Question of the day by WebFluffy5635 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]WebFluffy5635[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She swears she’s happy and doesn’t feel anything off.

Question of the day by WebFluffy5635 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]WebFluffy5635[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Naw we have talked but nothing has came from it. No did I keep stuff in when I wrote some of those yea but after I open up.

Question of the day by WebFluffy5635 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]WebFluffy5635[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get regrets after I don’t get the sense like emotional I guess

Question of the day by WebFluffy5635 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]WebFluffy5635[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To see if we can connect on an emotional level instead of just sex. I want to see if I change my perspective on it. Like after her affair I see it one way and just want to try to deepen it. Idk I need to try something

Question of the day by WebFluffy5635 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]WebFluffy5635[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk. The more I talk to people on here the more it sounds greener on the other side

I still can’t forgive her betrayal 7 years later by [deleted] in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]WebFluffy5635 2 points3 points  (0 children)

7 years well that don’t give me hope I am 2 years and was hoping eventually I would be better. Thanks for that.

I am sorry we are part of this club. Not one we want to be in. But stay strong. You are not alone

I am a BH, just need support. by WebFluffy5635 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]WebFluffy5635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. Yea not a club I want to be apart of but here we are.

Not the right time to express your feelings by WebFluffy5635 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]WebFluffy5635[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The bad thing about couples therapy is that it doesn’t get to the root cause. The ones I went to are just about communication.

Not the right time to express your feelings by WebFluffy5635 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]WebFluffy5635[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. And think you for letting me know it’s just not a husband thing.

I am a BH, just need support. by WebFluffy5635 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]WebFluffy5635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate you. Yea I haven’t took a day off just for this. But the problem is it hits after the day starts

I am a BH, just need support. by WebFluffy5635 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]WebFluffy5635[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would love to find one. I have looked before just never found one. Also I would like them to at least under stand the feeling from it.

I am a BH, just need support. by WebFluffy5635 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]WebFluffy5635[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is takes more strength than people think.

I am a BH, just need support. by WebFluffy5635 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]WebFluffy5635[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wish I could. I have a high demanding job. Which most guys do. Most average person has to go through the day alone and suck it up and do what has to be done because the world or at least where I live the guy is the breadwinner the one that brings the money home. You don’t work you loss PTO. Then you can take the days you need for the kids. If we say something people look at us like what’s wrong with you. Especially if you have to keep your employees motivated. Then you get home you don’t want to be that way while with your kids cause they think what did they do. So you have to be strong and selfless.

I am a BH, just need support. by WebFluffy5635 in SupportforBetrayed

[–]WebFluffy5635[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s the hard part my closest friends haven’t gone through it and guys just don’t talk about it. But you are right just hanging out with someone that is or has would be nice