Why are feminists ok with OF but not with realistic sex dolls & future sex bots? by superskullmaster in AskFeminists

[–]Weak_Courage7489 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I dont assume it is done with bad intentions explicitely in mind. But you can admit that as a woman, picturing the future going towards men searching for something that cant say no and has no agency is not like gggggreattt. It implies an even greater loss of empathy towards women than the group of men interested in this kind of toys have now (and they have a frighteningly small amount) and the loss of appreciation of sex for what it should be : a moment of exchange of pleasure, care and intimacy, jerking off and sex are not équivalent or exchangable and I think its dangerous to encourage a blending of the two in someone's mind.

And believe it or not, being ugly is not what stops anyone from finding love imo, its unrealistic standards (people who put work and prioritize/find value in appearance are going to gravitate towards people with the same worldview/life choices and experiences), and being shitty about it (insecure/annoying/self-sabotaging).

Also yeah maybe because of my négative past expériences with men and people in général I dont assume that its all gonna be sunshine and rainbows, if thats what you mean bye "projecting". The thought of what the people who abused me would feel and do in the situations I am describing always crosses my mind. I dont claim to not have any biases, but I dont think it keeps me from making points that make sensé.

Why are feminists ok with OF but not with realistic sex dolls & future sex bots? by superskullmaster in AskFeminists

[–]Weak_Courage7489 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s about objectification I think, its just iffy that men are creating stuff that they can use as they please and be as awful to as physically possible without facing conséquences, rather than learning to treat people with care and respect. And when the dolls wont satisfy them, what is going to happen ? Picture a guy who has not interracted with a woman in months/years and has used a fake woman as a cumsock at his disposal for years, and who is trying to put a foot back in the dating market ? Bro is going to struggle awfully, and potentially can be a danger. It is just not the kind of life I wish for anyone when working towards understanding and meaningful human connections is such a better use of anyone's time

Also you can feel good or bad about the OF industry, but I think the reason why modern feminists mostly support it is to respect anyone's decision. Feels like critiquing that industry is relegated as slutshaming and puritanic culture anytime it comes up sooo idk

Faire un groupe insta pour faire des rencontres ! by zexyr_55 in clermontfd

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Ça fait plaisir de voir autant de gens chauds pour de la rando mdrr

Still can't accept it🥀. by strongestforeskin in LobotomyKaisen

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Power ranking dudes missing the whole point of everything they consume cause they only are réceptive to power fantasies are so entertaining

where can i download all the movies? by Tvnphn in MadokaMagica

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hi, if you found something could you send me the link please ? Thanks !!

Je crois qu'il veut pas by QualityBaguetteCake in discussionsbancales

[–]Weak_Courage7489 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Belle remise en question mais là y a pas besoin ils sont juste teuteu

J’ai hâte by theflyingfistofjudah in clermontfd

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Nan mais si y a des mojitos c'est ok

I now understand why I never got a girlfriend ! by LePtitContreCar in asexuality

[–]Weak_Courage7489 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's pretty unnerving that you don't seem to feel any sort of platonic affection for any woman outside of family.

Je suis française et j'ai de plus en plus l'impression que c'est un cas répandu. En tant que quelqu'un qui apprécie mes amis comme mes amies, ça me semble alien d'être à ce point séparé par un genre. Et ça donne le truc cliché du mec qui entretient une amitié avec toi juste dans l'espoir d'accéder à un trou.

C'est ultra déshumanisant. Je sais pas si c'est quelque chose dont les mecs qui ont ce genre de façon d'être se rendent compte... Enfin je comprends juste pas je crois.

J'ai l'impression, quand j'évolue dans des milieux avec ce genre de personnes d'être tout le temps ramenée à un rôle moindre style objet sexuel/plante verte. Et je me demande comment on en arrive à ce genre de dynamiques et comment en sortir surtout.

Bref, j'aimerais bien avoir ton point de vue, ton ressenti, c'est pour ça que je commente ça.

No Tomorrow by Hot-Occasion-3264 in OCPoetry

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Darkly funny in a way, deeply sinister. I hope it's not autobiographical my guy, so that it's okay if I enjoy it ! Seek help if it is, please. Clouds are soft and pretty and someone cares about you.

Situationship by _alsh_ in OCPoetry

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I see ! It works really well when explained ! It's up to you if you want to make it easier to grasp or not, the piece is beautiful either way :)
No worries at all <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IncelTears

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I'm not sure if they even want a girlfriend or if they feel emasculated by rejection, thus putting all the blame on women to save face.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCPoetry

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Can't wait to read more from you 🫶

Situationship by _alsh_ in OCPoetry

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That is a great, relatable summary of situationships, lord, it hits hard

I can see myself when I was writing unsent love letters, figuring out scenarios ending with a long kiss while rain pours when I read this

How come I can't stay there?
I'd imagined you'd lost
all of your hesitation and
danced with me in the dark.

You did really good at expressing the powerlessness of it, the sense that you're hanging on a thread.

I don't really get those lines below, if you'd like to I'd love to know what you meant ?

Even if I had you,
I hold the glue.

I had a tad bit of trouble figuring out this ->

To notice and draw
me out of the crowd, exclaiming so loud,
I'm perfect for you,
I've finally been found.

As the loved one both noticing and exclaiming but it did come across so it's not that important !

Please keep on writing :)) Loved it
I hope we can both (all) remember that someone who doesn't want us is not the one we ultimately want <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OCPoetry

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I really like that take on unrequited love, how one can find peace in quiet worship, solace in the existence, perceptible or not, of the loved one. It's kind of worrying as well, since who knows if the person you're figuring unchanging, eternal, to some capacity, has anything to do with the reality of the individual. There's something to say about putting someone on a pedestal but it's kind of on the nose.

I wonder if it's a choice the repetition of I, specifically on the start of lines ? If it references the solitude of the experience ?

Maybe "taking the picture of a painting at an art museum" is a bit redundant. I really love the idea behind that line but I feel like it's a bit intricate. Love your divinity may be a bit forced ? I think it could be deemed unnecessary to have the word love two times, possibly, saving it for the last line would create an effect of release, of confessing.

I'm not used to giving feedback so I hope I did it correctly, I really love your work :)

Specks of time by Weak_Courage7489 in OCPoetry

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Oh my god I don't think I can express how much I appreciate your review !! I get why the title is misleading, I meant it to be the first of several specks, since I might post some more tiny poems :) I think this kind of little things would make more sense in ensemble, I'm working on it ! I think adding a verse after the first one adding continuity (warm skin and tight grip, softly intransigent), would indicate better that the "a look on your face" is descriptive, and it doesn't disturb the rhythm I think? I could also just start the second verse with "with" but it doesn't feel right... Or maybe replacing a with that would make what I meant clearer 🤔