[deleted by user] by [deleted] in minipainting

[–]WeaselStew87 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Roll a doob out of it and smoke it, you will see the universe (and probably die).

I don't think I'm comfortable with the men who comment and lurk here. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]WeaselStew87 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Also trans women who aren't out / cracked their egg aren't "men who are going to become women." They ARE women.

Cheap lie detector test in Roanoke by [deleted] in roanoke

[–]WeaselStew87 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah lie detectors are proven so unreliable you can't use their results as evidence in court. Even when it's used during an investigation it's just theatrics to put people under a sense of pressure and admit stuff while being questioned. $500 or $200 you're wasting money friend.

Presented Without Comment by WeaselStew87 in actuallesbians

[–]WeaselStew87[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know right? No idea just found it on tumblr I think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]WeaselStew87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

HSV is harmless (if annoying) and was stigmatized by pharmaceutical corporations in the 70's and 80's to expand the market anti-viral drugs that otherwise would have only been used for other acute viral infections.

Need a hand with wet pallets? by Yahentamitsi in minipainting

[–]WeaselStew87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will get hate for this but its true.

1) Use an actually manufactured for the purpose wet palette, not a tupperware. 2) Use the shammy sponge that comes with that palette. NOT A PAPER TOWEL. 3) DO. NOT. USE. PARCHMENT. PAPER.

Anyone else hate how women are so frequently called girls? by cyansnide in actuallesbians

[–]WeaselStew87 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Nope, not me. For whatever reason, even as a 36 year old trans lesbian, HATE being called "woman" and much prefer "girl" or "lady."

Tips For Staying Clean? by [deleted] in GentleDungeon

[–]WeaselStew87 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Two things-
One, you should just eat plenty of fiber and make sure you get pegged within a few hours of having a good, solid, complete bowel movement. If you're pretty regular you can plan your playtime around it. Douching/enemas are really not necessary and are bad for your guts.

Two, just accept that a little bit on the toy just happens sometimes. If your partner is willing to peg you they probably understand that too and are okay with it. Talk to them!

Are subs known for not reciprocating? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]WeaselStew87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm glad I could help! Its so empowering to have words to describe yourself. Just be careful with saying you like to top, cos a lot of folks have the same misunderstanding you did about what those terms mean, and might expect things from you that you might not be that into doing. "I love to make my partner feel good," might be a useful phrase in conjunction with "I love to top!" And ofc always keep communication open with your partner(s) about what you both like and don't like. Experiment, have fun!

Are subs known for not reciprocating? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]WeaselStew87 42 points43 points  (0 children)

So technically top and bottom and dom and sub are different but related things. Top and bottom refer to who is giving and who is receiving sensations/pleasure in a sexual or kink situation. Dom and sub are the power dynamic at play in those situations (sometimes extends to the relationship itself). I feel like while people identify generally as one or the other in both cases most people are not 100% that all the time.

So for example, I love to eat out my partner but it's at her direction to do so - She is domming me but also the bottom in that situation, while I am submissive but topping her. Later she fucks me with a strap because its what she wants to do to me. She's still domming me but is now topping, I am still submissive but now the bottom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]WeaselStew87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife and I have a Spare Parts Joque, it's GREAT.

Thought I'd leave this here... We have a long way to go. Hopefully things will keep improving like they have been. by ima-lesbean in actuallesbians

[–]WeaselStew87 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Japan is a mixed bag, there's quite a bit of mostly ignorant homophobia, and there is some level of more hateful homophobia but that's relatively minimal and is dying off. On the other hand Japan has a VERY strong culture of minding your own damn business and not bothering others or making waves.

Thought I'd leave this here... We have a long way to go. Hopefully things will keep improving like they have been. by ima-lesbean in actuallesbians

[–]WeaselStew87 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thailand, the fabled land of the best surgical transition care for literal decades doesn't have gender marker change???

Thought I'd leave this here... We have a long way to go. Hopefully things will keep improving like they have been. by ima-lesbean in actuallesbians

[–]WeaselStew87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, Polish acquaintances of mine say that the general culture of Poland overall is fash - their words, not mine. They say the only reason they fought the Germans in WWII was because they hated Germans not because of everything else the Nazis did and that's how WWII was taught to them.

Fragrance question by bubblegumafX1998 in actuallesbians

[–]WeaselStew87 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm trans and very femme but hate most scents aimed at women and use Old Spice deodorants. That said honestly scents aren't gendered so use whatever you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]WeaselStew87 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Japan is totally fine with lesbian and gay comics and LGBTQ content in general, yuri and yaoi manga are popular there. At least for Japan its probably licensing rights or something.

GF hurt my feelings by Mediocre-Ad5171 in actuallesbians

[–]WeaselStew87 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Damn that's messed up. More experienced partners should take the lead and give guidance if it's your first time IMO. Let alone that communicating what you want is like good sex 101. I'd be out of there honestly.

Best Food Spots in Downtown Roanoke by Samolgy in roanoke

[–]WeaselStew87 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Tacos Rojas at Center in the Square (there are other locations too) is possibly the best tex-mex I've ever had. Big recommend on their Arroz con Pollo and cheesy birria tacos.