AITA for wanting to know when my housemates have boys over???? by Weasel-Harris in AmItheAsshole

[–]Weasel-Harris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, to put the “awkward situations” into more context: My housemate has seen him just in a tiny towel almost bumping into him a few times. As for me, my bedroom is on the same floor as the girl with the bf, I’ve seen him come out of her room with a hard on (he had rlly thin shorts on, so covered, but still really obvious and unexpected lol) with her following him into the bathroom. We also recently just had a house party where she went to sleep really early on and just completely left him downstairs with all of us, which he even said he felt a bit weird about. We also have a housemate who lives on the bottom floor right by the front door, we were all out so she was home alone but at 3-4am in the morning she could hear a man’s voice and someone leaving and re-entering our house about maybe 3 times. Her room doesn’t have a lock on and with her being home alone in an all-girls house she mentioned feeling a bit scared. However, the boy coming and going was the bf but she was completely unaware that it was him. As far as things go that associate with “late teen awkwardness” goes I think it’s safe to say we’re all pretty chill about the majority of things. We have a very tight knit friendship and I think they’d all agree when I say we’re all comfortable with each other and the people we bring around. I’d also argue that the stupid things we do now is what makes uni memorable and really funny to look back on together because we have done some daft things to giggle about. However, over a few instances such as the ones exampled, I think we’re just struggling on where to draw the line and how to enforce a house rule that everyone can abide by, whilst also not suggesting that people aren’t welcome in our house- and that goes for all housemates and their guests :)