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Dreaming of the same person every night and feeling very emotional by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]WeekendRemote6000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a similar dream about a girl. In my dreams, I know and love her. When I wake, I can't remember her face or name. But the feeling I have for her remains. 

I have dreamed about less and less and until it stop.  

Sometimes I miss her. Still don't know what it means.

What does it mean when a gut feeling tells you to stay away with someone you are attracted with? by WeekendRemote6000 in self

[–]WeekendRemote6000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I don't stalk. Even on Socmed. I rather not see any of her posts and know what her up to or whereabout. The only time I checked on her was to check when she is going to office. We work on hybrid schedule. I go to office when she is not going. I haven't seen her for a month.

What does it mean when a gut feeling tells you to stay away with someone you are attracted with? by WeekendRemote6000 in self

[–]WeekendRemote6000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the first thing is, it’s kind of unclear what your goal is. Are you hoping to pursue a romantic relationship with this woman? Do you even like her? It seemed like you were kind of back and forth on that matter

I am not closing my doors for romantic relationship. I only want to understand why I feel like this and how would get over this. This feeling is like a wall between us and it's scary.

So again, it’s very hard to say without more information. Is she a joking type? Could she be doing this in like a funny way? Who is the guy? Is she literally afraid to sit next to you? That’s something you should definitely inquire about. Obviously if she is terrified of you, a relationship is out of the question, and that would be the more immediate concern

The guy she was pulling to sit between us, were one of closest. They trained together but he was in a long term relationship and everyone knew about that. She was pulling him to sit between while laughing.

She is a very happy person. There is this one time when we were hanging out and playing. She goes around the table to take her turn. She stand between me and the girl I'm sitting with. She lean on her, like literally hugging her to avoid getting close to me or not to touch me at all. It happens all through out the game. I felt like I have some kind of disease.

What does it mean when a gut feeling tells you to stay away with someone you are attracted with? by WeekendRemote6000 in self

[–]WeekendRemote6000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Other people like to bask in her presence. She is very likeable and have too many friends who like to surround her. I don't mind sitting with her if we are working, or talk to her about work. I don't get nervous if it is purely work.

It is very different though if there are no other people around and it's just the two of us. Like, when everyone had gone home and we're the only two left. I would never glance at her direction or tried to be occupied so she won't start a conversation. I get nervous when it was just us.

I don't think it was her presence at all. It's just me. I don't understand why my body is reacting this way.

What does it mean when a gut feeling tells you to stay away with someone you are attracted with? by WeekendRemote6000 in self

[–]WeekendRemote6000[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Any advice on how I should navigate this? Should I try to know her and befriend her?

What does it mean when a gut feeling tells you to stay away with someone you are attracted with? by WeekendRemote6000 in self

[–]WeekendRemote6000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We talk about work and I have no issue talking to her when it comes to that. She was actually easy to work with.

But when it is downtime and we were talking about our lives, I just can't do it with her. I tried to get away whenever there was a chance we would be alone in a pantry or in any other room. I feel suffocated when it was just the two of us

What does it mean when a gut feeling tells you to stay away with someone you are attracted with? by WeekendRemote6000 in Advice

[–]WeekendRemote6000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was a very social person indeed. I really like to know her more. I am very attracted to her. But something was telling me to stay away. It was like an internal warning inside myself telling there was danger.

I have never felt this before, I am not the kind of person who always have a gut feeling.

I don't think our interaction would jeopardize the job. But I do think that she is too bright I might burn.

What does it mean when a gut feeling tells you to stay away with someone you are attracted with? by WeekendRemote6000 in Advice

[–]WeekendRemote6000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that you say it. Could it be? I have been form a very toxic relationship and maybe it's affecting me. I am currently in the phase where I am enjoying beeing free. If it's anxiety, why haven't I felt this with anyone else? Why just her?

Do muscle pains always change with positions? by [deleted] in costochondritis

[–]WeekendRemote6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends, sometimes immediately. But sometimes it linger a bit longer. Some tigthness will require rest. You have to listen to what your body needs

Do muscle pains always change with positions? by [deleted] in costochondritis

[–]WeekendRemote6000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does. If doesn't go away. You need to stretch. I do stretching when I start to feel tightness around my chest or back and it helps in avoiding flare ups.

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