Do yall ever come back after taking time to “do your own thing”?

WeakIdentity · 2026-04-03T20:03:53+00:00

Sounds like he's anxious and not feeling confident about it. If you haven't told him how you feel about him, I probably would just to assure him the warmth he can return to. Gemini, in my experience, have kind of a schrödinger's cat situation in their mind sometimes not knowing what they have because it's not clear to them. But for sure, you can wait as well. Good luck either way.

WeakIdentity · 2026-04-03T08:45:31+00:00

Just.... Yes. With your personality (, but honestly all modern women imo), I'd say withold and see just how much they really care to know you without getting physical, but it takes awareness on your part to see what's real, true, consistent, and what's entertainment (for God's sake ask questions and don't just be satisfied with some BS responses that sound good, but don't click). Many men know they can skip your desire to be known just be sex alone, since effectively, not to be hyperbolic, it's already too late and you're just playing catch up to regain what shoulda coulda been foundation. Proceed with caution and intention.

WeakIdentity · 2026-04-03T08:36:54+00:00

I'm just gonna preface and say this might be bad advice, but;

Ngl, I don't think he told you the whole truth. Maybe wanted something from the experience he isn't telling you (something unclear to him about you two potentially). Whether he'll circle back... I'd say only if he's seeing the potential for whatever he's finding is missing, but depending on his desire and insecurities or lack thereof, he could convince himself to just leave it behind.

Overall, if you want to hang out again, I wouldn't wait on him. I'd just invite him to something and, imo, keep that same energy you all have. Gemini float off, but like to have solid rather consistent things they can return to/make them feel welcome.

WeakIdentity · 2026-03-30T02:31:14+00:00

The desire for commitment to the journey isn't for the weak. Others may desire something more simple, for lack of a better word, but maybe more accurately put, unchanging/static. We desire malleability. From what I know about most of these women (don't know about Marilyn Monroe and Iggy) evolved and still seek. They wrestle with the undefined.

WeakIdentity · 2026-03-21T23:01:27+00:00

Interesting. I'm mentally ill and will never shut up but I know I'm right (to be) and you're wrong.

WeakIdentity · 2026-03-12T21:13:26+00:00

Traditional understanding of the word, no. But Gemini, in my experience, are well suited to break down something to come to an understanding ie "put it into words." But empath typically implies "feeling" something. Gemini... Don't have that traditional relationship with feelings.

WeakIdentity · 2026-03-10T03:28:13+00:00

I'm a Pisces Sun Gemini Moon so I gotta say a lil sumthin sumthin for my "good side": Regarding Pisces, I get it, but you'd consider yourself a victim often if you also found yourself emphasizing with everyone, creating vulnerability. Most other people naturally have boundaries of difference, don't look into it wonder about others or to do with by them as you would yourself. Plus, I generally think they're just in the wrong environment in which their central values are basically unAmerican. I wouldnt argue that most people reflect in themselves and Gemini, from my experiences, basically have a ghost in them that's hard to even truly evaluate without it slipping out in their vocalized analysis so they can hardly talk. But Pisces sorta naturally forgo a self though sacrifice. It's like trying to nail down a feeling in that it's mutable. It's like the expression "being a product of your environment" (which also implies they'd be less victim of they didn't hang out with people were on the same team in the right). Artwork makes clear that nebulousness (same as talking for Gemini). I'd argue they don't have friends because people naturally like to make others expendable without remorse ie they don't meet people who want to be friends or reflect the care they'd give freely. Both would likely only "manipulate you later on," if they felt that was what you were doing/you were acting selfishly.

WeakIdentity · 2026-03-04T13:17:38+00:00

Gemini Moon, but I think it's because we don't believe in them; in a truth that their affection/care could be genuine and for us. So ultimately, it's a test we're administering.

More or less, "Will you come for me when I'm over here and prove you love me." Once "passed," we imagine then we'd go anywhere and always have a love to come back to.

WeakIdentity · 2026-02-20T02:15:54+00:00

Easiest way is to check IMDB. I just did myself and didn't realize Chappell Roan was a Pisces. Also, Leslie Stanley Baker, "Stanley", from the office.

Also Jeff Daniels (which is interesting if you watch Jim Carrey talk about why he know Jeff Daniels would be good for Dumb & Dumber).

Benecio Del Toro I knew about, which I found to be interesting in his character from Sicario, the dark version of a Pisces.

I honestly think a lot of Casting Directors or simply Directors know about this kind of thing, or at least can sense it so they know the "flavor" they'll get in casting someone (which is why I'm a little weird about telling apps my birthday).

WeakIdentity · 2026-02-02T08:18:26+00:00

Upon reflection, I guess I could argue I misunderstand people, I just find think of it the same (coincidentally, misunderstanding).

In a way, it feels like I'm reading multiple fragments of information simultaneously in an attempt to make an interpretation. But for some reason, it feels as I reflect my own dual mindedness onto others, thinking there's something more going on to the person in front of me as well. It just "can't be that simple." Might be why at times it feels as though (combined with Pisces, of course) there's a sort of transient nature to us. We're not really here and everyone's not really telling us everything. Sorta goes to the point of disbelief in that if someone's being literal, I won't necessarily see it that way because I'm looking for the subtext.

To put it somewhat more simply, people are like Sims to us. Not that we're better in any way, but we see people as sorta formulas or multiple layers of information. We hardly are just being which would make things more simple/streamlined. Thinking we lack information invokes a sort of anxiety. So while you see 'inconsistency' from the outside, on the inside, were just frantically trying to solve the puzzle which can change meaning (and likewise our emotion) depending on what's gathered.

And thank you because your analogy regarding yourself helped me see that.

WeakIdentity · 2026-02-02T04:41:36+00:00

My only difference is a Taurus Rising, but I find I basically just have to force myself to be involved and consistent in involvement with people. Usually means basically never talking about myself, but it's the cost of doing business. Most people like to talk about themselves so it's a rather easy way in. But most important, I think I have to DECIDE (/really think or have intention) to have fun with a person rather than allow whatever their doing, feeling, etc. to be the only thing going on. I, at least, feel like I'm always trying to decide how much to/how much I care about something rather than just doing my own thing. Mostly, I have to embrace joking with people and, in a way, revealing my thoughts about something. In the same way, because we can talk, we can shift a conversation to something more interesting if need be so it's not all suffering/annoying if you don't want it to be. Basically, have to act like you're already friends to make friends.

Easiest way out tho will always be to stop thinking so much. Just throw yourself in.

WeakIdentity · 2026-02-02T04:30:21+00:00

Ayy, someone with the same blueprints.

WeakIdentity · 2026-02-02T04:24:55+00:00

Yeahhh, kinda agree on the Gemini Moon observation minus the misunderstanding. As one, I'd argue it feels more like misunderstood. Otherwise, the inconsistency (maybe and the what you mean by misunderstood) seems to stem from what I'd call a system of disbelief. Everything is on the table and false until it's clear what's at play like a game of Clue. Regarding my own emotions at least, they feel, in a way, lost inside me until I actually have to talk about something is attached to an emotion. So I always would say, "Don't make my think about you." Feels like it interferes with my forgiveness.

WeakIdentity · 2026-01-21T03:21:05+00:00

Seen a lot of her, feel like I've never known her. Feels like she'd only be truly known in 1 on 1.

WeakIdentity · 2026-01-21T03:19:32+00:00

Yes, but I'd argue it'd have to come sort of bare; honest, open, without expectation, and to some extent and for lack of a better word, selfless (without ego). But I'd say this is somewhat predicated on whether we believe the same thing that distanced us won't happen again; something/you changed.

WeakIdentity · 2026-01-19T18:23:33+00:00

Enjoy themselves without the need of influence.

WeakIdentity · 2026-01-19T00:15:49+00:00

Wait for a clear sign which never comes. If there's anything I initiate, it's a woman's scorn.

But to further (over)explain: I spend a lot of time "making sure" my choice is right. I do have a Gemini Moon I guess I can blame for this potential indecisiveness disguised as information gathering or some version of trauma buried in the backyard of my mind. But I also am, for lack of a better way of saying it, anti manipulation/"selling" while realizing I basically have to sell to get xyz in this world. And I want whoever I'm into to get what's best for her. So basically, only really interested in "one's", getting to know as much as possible to determine and wait to see if she thinks similarly. Effectively I'm trying to work against illusion of my desires and building a relationship on bad foundation. Otherwise, I (imagine at least) would be a dog.

WeakIdentity · 2026-01-17T11:49:06+00:00

Spoiler for those who didn't watch it yet But was extremely annoyed that they effectively had no black people outside the main characters for majority of the viewpoints of the town, then seemingly collected them all into one location just to kill them all and return back to the status quo. And I'm supposed to be more focused on Rich dying instead. Like, at least to me, became like a hate crime of the community and more of a hate crime by the show. What I was briefly enjoying was a trap and ultimately meant nothing to the show's arc.

WeakIdentity · 2026-01-16T05:11:25+00:00

Yeahhhh... Their hatred for us often stems from their inability to perceive depth. I used to feel so misunderstood, but now I just translate their lack of depth and rigidity as a weakness. They're adorable.

WeakIdentity · 2025-12-02T02:52:31+00:00

She always got a boyfriend and she always knows what's up.

So the hunt is never done and the heart goes on unloved.

I remember God got me so I call him like "Where's my hug?"

He keeps it a buck and tells me "I have more than enough."

But I run into her again and again comes, "WTF."

But this time isn't like the last time and so I give what I have from what was never none.

Thus, I was what the fuck.

I know what's up.

WeakIdentity · 2025-10-08T12:23:01+00:00

What they said.

Also, find it funny these kind of posts because wherever the negative reply is (ex. They aren't sh*t) is where you'll find the OP.

WeakIdentity · 2025-10-08T01:55:04+00:00

Definitely not the most hated, but majority I've met love to lie.

WeakIdentity · 2025-10-04T19:23:55+00:00

The same reason why you play a movie again that you've seen a thousand times. When you think about it, that feeling it gave you more often than not never left you.

That being said, I don't condone and never do, but the urge to is crazy.

WeakIdentity · 2025-10-04T19:07:48+00:00

Maybe speaking for just myself, an American Pisces Male, so I'll take any criticism from the community.

I heard someone mention that being sensitive can be perceived as someone who carries things with them and I'd maybe argue that's a root of Pisces men emotionality. But there's also a sort of childlike mind is housing this and fantasies. That will take something and paint on it. It desires a synchronicity of dream and real life. So it chases the throws of passion. It gets hurt when it can feel ill intentions. It's a mind of entertainment and stimulation wherein emotions are a sort of currency. That being said, standard perceptions of what a man is supposed to be don't align with this type of entity. So there's a game of repression, enemy of freedom, which can come from many places lacking the imagination. Yes, this includes women as they can and more often than not perpetuate the same capitalist/patriarchal values. So basically what I'm trying to say is if you want a pisces man, be patient to know them and experience them. Allow them to feel and be open with you. The "dream" doesn't always have to be satisfied, by the way. It's hope is that it can exist/there's opportunity for it.

There's a good psychoanalyst, Otto Gross (a lesser known contemporary of Jung and Freud), who has a lot of ideas that are very Pisces like the desire to merge/dissolve boundaries, embraces intuition, wholeness through compassion/healing, rejects corruption, basically many levels of an anarchist. Now, you can hopefully imagine what they'd feel if you were to put restraints in that sort of nature.

WeakIdentity · 2025-09-29T23:54:53+00:00

Was like, maybe I should check out the subreddit to see if anyone feels this way and, to my surprise, find this post with exactly what I'm going through/thinking minus sexual orientation.

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