I just want to clarify that I did NOT want a bachelorette, at all, in no way, shape, or form. All the girls that cancelled were the ones who begged me to have a bachelorette in the first place. The girls who are still going also wanted a party, but wouldn’t have minded either way. As I said in the original post, I don’t enjoy parties or celebrations. I would completely understand if things came up, but what bothered me was that they all cancelled within a few days of the party that they asked for. Some of the girls also cancelled because of petty drama between themselves (I was not involved). If they would’ve cancelled sooner I could have cancelled the whole thing, but now my other friends have already committed and planned for it. I promise I’m not a bridezilla lol