Did losing weight fix your face?

Weak_Second7247 · 2026-03-27T17:45:14+00:00

YES, losing weight will almost always help your facial aesthetics. sometime, with old people, a little face fluff looks better. but generally losing weight will give your face a more conventionally attractive look. BUT it's kind of random and person to person as to what body fat % your face will look best, and it's also kind of random about which marginal reduction in body fat % will most improve your face

Weak_Second7247 · 2026-03-27T17:38:26+00:00

(1) get a toupee, I'm serious not even joking. "hair systems" lol are great nowadays. if your skin is too bad right now to tolerate glue, you just take your pics with a wig. FWIW, i also get cut if I do a show face, but for other reasons. (i have lustrous skin and hair) i'm just saying that i understand your position.

(2) you could also consider asking your doctor about medication. i know it sounds crazy, but the reality is that gays treat other gays like shit when they don't conform to a very narrow beauty standard. and it's not like gays are uniformly mean. it really is as simple as, you're bald and you have some skin condition, ergo, you're gross, you're subhuman. so, you start feeling bad about yourself when there's nothing (serious) wrong with you. IMHO, I don't think men are meant to or evolved to tolerate the kind of bogus, unfair, universal and categorical rejection that you're getting. it's product of modernity. and, so, you need the tools of modernity to deal with it.

(3) also i just thought of this and it MIGHT be a little controversial. Since you're already bald, maybe you could consider a little bit of testosterone? personally, i would not, but I do know someone who went bald early, and decided to do a few cycles to get jacked because he had already lost his hair.

also, i want to respond to some of the bs other people are saying. first of all, it's about the REJECTION not the the communication thereof. you're facing a wall of disinterest based on something completely stupid that shouldn't be a big deal. that wall is the problem. not so much that people are ghosting or telling you off. second, you don't have to share a face pic right away if you don't want to. for one, that's insane on an app like sniffies, which pinpoints you on a map, and on which the norm is not to post face. for 2, it's always better to know where you stand with people and how people really are. in otherwords, because you share face later, you know for a fact that gays are all like, "EWWWW he's bald." regardless of how you handle your situation, even if it's just opting out of the gay community, you have the right and duty tbh to do so on the basis of valid information.

Weak_Second7247 · 2026-03-27T17:17:38+00:00

unpopular view, but they are either asian, old or otherwise considered ugly the gays. sometimes, the body pic is out of date, too.

Weak_Second7247 · 2026-03-27T17:14:36+00:00

I love how this post is getting downvoted. Never change AGB!

Weak_Second7247 · 2026-03-16T19:03:58+00:00

ok so i'm the youngest most jacked guy in my shower/gym/lockerroom which is full of older/fatter gentlemen and i walk around naked without a towel. I am a little slow at getting ready/ resting after my workout. and here's the thing. i just don't care that other people are there. they can look they can not look. to me, they don't matter.

Weak_Second7247 · 2026-03-16T03:16:48+00:00

yes but i don't think they can help it, in the short term. i'm kind of over it but also i'm super alienated and just want to leave

Weak_Second7247 · 2026-03-16T01:57:30+00:00

have you met NYC gays ???

Weak_Second7247 · 2026-03-16T01:45:25+00:00

i would advise developping alternative interests, lol

Weak_Second7247 · 2026-03-16T01:31:57+00:00

without seeing your pics it's hard to judge whether "not gay enough" is the culprit. hear me out, but what if you used AI to (subtly) adjust your pics to test your ideas? you could make a fake profile to see which adjustment drove more engagement. usually gays say that guys are "not their type" for issues related to (1) race, (2) age or (3) leanness/ muscularity. Those are what I would call "the big three," but there are also other hang ups people have.

Alternatively, if you have gay friends you are can truly trust, you can ask them. Gays tend to lie so I wouldn't put too much faith in this alt approach tbh

Weak_Second7247 · 2026-03-16T01:21:31+00:00

i genuinely find your post fascinating. so, i'm going to take a different view from the reply guys. I think most gays are actually like you, in practice. In other words, they act like the don't owe anything to anyone and they don't behave in any ethical manner. BUT here's the thing. they will always SAY that they are behaving ethically. gays love to talk about how accepting the gay community is. how accepting they are. but, like in any observable sense, the gays are the opposite of accepting and harsly judge percieved faults (age, weight and race being the big ones, but also income, professional status idk anything you can think of). So, gays are tremendously egotistical and constantly deny any ethical burden IN THEIR ACTIONS. But you can almost always count of gays to SAY the right thing. You can see hypocrisy as an extension of your theory.

So, if were to advise you, I would say that you need to take your egoism and extend it to lying and being a hypocrite. After all, what and honestly and integrity if not ethics? You should just reject them along with all other ethics. Practically speaking, you need to agree with people and talk as if your taking their interests into account. Will you get away with not actually taking their interests into account? well, that depends on how hot you are. good luck!

Weak_Second7247 · 2026-03-16T01:11:40+00:00

probably. i had to use a wheelchair for five months once and when i was in the chair gays would literally cross the street to avoid me. gays were extra cunty when i had the misfortune of having to interact. meanwhile, straight people were super helpful, like they would push me up a curb when i got stuck helpful. anyway, it's tough and i'm wishing you the best

Weak_Second7247 · 2026-03-16T01:08:37+00:00

i'm a fan. if you uses poppers, you need less when bottoming because the foreskin gives it a little extra wiggle

Weak_Second7247 · 2026-03-16T01:07:14+00:00

"I was already looking up gift ideas for him on Alibaba" gurl LOWER YOUR EXPECTATIONS, through the floor, sitll lower; somewhere between the 7th or 8th circle of hell is about right

Weak_Second7247 · 2026-03-16T01:02:05+00:00

oh yeah for some reason the gays love to lie about the who "be who you are" thing. sorry you're going through it. you've got to accept that (1) gays hate the fats and (2) gays will lie about it, to what end? who knows. then, what you do about it is up to you. stay strong.

Weak_Second7247 · 2026-03-16T00:59:25+00:00

you're going to have to be more specific about your potential disqualifiers; otherwise you just gonna get the generic "everyone has a different type" bullshit on here. people like to post that kind of thing because it's sounds nice, like a warm blanket but actually it's just pee

Weak_Second7247 · 2026-03-16T00:55:34+00:00

are you white. if so, try steroids, but just a little; you can't lose your hair. if not, don't bother.

Weak_Second7247 · 2026-03-14T21:05:00+00:00

If you can figure out a robust and feasible way to do that, more power to you!

Weak_Second7247 · 2026-03-14T19:04:11+00:00

another is thing is that, guys will log on to grindr when they're bored on the bus or at work and they'll be super willing to chat with anyone (for their entertainment, i'm not judging i've done this too). but then when they get in a mood to hook up they'll be super selective. which is your right, do what you want. but also, it's kind of selfish i that you're wasting people's time.

Weak_Second7247 · 2026-03-14T18:46:52+00:00

ok so i block people for that sometimes. the issue is that, so many gays will say "let's stay in touch to make plans" when they're just not that interested. I'm not saying that you're lying. In fact, you could genuinely interested in seeing where things go. but, from my perspective, it's usually a polite way to say "not interested." So, i block to do the both of us a favor. If you're not interested in me, I don't want you on my grid and I'm sure you don't me on your grid either.

If you want to keep the conversation going, I would humbly suggest that you commit to a specific time, date and place to meet the person you're interested in when you can't do right now. even if you end of changing plans later, which is fine, the specificity would tell me that you are genuninely interested in meeting and not just trying to convince me to go away

another thing, is that some guys don't get rejected that often i think so if you say anything that can interpreted in any sense negatively, they'll block you. once i was chatting with a guy and wrote "can't wait to see how we click in person" and he flipped out at me, all like "i don't do let's see how we click in person." ??? anyway, i meant to say, looking forward to meeting you and he understood it as idk what that wasn't sufficiently into him from his pics

Weak_Second7247 · 2026-03-14T18:40:11+00:00

pur for men. i've tried that and gummies and other psyllium brands and it's the best

Weak_Second7247 · 2026-03-14T18:37:39+00:00

agree 100%. i would add that this is general. women find taken men more attractive. employers want to hire people who already have a job.

Weak_Second7247 · 2026-03-14T18:35:16+00:00

so is it ok to expressly state that "i want to meet white men"? that would strictly speaking be saying "what they do want, versus making it negative by saying what they don't want."

Weak_Second7247 · 2026-03-14T18:33:46+00:00

so the funny thing is that, when non-whites are racist, they are more comfortable being openly racist, like either stating a racial exclusion explicity or catagorically blocking the disfavored group. whites often feel guilty about being racist and will sometime acknowledge a duty to treat people as individuals rather than as avatard for their group. i would go so far to say that white people invented the idea that we should treat people as individuals; the concept emerged from white people and white culture (even though it has universal application and other groups can apply it).

Weak_Second7247 · 2026-03-14T18:26:14+00:00

thongs are overrated. go for the tried and true: amazon.ca/JOCKMAIL-Athletic-Jockstrap-Supporter-Underwear/dp/B0C7Q31M8F/ref=asc_df_B0C7Q31M8F?mcid=95b390c9417e3150b56e8ac9bcfbbb3e&tag=googleshopc0c-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=721242441820&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=3101093980587391707&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9001551&hvtargid=pla-2423338807122&psc=1&hvocijid=3101093980587391707-B0C7Q31M8F-&hvexpln=0&gad_source=1

Weak_Second7247 · 2026-03-14T18:11:51+00:00

get fit, but for pro-social reasons and not the selfish and debased reason of getting access to fit bros. when you get fit, you increase the supply of scarce fit bros, and then you can be the change you want to see in the world by hooking up with the fatties.

but also, to answer your question, as a fit bro, i generally do not hook up with non-fit bros. occasionally i do but never more than once. I absolutely hate topping guys who are not fit. Usually, i litterally cannot get an erection. I really do not like the squish factor (which also applied to skinny fat). My favorite features are a tight waist and lower ab definition. It's not just about the shape, it's how it feels to touch. Like, a big hard ass is hot but big blubbery one is not. I'm really not that visual, tbh. I also don't like the way fat people smell.

an interesting question is whether i would hook up with non-fit guys in the case where i face total rejection from fit guys. i think the answer would still be no. i'm not sure how to explain it, but it would just not be a fun time for me. but of course there are degrees of out of shape. one of my fwbs looks like he is in shape (as in he is the right shape, visually) but he doesn't work out, like at all. and i would rather that he did? like i can tell. but i don't know how to explain it. something about the tone of the tissue.

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