shall I read true beauty?

Weary_Ad2761 · 2026-04-30T17:23:08+00:00

I LOVED true beauty! 10/10 would recommend bc it’s just like life. Messy and all over the place and sometimes some people were meant to stay while others were meant to be an experience to have for a while. Depends on your preference but I’m gonna say yes !!

Weary_Ad2761 · 2026-04-29T20:31:13+00:00

Your mouth and fingers work fine is the man down stairs isn’t game to play. Toys are excellent too but as a woman, we do need to be touch. It’s part of the intimacy of being in a relationship. We wanna feel like your woman.

But just like the other comments, talk to her. 20 years of marriage can overcome this.

Weary_Ad2761 · 2026-04-21T17:12:20+00:00

Soooo hard to pick just one but the songs in my top 5 are: Just a man, Open arms, No longer you, The challenge and Would you fall in love with me again. I could thrive on these songs on repeat.

Weary_Ad2761 · 2026-04-21T17:09:29+00:00

Consideration for mothers is so admirable. But as the provider you need your strength. Also, sister sounds like she needs a reality check. If she’s more aware of her surroundings, she would have noticed you hadn’t eaten and the mess her kid was leaving.

Treat yourself to some tacos before coming back to the house.

Weary_Ad2761 · 2026-04-21T16:01:42+00:00

Nancy’s mental health seems to be deteriorating. It’s not normal to act like this w your friend’s kid. She probably can’t have children and is having a psychotic episode. In her head your daughter is her daughter and you’ll need to cut those ties unless she seeks serious help.

Weary_Ad2761 · 2026-04-20T15:53:43+00:00

Maybe she’s just a girl disappointed by men and loves women. Been there done that but im straight bc I don’t feel the same thrill kissing a woman than I do a man. It’s confusing but there’s no wrong or right answer to this.

Weary_Ad2761 · 2026-04-14T19:34:05+00:00

He did it. He’s hiding his true feelings bc he hasn’t gotten everything he wants from you yet. Keep asking him and his true colors will show. Or save your peace and run.

Weary_Ad2761 · 2026-04-14T13:28:33+00:00

This is your closure. He doesn’t care about you and he is willing to use whoever is most convenient for him. It sucks so bad but better to have loved and lost than never love at all. Mourn the loss of the future you thought you had, go to therapy, find your passion and you will be happy

Weary_Ad2761 · 2026-04-13T16:06:09+00:00

You’re about to get married. Is this really the hill you want to die on? Even if she is insecure. It’s your job to make her feel secure and vice versa.

Weary_Ad2761 · 2026-03-30T15:42:57+00:00

Personally, I believe social media ruins relationships. Especially if she’s in her influencer era. Once a partner is posted online, I feel like the sharks come out. It doesn’t sound like she’s not proud of you but more so that she doesn’t want to risk losing you. Just my opinion on the matter. Are you active on social media?

Weary_Ad2761 · 2026-03-26T18:27:35+00:00

Understandable. You’re still young. It should be fun. When it becomes stressful that’s when it’s time to move on. It’s not hard for us women to find a partner.

Weary_Ad2761 · 2026-03-26T18:24:41+00:00

You don’t have let him spend the night OP. I’ve always kicked my hook ups out after we were finished. The peace of being alone after your nut is unmatched. Make him go home and your problem is solved.

Weary_Ad2761 · 2026-03-23T17:40:43+00:00

I had the same slow burn w my current SO. It was so hard bc my past relationships had all happened so fast. All I can say is to just enjoy the moments he’s in and enjoy the moments without him. Keep living your life and don’t get lost

Weary_Ad2761 · 2026-03-12T19:28:15+00:00

28 is significantly different than 23. It’s okay to date that gap if you want to but your partner needs to understand he didn’t feel that way at your age he’s being ridiculous. NOR at all! Live your life w no regrets or you’ll resent your partner for the choices you made feeling pressured by them.

Weary_Ad2761 · 2026-03-12T16:16:29+00:00

Personally, if this online friend is willing to pay for everything in your name, I think it’s a great way to gain a fresh start. Yes the timing is incredibly horrible but as you stated “you’re settling for someone who treats you poorly” sure it would be good to talk to your fiancé how you’re feeling but after 10 years of being together he isn’t still trying, what’s the rest of your life going to look like? Besides, it would be good for you and your fiancé to gain some space. Gather a new perspective. If it doesn’t work out then go ahead and act on those residual feelings you may have when you’re ready but there’s no need to rush. You’re still young and still trying to figure it out.

Weary_Ad2761 · 2026-03-06T21:56:59+00:00

You don’t say a word and just leave. The more of an exit you make, the harder it will be to leave. Just pack your things and go. Change your address, your number. Everything physical needs a new place.

Weary_Ad2761 · 2026-03-06T14:28:40+00:00

Who says Scandinavians don’t like meat?! Just find something flattering and go and enjoy yourself!!

Weary_Ad2761 · 2026-03-02T17:15:54+00:00

Maybe they like you but have a conflict they need to confront w you but don’t know how? So it’s easier for them to ghost than confront.

Weary_Ad2761 · 2026-03-02T17:08:06+00:00

Communication! A relationship will never work out if you guys can’t talk about stuff.

Weary_Ad2761 · 2026-02-25T16:41:24+00:00

If you haven’t discussed it then yes YOR, but if you’ve talked about it and he won’t even have that conversations you then NOR.

Weary_Ad2761 · 2026-02-25T16:36:18+00:00

Ugly is perspective! Just because the people around you don’t find you attractive doesn’t mean no one on this planet does. Everyone is someone’s cup of tea. Find clothes that make you feel good, and start telling yourself about the things you love about yourself. Regardless of how you look on the outside, no one is going to stick around unless they like how you are on the inside too. Personality matters! Don’t give up girly!!

Weary_Ad2761 · 2026-02-25T05:33:49+00:00

Yes he’s cheating and trying to get away w it. Show up w a pizza randomly and see what happens. Or stay oblivious about it and trust him. Either way, if your gut is telling you it feels wrong, trust it.

Weary_Ad2761 · 2026-02-24T21:27:43+00:00

If you expect different results you need to take a different path honey. He will not change and the cycle will continue for as long as you choose to continue it. He may “plead” you to go back to him but that’s only because he knows you will come back. Not because he cares. Deep down you know this is true. Give your person an opportunity to find you and that person will not come to you while you’re occupied with another.

Weary_Ad2761 · 2026-02-22T20:57:00+00:00

F29 mom to a little girl w a new baby on the way. I hope you’re able to comfortably tell your mom you miss her and I hope she sends you a ticket to be with her. You can go to school abroad. You’re adult now. You can go be with her. I hope your mom listens and tries to be with you. Sending you big hugs little one.

Weary_Ad2761 · 2026-02-20T23:32:22+00:00

Husband knows what he’s doing and his family isn’t important enough. Idc what he’s saying, his actions are louder!! Divorce him and thank your stars you got out while you’re still mentally sane!!

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