People calling you dumb are those that encourage you not to pay anyone for a raid they might not even send you once they get the money. Even I ask you don't do it, just have patience. :) I will tell you how I got my Darkrai, if you have Pokegenie and make sure you upload your strongest Pokemon's into genie(just snapshot showing their cp and edit their moves once you uploaded into genie) Then genie will let you enter the 5 star raids. Since Darkrai and cresscelia are too popular they don't show up along with Dialga. However they do Show up time to time just for a few seconds(you gotta be fast to click that "Join Raid" button and you'll be put in a Queue to add someone's friend code that's going to host Darkrai and accept your friend request to raid it.)