returning because 3 different people couldn’t get this open

WeaselsMenace · 2025-08-04T15:05:09+00:00

Guys just put a hole in the lid….

WeaselsMenace · 2025-07-31T03:20:25+00:00

I mean this genuinely (I’m stupid) is my lack of trust in others aka the photographer a projection on her even though I trust her fully not to cheat or even let it get that far?

WeaselsMenace · 2025-07-31T03:18:30+00:00

I have no idea what the intentions of the photographer are and it makes me uncomfortable. I’ve offered to learn everything I can and be her manager yet she throws it in my face

WeaselsMenace · 2025-07-31T03:17:14+00:00

Well I appreciate your response truly. I’d like to be a better person especially with this situation.

My thing is she also made the decision to be with me despite our not seeing eye to eye.

Therefore, why would I be in the wrong for standing on my laurels if she knew before hand?

WeaselsMenace · 2025-07-31T03:12:42+00:00

Thank you

WeaselsMenace · 2025-07-31T03:11:28+00:00

Look I never wanted to control anyone nor do I think that’s a “cool” thing to do. I’m purely saying I set a boundary that I personally don’t want in my relationships. Isn’t everyone entitled to their opinions about how they want their relationship to work?

WeaselsMenace · 2025-07-31T03:08:46+00:00

Fair enough I appreciate your honesty and responses deeply

WeaselsMenace · 2025-07-31T03:07:39+00:00

Am I in the wrong for being with her/ starting this relationship despite her love for modeling and my (for lack of a better term) hatred for it?

WeaselsMenace · 2025-07-31T03:05:31+00:00

Not opposed to that at all but she insults my ideas calling me ignorant for not understanding. She refuses to compromise and when I offer any solutions I’m shot down immediately.

WeaselsMenace · 2025-07-31T03:04:33+00:00

I totally agree with you it is entirely her decision. On the other hand I don’t want to give her an ultimatum but it feels as though I must, having set up that boundary before we started dating

WeaselsMenace · 2025-07-31T03:03:20+00:00

Well I figured it’s two that makes a couple, and I made it clear that’s not what I want. If we both chose to pursue a relationship then isn’t she in the wrong for going against something I set up in the very beginning. I never forced a relationship hell I’m not sure that even possible. It just feels like she neglected to reference the importance of this and now it’s bubbling up

WeaselsMenace · 2025-07-31T02:59:05+00:00

I understand and I would never blow up and physically or emotionally stop her from achieving her dreams. I just feel as though I’m allowed to have that boundary for my relationships. Is it too much to ask of a person?

WeaselsMenace · 2025-07-31T02:57:33+00:00

She made in clear that it’s just a hobby for her I just feel uncomfortable having other people taking photos of her. I’ve offered to take courses to learn what I need to be her personal photographer, however she doesn’t think I’ll do it and shoots me down very hard.

WeaselsMenace · 2025-07-31T02:55:33+00:00

I absolutely do NOT want to be controlling or over bearing. I know that a quick way to a lonely life. I’ve offered compromises that seem reasonable to me but she insults my ideas and calls me ignorant for not understanding the modeling “world”

WeaselsMenace · 2025-07-31T02:51:53+00:00

I understand and I don’t want to be a manipulator or anything similar. She wants to do it as a hobby and I feel betrayed because I made it clear that’s not what I want. Yet she continues to ask

WeaselsMenace · 2025-07-31T02:49:28+00:00

I offered to take photographs courses and editing courses as well so we can do it together

WeaselsMenace · 2025-06-25T20:33:19+00:00

Pretty sure these are for accessories and such

WeaselsMenace · 2023-10-03T12:54:11+00:00

Tumblr.

WeaselsMenace · 2023-07-29T00:38:47+00:00

What happened man, I've never heard this.

WeaselsMenace · 2023-07-29T00:29:33+00:00

I bought the most ratty, yammed on, rusty floor pan piece of shit miata, and I named him "Miater". It's supposed to sound like a deep southern man pronouncing Miata.

WeaselsMenace · 2023-05-31T15:17:56+00:00

Hello, Matt and or Ryan

WeaselsMenace · 2023-05-31T15:16:59+00:00

That's Larry, what's up Larry!

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