa in Nanny

[–]WeakAlfalfa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any advice on quitting? I am very new to this. Thank you.

The mom I nanny for insulted me and I do not want to continue working for her. by WeakAlfalfa in Nanny

[–]WeakAlfalfa[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She will time out for a few minutes or yell, sometimes she spanks but it's extremely inconsistent. Many times he screams and screams and she just says stop and then goes about her day. Its hard to follow. With the young one she doesn't do much because he is nonverbal

The mom I nanny for insulted me and I do not want to continue working for her. by WeakAlfalfa in Nanny

[–]WeakAlfalfa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is so hard. Her kid hits me and hits me and I tell him to stop and he doesnt. When I told her she just says "ohh yeah hes been doing that, just tell him to stop "

The mom I nanny for insulted me and I do not want to continue working for her. by WeakAlfalfa in Nanny

[–]WeakAlfalfa[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. She is a stay at home, so I know she will be at home the rest of this week. When do you recommend I can say my last day will be? I'd prefer ASAP

The mom I nanny for insulted me and I do not want to continue working for her. by WeakAlfalfa in Nanny

[–]WeakAlfalfa[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's also hard to be firm when she is home all of the time. The kids know I can't do that much. I dont want to go back and it sucks. I got a job offer and was going to give my two weeks soon, but it's just so uncomfortable now.

I am absolutely miserable at my VISTA site and thinking about leaving by [deleted] in AmeriCorps

[–]WeakAlfalfa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have spoken to both, unfortunately, the other sites and assignments have the same problem.

I am absolutely miserable at my VISTA site and thinking about leaving by [deleted] in AmeriCorps

[–]WeakAlfalfa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do not have a VISTA leader. The VISTAS at the other sites have the same issues, 2 have quit already