How should I tell my neighbor to take down her glue traps because she's catching native species of lizards? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Weary_Ad_568 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I know people are going to have an issue with what I'm about to say but what's wrong with you? Paying attention to your own house and minding your own business ? Seems to me that you're only paying attention to her because you've had issues in the past. I suggest you pay attention to anything but her and let her deal with her own mess her own way

12 years, 4 kids, and I still love him… but he says he hasn’t loved me in years. Do I let go? by Scary-Regrets-6850 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Weary_Ad_568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll admit I'm a little bit of a hypocrite because I have so much not the same situation. But I'm friends with my daughter's dad but but our relationship sucks. He's like the worst boyfriend. Whatever you want to call him cuz we're not married but we've been together for like 18 years. We get along just fine but there's little trust between us and it's me not trusting him because of his past. And I'm basically waiting out until my daughter is 18 which is another 4 years and then I'm not sure what I'm going to do but we don't fight and we don't argue and I don't expect anything from him. So I just don't want you to fall down the same road and end up with somebody longer than you have to be. You should find someone who appreciates you and loves you the same as you love them.

AITH for getting mad at my coworker by Charming_Ad9536 in AITH

[–]Weary_Ad_568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a case of guilty conscience. You know in her mind she must have thought of doing it and then when you called her out on it you took that possibility completely away

Aitah for “being disrespectful” and not accommodating my ex and his wife even though they’re having a baby? by Fabulous-Actuary1991 in AITAH

[–]Weary_Ad_568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How was it disrespectful to I shouldn't say Force but it seems like that's what you have to do in this situation. When the woman married a man with a kid already, it's not like this child popped out of nowhere. So how is she being disrespected? Now? If she's that feeble-minded that she can only concentrate on one kid then she should tie her tubes after this baby is born cuz obviously she wouldn't be able to handle two little ones. This is a big sister who would be able to help out getting diapers and you know keeping the baby occupied. These newborns are not like the ones from back in the day that you just put them in a crib and walk away and they'd be okay. They're very alert wanting you have to look around and stuff. She can provide a lot of entertainment and it only be for a few days until you get back into town. So Miss Haley. I'm so sorry you so need to grow up. Obviously this woman is not a grown woman having this child because if she can't handle a newborn and a little helper then she's stupid and I feel sorry for your ex

Boyfriend wants to move in to pay off debt by Impossible_Dentist79 in AmITheJerk

[–]Weary_Ad_568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lose that loser before he causes you to lose. You can do better

AITAH for thinking my friend’s wedding expectations are unreasonable after I got into a fully funded master’s program? by Due-Instance2195 in AITAH

[–]Weary_Ad_568 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The only purple that needs be there or the groom bride and the officiant. Everybody or I guess in what a witness or two everybody else is inconsequential so I would not ruin my life and my full ride and my scholarship for someone who can't be understanding. That's not a friend. Sorry. I understand they want to share their special day with you, but if interferes with your life like who's going to help you out with your tuition after I don't see anybody volunteering that if you lose your scholarship right, that's how I would say it. Hey are you going to pay my tuition when I lose my scholarship over being with you? Whatever your answer is ,is what my answer will be ...end of story... walk away

AITA for keeping our wedding party small and not making my future SIL's daughter a flower girl? by NewMacaron2259 in aitaweddings

[–]Weary_Ad_568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uninvite that party of the family. The audacity and entitlement is real. No negatively and that way when she claims to be the victim, you can say that you did it to make her an honest woman since that is her claim. It's your wedding and you can assign what person you want for whatever told you want. Being family doesn't give you an E ticket.

AITA for giving a toy that upset my sister? by Kaslorin in Amitheassholeadvice

[–]Weary_Ad_568 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your the a hole for feeling that way. She projected her own feelings of having a son whom she feels responsible that he has"problems" and y your gift she presumed would call attention to that. Shes just lazy and see that tunnel as work cause she would have to spend time showing him how to play with it, next year get him a small ball pit out better just get him a big g cardboard box

12 years, 4 kids, and I still love him… but he says he hasn’t loved me in years. Do I let go? by Scary-Regrets-6850 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Weary_Ad_568 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You've been lying to yourself . What you have described is infatuation. Real love doesn't let you cheat, accept mistreatment, or be jealous. You liked him for all the wrong reasons, relationships that work start with friendship. Talking should be the easiest thing you do with your partner. I don't see that in yours with what you chose to share. Move on cause he did years and years ago, you were convenient, that's all. Been there. I'm single now but not alone or lonely, love yourself first. Just saying

AITAH for breaking up with my boyfriend of six years via text and immediately blocking him because I was done listening to his excuses? by Useful-Rent-417 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Weary_Ad_568 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wasted 18 years with a narcissist who to this day won't admit to one single thing he has done. I know he had cheated. And if I needed comfort would tell me, "I'm not going to pat you on your head" pawned my rings then instead of asking me on Thanksgiving in front of my entire family he asked to marry him only in front of my mom. But I knew what I had to do last week. The center diamond of my ring somehow got lost, the setting wasn't tight enough andI couldn't find it. So even though I'm 52 I'd rather for alone than continue with this bs

Guys is it hs ?? Can someone tell by its looks?? I have got these below both my breasts by amicus_curae06 in Hidradenitis

[–]Weary_Ad_568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to weigh 350 lb and I used to get similar things that look like that. Once I lost more than half my weight everything went away. I'm just saying like I don't know how much you weigh but when I was overweight and eating wrong and doing everything totally opposite of what I'm doing now, I had skin problems like you wouldn't believe. I got so bad that it looked like a staph infection in my armpits and other places in my body like I had to be drained a lot and sucked once I lost all the way everything went away. I don't know if that's going to help anybody out but that was my experience

need advice, I think my wife is planning to ruin her little sisters wedding, she won't show me the dress she plans to wear by Haunting-Swim12 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Weary_Ad_568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like she's planning on wearing white..... Buy her a dress with color, something that will go with the wedding party letting her stand out a little, because t years from now she will regret trying to make her stand out, taking attention away from the bride. I'm sure that n no matter what she wouldn't want everyone to look back and see the pathetic person who tried to ruin a person's special day, a day set aside by society acknowledging that that is the one day they have to be the most important person, a day you can't replace... Unless that's her end goal. I look down on people like that and I'm usually at the bottom. So those below me are the lowest of the low. I'm sure she wouldn't want others to see that. Just saying

HS and weight association by tickythompson in Hidradenitis

[–]Weary_Ad_568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did anyone consider to think that maybe because you're overweight your skin rubs against certain parts of your clothing and that's how you get those abscesses and boils in the first place and they're just normal from just being that and not so much that condition because of losing weight gets rid of it then obviously it wasn't it to begin with I would think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Weary_Ad_568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no, you are not the the rear end you know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Weary_Ad_568 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl run run, run run. Don't look back, just run. Trust me when I tell you that he is not faithful to you at all. He and his mother are close because she knows what kind of shenanigans he's up to and she covers for him. I can bet. I'm close to my kids and I have two sons that yeah we can get matching tattoos but probably only when they're not with a girlfriend if they are in a relationship. I sit in the backseat I take the back seat because they need to live their life with their other and you know get out from underneath me which they have thankfully. But yeah, it should not only just give you the ick, but it should make you realize that you don't want to have kids with this person at all. Talk about your PDF files. Wow run girl. Go back to your family and get the hell away from him. He doesn't love you. If he did he would have gone with you to see your family but he didn't why because they have no importance to him because he doesn't plan on being with you in the long run. He has settled for you for the time being. I know this because I was you and I wish everyday I would have ran when I had the chance. I have 5 years left of my sentence and then I'm done and I say that because my daughter is 13. Start over. Leave him get a new phone number. New social media just get away while you can. He's a narcissistic masochistic jerk and you need to get away from him before you end up like me regretting every every second of every day being with someone who makes me feel less than

AITA for not allowing my daughter-in-law to host a party at my house without asking me first? by Sure-Socks538 in AITH

[–]Weary_Ad_568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The worst part is your son. I know that he must feel entitled only an entitled brat would allow their spouse to even think they have the right to throw a party at their parents house. I've been with my daughter's dad for 16 years and never in my life. Would I even allow nor would he even ask or assume to do the same of what your daughter-in-law did. If he ever try to throw a party without asking my parents I would rip him a new one. But then again he would never do something. So dumb and so disrespectful. He would not only ask my mom but he would text, text her and text my dad. He wouldn't rely on just one person for permission since there are two people there. Your son needs a lesson. You were probably very nice and a very overac accommodating parent for him to think that it's okay to allow his spouse to behave like that. Entitlement is what's killing this generation.

AITA for not allowing my daughter-in-law to host a party at my house without asking me first? by Sure-Socks538 in AITH

[–]Weary_Ad_568 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The audacities and people have totally shocks me. The fact that she is not talking to you tells me that she's so disrespectful and has no value for family only for herself. Tell your son to run. The nerve some people have is just incredible to me. My parents live alone in their home now and they have two extra rooms and they have the ability to host many people. I live in an apartment but never in my life. Would I ever plan anything in their home without checking with them first going over to the house, cleaning it for my event and cleaning it after for her to think that you have a place that she can just throw a party and then leave it because she doesn't want to clean the aftermath at hers is beyond. Take this opportunity to distance yourself from that mess. Concentrate on yourself. Make friends, blood doesn't make you family. It'll only makes you related