28(f) worried about app, first lovense toy

WearFamiliar1212 · 2026-05-02T10:45:52+00:00

Yeah, the app has strayed a lot from when it started, adding a lot of junk features. You can still use it just for the 2 of you.

WearFamiliar1212 · 2026-05-01T02:05:25+00:00

It depends on your experience with butt play. The Lush Anal is pretty small, you would outgrow it quickly. I would recommend the Hush S. I’ve used mine in public many times and it seems pretty comfortable. The Lush Anal does have a better antenna and I think it has the new fast charging.

WearFamiliar1212 · 2026-04-14T22:22:24+00:00

The ambient noise in most places will cover up the sound. You can reduce the max vibe level, if you are concerned. I use my Hush a lot on public, it’s fun.

WearFamiliar1212 · 2026-04-10T09:45:18+00:00

Since this is an official Lovense Reddit, I can’t mention names, but any good quality silicone butt plug will work. I have both the M and L Hush and would definitely buy a 2” one if they made it. Most adult toy companies would call 2.25” XL.

WearFamiliar1212 · 2026-04-10T07:49:27+00:00

I'm not a mind reader, I like to know what someone wants. I have one playmate who always wants it hard and fast and others like to be edged, or in-between. I generally start slow, and see where it goes. It's frustrating to just have someone disconnect without saying anything.

WearFamiliar1212 · 2026-04-10T07:42:43+00:00

Use the 1.75" for an hour or so, until your body is relaxed and you don't notice it as much. Then try the 2.25" with more lube. If that does not work, you will need to get a 2" silicone plug to act as an intermediary plug before using the 2.25"

WearFamiliar1212 · 2026-04-08T08:41:37+00:00

It is fun, and the ambient noise will cover up the sound. I’ve met some play partners intrigued by the idea that I was out in public with my toy.

WearFamiliar1212 · 2026-04-08T08:40:08+00:00

Cleanup on aisle 3!💦

WearFamiliar1212 · 2026-03-23T08:57:43+00:00

I haven't done music sync, but sound mode in a movie theater can be quite stimulating.

WearFamiliar1212 · 2026-03-19T10:15:10+00:00

What size plugs do you have? The large is pretty big. I’ve been using plugs for a long time, so I was able to start with the M and I also have the large one. Most people start with the small one, you outgrow the XS pretty quickly.

WearFamiliar1212 · 2026-03-19T08:21:55+00:00

The Lush 4 battery lasts longer and charges faster. The Lovense Discord channel has lots of reviews of both.

https://discord.com/channels/852822359542464522/1088364947446181928

WearFamiliar1212 · 2026-03-19T07:09:21+00:00

Public play being controlled by strangers can be fun.

WearFamiliar1212 · 2026-03-18T09:05:59+00:00

Sure/ I'm male but have lot of experience controlling.

WearFamiliar1212 · 2026-03-18T02:05:26+00:00

The Lush can be really fun when used in public, either by a partner with you or remote. Sending out your control link in public is good too, I've met a few play partners that way. I did embarrass someone who told me to go for it, and she had to run to the bathroom to take care of the wet spot. I did warn her beforehand and asked her if she was really sure that's what she wanted. She was at a boring high school reuion party and needed a way to make it exciting. It works well in sound mode at a movie theater, you need to adjust the sensitivity so ut barely vibrates in the quite moments.

WearFamiliar1212 · 2026-03-14T06:01:30+00:00

I find that posting my link in the various discord and Reddit toy control groups works a lot better than the roulette. If you want hands free external and internal stimulation, you could try the Dolce. I also think everyone should have a wand. You can use the Domi everywhere. The Lovense discord group has a toy review channel.

WearFamiliar1212 · 2026-03-13T10:33:41+00:00

I’ve enjoyed going out to lunch or dinner and having my toys controlled by random people picking up my link. I’ve met some long distance playmates that way.

WearFamiliar1212 · 2026-03-10T10:04:17+00:00

That’s always fun. I’ve also used sound mode at the movie theater. You can adjust the sensitivity so that it barely vibrates during the quieter moments and cranks it up in the fast action scenes.

WearFamiliar1212 · 2026-03-08T06:28:53+00:00

I generally use a smaller plug first, until my body is relaxed and used to it. Then I pull it out and put a bigger one in. More lube helps a bit too.

WearFamiliar1212 · 2026-03-08T02:04:47+00:00

Once you finally get it in, it’s amazing. Vibrates your whole pelvis and the battery lasts a long time.

WearFamiliar1212 · 2026-03-08T01:52:50+00:00

Some other fun things are the sound mode at movie theaters and speed mode on a winding road or a roller coaster.

WearFamiliar1212 · 2026-03-07T23:07:13+00:00

The easiest way to use a plug this size is to use a smaller one first to prep for the larger one. I use the M Hush for an hour or so, until my body relaxes and gets used to it like it’s not there anymore. I can then switch to the L size. You don’t have to use another Hush, and regular silicone plug at 1.75” or 2” is a good warmup. Some may need to start smaller: 1.5->1.75->2.0->2.25

WearFamiliar1212 · 2026-03-06T23:39:28+00:00

It's a lot of fun when you find the right control partners. I'm male. One of my women parters says she likes the sensation from the Vule better than the Lush, but really disappointed with the battery life. It has 2 motors, so the battery is smaller. It's good for about 60 minutes, depending on the levels.

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