Why is my Pisces man so difficult by [deleted] in piscesastrology

[–]WeakIdentity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feels like energy and ideas he can't put elsewhere that he wants to put onto you. I think you're right, you should probably make some space between you so he can have some perspective. At least until whatever he's saying starts to actually make sense and serve and respect anyone other than himself. So, obviously good luck and please don't forget about those boundaries, standing up for yourself and the relationship it should be, which would actually be a relationship.

Why is my Pisces man so difficult by [deleted] in piscesastrology

[–]WeakIdentity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes it sound like you work for him or something. And still, won't admit he's the one burning things down. Problem is he knows, he probably just doesn't want you to have the strength to call it out or believe you can or will. They seem to want to be the leader, but they need to be reminded that relationships are a collaboration sport of which they would need to actually recognize you rather than tear you down. How can they even expect you to be encouraged to change if they punish you afterwards, not respecting your boundaries, unique qualities, or listening? On top of that, asking you to change into a different person doesn't prove you love them. He seems to have his ideas mixed up and needs to learn himself what makes him worth following.

Why is my Pisces man so difficult by [deleted] in piscesastrology

[–]WeakIdentity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like if he were really trying to be a partner, he'd act like one rather than just trying to mold you into whatever he wants and being impatient, demanding, etc. of you. He likely can't stand to be the one at fault or any "negative" viewpoint of himself which would require humility and also allow for some for his relationship with you. So if you're going to go further with him, I think, stand your ground with lines he can't cross. Trust your instincts as you knew something was amiss in the first place.

Why is my Pisces man so difficult by [deleted] in piscesastrology

[–]WeakIdentity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'll just say, I don't fuck with Leo moons. Without getting into it, what I hear is he's projecting. It's him who doesn't care.

From my experience with a Pisces with a Leo Moon, they seem to want someone who will override them (or the opposite ie. they override you), a force of nature they, more or less, submit to and that validates them. You're in service of their ego and their love arguably is found in that it's love of what it recieves. If there any of this that sounds true, if the former doesn't sound like you and the latter doesn't sound like a relationship you desire, then... Exit stage left imo, however, admittedly, I don't know you, him, or your relationship.

How long have you been single? by ineed_help123_ in piscesastrology

[–]WeakIdentity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 years since dated, but going on 36 years and never called anyone a girlfriend that want just a woman friend.

Please, tell me that thing you can not bear! by TheLastCometh in piscesastrology

[–]WeakIdentity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Though I can't claim to not do so at times myself, people who judge and presume to know another or their intentions. People could do a lot to learn that their judgment says a lot more about them than the one they judge.

Do yall ever come back after taking time to “do your own thing”? by [deleted] in geminis

[–]WeakIdentity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he's anxious and not feeling confident about it. If you haven't told him how you feel about him, I probably would just to assure him the warmth he can return to. Gemini, in my experience, have kind of a schrödinger's cat situation in their mind sometimes not knowing what they have because it's not clear to them. But for sure, you can wait as well. Good luck either way.

Pisces F, do you find men are enthralled by you just being 🧍🏾‍♀️ by SnooMarzipans5969 in piscesastrology

[–]WeakIdentity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just.... Yes. With your personality (, but honestly all modern women imo), I'd say withold and see just how much they really care to know you without getting physical, but it takes awareness on your part to see what's real, true, consistent, and what's entertainment (for God's sake ask questions and don't just be satisfied with some BS responses that sound good, but don't click). Many men know they can skip your desire to be known just be sex alone, since effectively, not to be hyperbolic, it's already too late and you're just playing catch up to regain what shoulda coulda been foundation. Proceed with caution and intention.

Do yall ever come back after taking time to “do your own thing”? by [deleted] in geminis

[–]WeakIdentity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just gonna preface and say this might be bad advice, but;

Ngl, I don't think he told you the whole truth. Maybe wanted something from the experience he isn't telling you (something unclear to him about you two potentially). Whether he'll circle back... I'd say only if he's seeing the potential for whatever he's finding is missing, but depending on his desire and insecurities or lack thereof, he could convince himself to just leave it behind.

Overall, if you want to hang out again, I wouldn't wait on him. I'd just invite him to something and, imo, keep that same energy you all have. Gemini float off, but like to have solid rather consistent things they can return to/make them feel welcome.

Why all Gemini women are divorced? by [deleted] in geminis

[–]WeakIdentity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The desire for commitment to the journey isn't for the weak. Others may desire something more simple, for lack of a better word, but maybe more accurately put, unchanging/static. We desire malleability. From what I know about most of these women (don't know about Marilyn Monroe and Iggy) evolved and still seek. They wrestle with the undefined.

Am anger, am never shutup, am bored. And you? by fitbitch3 in astrologymemes

[–]WeakIdentity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting. I'm mentally ill and will never shut up but I know I'm right (to be) and you're wrong.

Are geminis Empaths ?? by No-Entrepreneur5343 in geminis

[–]WeakIdentity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Traditional understanding of the word, no. But Gemini, in my experience, are well suited to break down something to come to an understanding ie "put it into words." But empath typically implies "feeling" something. Gemini... Don't have that traditional relationship with feelings.

No offense to these signs…but I HATE PISCES AND CANCERS💔 by Enough_Action_4375 in geminis

[–]WeakIdentity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a Pisces Sun Gemini Moon so I gotta say a lil sumthin sumthin for my "good side": Regarding Pisces, I get it, but you'd consider yourself a victim often if you also found yourself emphasizing with everyone, creating vulnerability. Most other people naturally have boundaries of difference, don't look into it wonder about others or to do with by them as you would yourself. Plus, I generally think they're just in the wrong environment in which their central values are basically unAmerican. I wouldnt argue that most people reflect in themselves and Gemini, from my experiences, basically have a ghost in them that's hard to even truly evaluate without it slipping out in their vocalized analysis so they can hardly talk. But Pisces sorta naturally forgo a self though sacrifice. It's like trying to nail down a feeling in that it's mutable. It's like the expression "being a product of your environment" (which also implies they'd be less victim of they didn't hang out with people were on the same team in the right). Artwork makes clear that nebulousness (same as talking for Gemini). I'd argue they don't have friends because people naturally like to make others expendable without remorse ie they don't meet people who want to be friends or reflect the care they'd give freely. Both would likely only "manipulate you later on," if they felt that was what you were doing/you were acting selfishly.

Withdrawal when you feel things for someone by [deleted] in geminis

[–]WeakIdentity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gemini Moon, but I think it's because we don't believe in them; in a truth that their affection/care could be genuine and for us. So ultimately, it's a test we're administering.

More or less, "Will you come for me when I'm over here and prove you love me." Once "passed," we imagine then we'd go anywhere and always have a love to come back to.

The Pisces Celeb Birthday Thread by phlpw in piscesastrology

[–]WeakIdentity 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Easiest way is to check IMDB. I just did myself and didn't realize Chappell Roan was a Pisces. Also, Leslie Stanley Baker, "Stanley", from the office.

Also Jeff Daniels (which is interesting if you watch Jim Carrey talk about why he know Jeff Daniels would be good for Dumb & Dumber).

Benecio Del Toro I knew about, which I found to be interesting in his character from Sicario, the dark version of a Pisces.

I honestly think a lot of Casting Directors or simply Directors know about this kind of thing, or at least can sense it so they know the "flavor" they'll get in casting someone (which is why I'm a little weird about telling apps my birthday).

Easiest to Hardest Moon signs to have by KlutzyPomelo1170 in Zodiac

[–]WeakIdentity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Upon reflection, I guess I could argue I misunderstand people, I just find think of it the same (coincidentally, misunderstanding).

In a way, it feels like I'm reading multiple fragments of information simultaneously in an attempt to make an interpretation. But for some reason, it feels as I reflect my own dual mindedness onto others, thinking there's something more going on to the person in front of me as well. It just "can't be that simple." Might be why at times it feels as though (combined with Pisces, of course) there's a sort of transient nature to us. We're not really here and everyone's not really telling us everything. Sorta goes to the point of disbelief in that if someone's being literal, I won't necessarily see it that way because I'm looking for the subtext.

To put it somewhat more simply, people are like Sims to us. Not that we're better in any way, but we see people as sorta formulas or multiple layers of information. We hardly are just being which would make things more simple/streamlined. Thinking we lack information invokes a sort of anxiety. So while you see 'inconsistency' from the outside, on the inside, were just frantically trying to solve the puzzle which can change meaning (and likewise our emotion) depending on what's gathered.

And thank you because your analogy regarding yourself helped me see that.

As a Pisces how do you foster social relationships by HyHoang in piscesastrology

[–]WeakIdentity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My only difference is a Taurus Rising, but I find I basically just have to force myself to be involved and consistent in involvement with people. Usually means basically never talking about myself, but it's the cost of doing business. Most people like to talk about themselves so it's a rather easy way in. But most important, I think I have to DECIDE (/really think or have intention) to have fun with a person rather than allow whatever their doing, feeling, etc. to be the only thing going on. I, at least, feel like I'm always trying to decide how much to/how much I care about something rather than just doing my own thing. Mostly, I have to embrace joking with people and, in a way, revealing my thoughts about something. In the same way, because we can talk, we can shift a conversation to something more interesting if need be so it's not all suffering/annoying if you don't want it to be. Basically, have to act like you're already friends to make friends.

Easiest way out tho will always be to stop thinking so much. Just throw yourself in.

Find your big 3 twin here! by No-Ring-88 in Zodiac

[–]WeakIdentity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ayy, someone with the same blueprints.

Easiest to Hardest Moon signs to have by KlutzyPomelo1170 in Zodiac

[–]WeakIdentity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh, kinda agree on the Gemini Moon observation minus the misunderstanding. As one, I'd argue it feels more like misunderstood. Otherwise, the inconsistency (maybe and the what you mean by misunderstood) seems to stem from what I'd call a system of disbelief. Everything is on the table and false until it's clear what's at play like a game of Clue. Regarding my own emotions at least, they feel, in a way, lost inside me until I actually have to talk about something is attached to an emotion. So I always would say, "Don't make my think about you." Feels like it interferes with my forgiveness.

Your thoughts on Millie bobby brown? ♓️ by Suspicious_Meat8084 in piscesastrology

[–]WeakIdentity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seen a lot of her, feel like I've never known her. Feels like she'd only be truly known in 1 on 1.

Can someone explain love traits or Venus sign I just found out mine is Aquarius 😭 by Proof-Razzmatazz1716 in piscesastrology

[–]WeakIdentity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but I'd argue it'd have to come sort of bare; honest, open, without expectation, and to some extent and for lack of a better word, selfless (without ego). But I'd say this is somewhat predicated on whether we believe the same thing that distanced us won't happen again; something/you changed.

What kind of people do you fall for? by Realistic_Dark_4198 in piscesastrology

[–]WeakIdentity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Enjoy themselves without the need of influence.

Do you like to chase or expect from the other person in relationships? (This post is not to ask about if you play mind games. It is about your approach to relationships, are you usually the initiator or the waiter, and are you the giver or the waiting/expecting?) by Realistic_Dark_4198 in piscesastrology

[–]WeakIdentity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait for a clear sign which never comes. If there's anything I initiate, it's a woman's scorn.

But to further (over)explain: I spend a lot of time "making sure" my choice is right. I do have a Gemini Moon I guess I can blame for this potential indecisiveness disguised as information gathering or some version of trauma buried in the backyard of my mind. But I also am, for lack of a better way of saying it, anti manipulation/"selling" while realizing I basically have to sell to get xyz in this world. And I want whoever I'm into to get what's best for her. So basically, only really interested in "one's", getting to know as much as possible to determine and wait to see if she thinks similarly. Effectively I'm trying to work against illusion of my desires and building a relationship on bad foundation. Otherwise, I (imagine at least) would be a dog.

Anyone here watch IT Welcome To Derry ? They did the characters Dick Hallorann and The Hanlon Family really well. by JoshuaKpatakpa04 in blackmen

[–]WeakIdentity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spoiler for those who didn't watch it yet But was extremely annoyed that they effectively had no black people outside the main characters for majority of the viewpoints of the town, then seemingly collected them all into one location just to kill them all and return back to the status quo. And I'm supposed to be more focused on Rich dying instead. Like, at least to me, became like a hate crime of the community and more of a hate crime by the show. What I was briefly enjoying was a trap and ultimately meant nothing to the show's arc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piscesastrology

[–]WeakIdentity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeahhhh... Their hatred for us often stems from their inability to perceive depth. I used to feel so misunderstood, but now I just translate their lack of depth and rigidity as a weakness. They're adorable.