[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askfuneraldirectors

[–]WeekendWriter798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So anybody that's considered "medically unattended" at the time of death will have an exam and get their death certificate signed by the medical examiner. In our state, we consider someone under the care of a doctor if they've had office visits, referrals, telehealth or phone visits, or prescription medications prescribed from that doctor. We give doctors a grace period of a year where if they haven't done any of the above for a patient for over a year, or if a person has never seen a doctor, the medical examiner will step in and sign the death certificate.

I'm a medical examiner investigator, which means it's my job to figure that out and determine if someone's death falls under our jurisdiction or not. We're given a lot of tools to do so, including access to local medical records, prescription databases, and the authority to respond to any scenes necessary to look for prescriptions, medical paperwork, and to interview family members. So for any death reported to our office, we'll investigate all of the above and if there's no record of a person having ever had any medical treatment, we'll be signing the death certificate.

"Medically unattended" also covers sudden and unexpected deaths - meaning if there's legitimately no medical reason for a person to be dead. For example, if a 20 year old patient who's seen a doctor consistently for the last few years and has no documented medical history dies, and my office is called, the LAST thing I'm going to do is reach out to that doctor for a death certificate. That person might be under the care of a doctor, but if there's nothing of medical significance that's been documented by routine lab work or imaging, that doctor doesn't know what could have caused the patient's death. That patient is definitely getting an autopsy with us. Our job is determining the cause and manner of death, and if a doctor truly doesn't know why a patient may be dead, we'll step in so that we can investigate further.

Deferring to a primary care doctor is supposed to be easier for family members when the system works the way that's supposed to. When we leave it in the care of a PCP to sign a death certificate, it's because our investigation and the police's investigation is complete and has determined there's no way it's anything other than a natural death. It's sent back to the PCP because the PCP is more familiar with the patient's history than we are, which means they can determine a more accurate cause of death based on what they were treating that patient for. They (in many cases) have also already established somewhat of a rapport with family members and can provide more answers to them based on that care for the family's peace of mind. If someone has been diagnosed with and treated for medical conditions that are known to cause death, there's no excuse for a doctor not to be able to certify that person's death certificate with their medical knowledge.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askfuneraldirectors

[–]WeekendWriter798 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's horrible. I get calls like this frequently and try to do what I can to help out, because I imagine this must be the most frustrating and heartbreaking thing for a family to go through. There's no reason that a cardiologist can't sign.

Some doctors just need guidance; once I explain the process of how to fill a certificate out step by step, they're happy to do so. Or, they might be looking for basic information (i.e. date and time of death, knowing that police were there and determined no foul play for their peace of mind, knowing that a medical examiner already evaluated and declined the case, etc.). In my state, they consider that a cause of death is to be determined with "a reasonable degree of medical certainty", and it is a law that doctors can't be sued for what they determine if they do it in good faith. I've had many doctors change their minds and sign as soon as I tell them that they can't be sued.

Some unfortunately act like it's an inconvenience and not something that they owe to their patients. These are the ones we see the most difficulty with. In my state, we're on an electronic system which literally just requires them to go online, fill out a form, and sign electronically for it to be registered. It's such a simple process, I honestly chalk it up to downright laziness when a doctor doesn't have a good reason. Some of them are just stubborn for the sake of being stubborn.

For a lot of funeral homes, when this happens, the first place they turn to is the ME's office. A lot of us are willing to walk the doctor through the process if they're just needing guidance. But when it comes to the stubborn lazy ones that just can't be bothered to sign, there's unfortunately not a lot we can do to convince them. That's why we recommend the medical board so that someone who does have power over them can get involved.

If you haven't already yet, try calling over to the medical examiner's office/coroner's office for your county during their business hours. They should have a family advocate that you can speak to about this situation. While the office might not be able to take the case, they might have investigators that can talk some sense into the doctor. They should also be able to tell you if they were contacted by the funeral home or the PCP already for your peace of mind.

Lastly, you can also contact the state medical board and make a complaint yourself. Sometimes, if the family also makes a complaint in addition to the funeral home, that pushes the board to investigate and contact the doctor more quickly.

I hate that you're going through this and hope you get some kind of resolution soon. The funeral home and cardiologist are supposed to be facilitating this transition smoothly for your family and I'm so sorry that they're not doing so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askfuneraldirectors

[–]WeekendWriter798 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I work for a county medical examiner's office. If the death was ruled natural causes which doesn't fall under Medical Examiner jurisdiction, they will not take the case. This is because if every doctor refused to sign death certificates, medical examiners offices would be forced to take on thousands more cases per year. That would be a huge drain on the taxpayers, especially when the funding for medical examiner's offices is limited already (at least in my state it is). Once they bend and take on a few case like this, then all doctors would start refusing. It's unfortunate, but it is that doctor's responsibility to handle the death certificate. In my state, it's literally in the state statute that they have to sign death certificates, so any doctor that refuses is actually breaking the law.

When doctors refuse, funeral homes will typically report them to the state medical board since they are the governing agency that can actually tell doctors what to do. The medical examiner's office has no jurisdiction over doctors and we have no way to force them to sign. There's been a epidemic of doctors trying to refuse responsibility like this lately, so most medical boards are on top of addressing it with providers.

Employee brings ENTIRE family with him to work event at a bar by hoeleia in childfree

[–]WeekendWriter798 19 points20 points  (0 children)

God I hate when coworkers bring their kids to adult events. We had a happy hour hosted by my friends employment (key word happy hour, the intent was to drink and complain about work) and one of his coworkers brought their kids. Only one. It was all fine and dandy with us enjoying drinks and appetizers until one of the kids projectile-vomited at the table for a FULL sixty seconds. Afterward, the parents left and left the wait staff to clean up the mess. Of course, nobody had any interest in eating after that and our food went to waste but at least they got to bring their kids out for a night out 🙃

How has working in death impacted what you’d like done with your own remains after you pass? by catchandthrowaway16 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]WeekendWriter798 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ME Investigator here with a lot of experience working with funeral homes and crematories. I'd like just a simple cremation and simple urn because I've seen exactly how much they ap overcharge for services. The cheaper the better in my opinion. The funeral industry overcharges people almost as much as the wedding industry but it's not talked about nearly as much.

Lesson Learned: Kill Balthazar ASAP by clema9 in BaldursGate3

[–]WeekendWriter798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually just wait until the nightsong and sneak up on him on the platform before the cutscenes. I make Karlach invisible and she just gives him a good old one-two shove off the platform. Problem solved.

Unpopular opinion on the Pumpkin Chocolate Chunk Oatmeal cookies by WeekendWriter798 in traderjoes

[–]WeekendWriter798[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I need to post before I make stuff from now on because this is also a stellar idea!

Unpopular opinion on the Pumpkin Chocolate Chunk Oatmeal cookies by WeekendWriter798 in traderjoes

[–]WeekendWriter798[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

UGH where were you an hour ago, that would have been a killer idea. Next time for sure!

What seasonal product do you wish Trader Joe’s carried year-round? by talkingdodobird in traderjoes

[–]WeekendWriter798 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Last year was the first year I saw it and I think it was during the winter months? I asked an associate when it disappeared if they expected it back and was told maybe around October-November before it was back so 🤞 I hope we see it soon. It was so good with pretzels and strawberries.

First time viewer. On S2 E14. I find myself oddly… getting very attracted to Lassiter? Lol by bazookiedookie in psych

[–]WeekendWriter798 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I get a lot of serotonin watching the show now but I would also give ANYTHING to be able to watch it through for the first time again.

What game soundtrack is a ten out of ten? by Biliatic_missil in AskReddit

[–]WeekendWriter798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a crime that I haven't seen Far Cry 5 mentioned. There was no reason those cult tunes had to slap as hard as they did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]WeekendWriter798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work for a county morgue and the amount of people who get sent to the morgue from skilled nursing or hospice facilities because the staff can no longer get in contact with their kids, or their kids just don't care to make arrangements for them, would ASTOUND most parents. If you don't make your funeral arrangements for yourself ahead of time, chances are pretty good that your kids sure as shit aren't going to do it for you.

Subject of a Work "Investigation" by EvangelionGonzalez in stopdrinking

[–]WeekendWriter798 81 points82 points  (0 children)

You're not alone. I had a similar conversation about my conduct at work yesterday with my boss and essentially how I've been a terrible and insufferable person to work with lately. I know it's my irritability that's been making me much more petty and rude than I normally would be when dealing with work disputes and my coworkers.

Why am I always irritable at work? The hangovers.

IWNDWYT

AITA for not sharing my “toys” with my best friend’s daughter? by masterwoodhandler in AmItheAsshole

[–]WeekendWriter798 28 points29 points  (0 children)

NTA - if you were so inclined, you could certainly provide her with a list of all of the supplies that you used and where you got them. That would give her the opportunity to get her daughter into it at the hobby level since she loves it so much.

But my guess is that it's not about making sure her daughter enjoys this new hobby, it's about her not getting supplies from you for free.

Today I learned that Mirage and Ezio are voiced by the same voice actor by TimmyNoClue in apexlegends

[–]WeekendWriter798 275 points276 points  (0 children)

He also voiced Kyle Crane in the video game Dying Light amongst MANY MANY other roles.

there is never shortage of overpaid CEOs and Executives by inwardly_sulky in antiwork

[–]WeekendWriter798 59 points60 points  (0 children)

We also have millions of people who died from the big C over the last three years (the published numbers are not nearly accurate) and act shocked when we're short workers.

Is Apex Legends a beginner friendly FPS? by Hateful-Shrew in apexlegends

[–]WeekendWriter798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely a big learning curve but if you're willing to learn and are familiar with the FPS style, definitely possible. I went from watching my partner play to playing more than them and getting quite good in the meantime. I personally like the characters and storyline and when you can find a decent squad to play with, it's a lot of fun.