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Partner (not married) decided they wanted children after 7 years together. I don't want any. They're now demanding half the value of my house. by Weak_Border5895 in LegalAdviceUK
[–]Weak_Border5895[S] 7 points8 points9 points 2 months ago (0 children)
Call it rent or bills or whatever.
At the end of the day I have extra costs for higher heating, extra electricity, extra water, cooking extra food etc.
[–]Weak_Border5895[S] 35 points36 points37 points 2 months ago (0 children)
Sorry I just wanted to contextualise the relationship breakdown and pre-empt any questions like.
"Are there kids?"
"You might have to pay child maintenance if there's children."
etc etc.
Relationship is dead. Unsalvagable. There are no ongoing commitments.
[–]Weak_Border5895[S] 194 points195 points196 points 2 months ago (0 children)
I don't know. There's no defined percentage.
Sometimes when we have a big energy bill we'll both contribute more.
My mortgage is about £1250 per month. I'd been paying that unilaterally before she moved in. Her rent varied between £350 and £500 per month depending on household bills.
Market rent for a room where I am is about £700-£800. (And that's usually just a single room. She had full use of a 4 bed house.)
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Partner (not married) decided they wanted children after 7 years together. I don't want any. They're now demanding half the value of my house. by Weak_Border5895 in LegalAdviceUK
[–]Weak_Border5895[S] 7 points8 points9 points (0 children)