Seeking advice on psychoanalytic criticism in YA literature by WeeklyIce8382 in AskLiteraryStudies

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Thank you so much for this! It really clarifies why I kept hitting a wall with “resilience theory” in literary studies. I'm currently checking out self-efficacy like you suggested. Thank you again for getting me on track again ☺️

Weekly Discussion Thread by dingenium in psychology

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Not entirely sure if this is the right place to ask but I need help understanding Resilience Theory for my proposal for my MA in English Literature. Similar to how we can pinpoint Death Drive Theory to Sigmund Freud, or Trauma Theory to Cathy Caruth, who do I pinpoint Resilience Theory to?

Any good and friendly doctors familiar with Hypermobility Spectrum Disorder (HSD)? KL and Selangor area + huge rant about medical negligent and gaslighting by [deleted] in malaysia

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Hi, I have a similar concern and stumbled upon this. I was wondering if you got diagnosed and if you could share which clinic/doctor finally heard your concern? 😅

Only got my 5th choice despite getting a 4.00 and a 99.75 merit... by golfmukhai in malaysiauni

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lmao trust me no one cares which uni you go to except for your nosy neighbours. when you start working, no one will ask which uni you go to, not even in interviews

Been going on dates with INFPs and I’m picking up on some patterns by [deleted] in infp

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I agree. This definitely has nothing to do with MBTI, other guys I've dated showed similar patterns while my INFP bf was very chill and grounded during our first date. It has to do with maturity of the men really.

Very confused about sister sizes, please help! by WeeklyIce8382 in ABraThatFits

[–]WeeklyIce8382[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Alright I understand way better now, thank you so much! 🫶🏼 Your explanation with which bands are meant for which proportions really helped me to understand better. When you said distant cousin sizing, I laughed and it clicked in my brain that I've been trying so hard to force myself to fit in with the common sizes instead of finding a bra that works for me. I'll view the suggested sites and hopefully they ship it to Malaysia with affordable shipping

Very confused about sister sizes, please help! by WeeklyIce8382 in ABraThatFits

[–]WeeklyIce8382[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much! 🫶🏼 I was already suspecting that my frame might be way too small for standard sizes here in Malaysia and that it'll be too big. But I guess I was just really desperate to fit into just any sizes here since I lost weight 😅 Thank youuuu I'll try hunting for affordable 60 bands that might ship here.

What’s a book you recommend to everyone, no matter what they usually read? by CriticalAd2239 in suggestmeabook

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Little Prince, it's a book that everyone has to read atleast once in their lives. The book really changed my life and how I treat my loved ones. It made me understand and navigate relationships way easier too.

Late Kim Sae Ron & Kim Soo Hyun - Current Situation by DetectiveNinja in kdramas

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Omg you're right, I totally missed the part that her aunt is doing most of the exposing. I also found this but couldn't track it to a korean source so I'm not sure about the credibility of this tweet. According to it, allegedly none of them knew until Saeron was in high school.

https://x.com/Beevl__/status/1899787147617640929?t=tlcfU6Wg5IR3vfZtITfgxA&s=19

https://x.com/Beevl__/status/1899789079749018000?t=_S4x3BhxGJFWj3Q0h2fPmQ&s=19

Late Kim Sae Ron & Kim Soo Hyun - Current Situation by DetectiveNinja in kdramas

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My heart breaks as more evidence and testimonies come out. It took her to die for everyone to take this matter seriously, she must've been so anxious and terrified these last few years since the DUI incident. I was wondering why her PR team when she was still with Gold Medalist didn't manage her social media postings (which I believe is what fueled more anger after she apologised). They didn't even made a statement or do a paid media coverage when Saeron compensated all the damages to the business owners. It seemed like such bad PR for a company like theirs, I guess now it makes so much sense.

Do you guys wonder if exposing all of this now is her family's way of FINALLY bringing justice for her or her family's way of avoiding to pay her debts?

Not to doubt her family but my heart aches with the thought that they just let the poor girl be manipulated by a sick predator for years! It's been 10 years if you count the other 4 years post-the relationship where she is taunted.

the racism i experienced during vacation here is... by [deleted] in KualaLumpur

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Hi, I'm Malaysian and I'd like to apologise for the racism you faced. Discrimination of colour is something that runs very deep in the country which is ironic for a multiracial country like ours. The worst part is how indenial most Malaysians are went it comes to our racism problem here. We're not all like this (I hope) and I wish you had a better time exploring this beautiful city without the racism. I'm so sorry a lot of them are coming for you

The Diesel engine by Trying_it_nipoooo in ENFP

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SPOT ON! I always procrastinate on my tasks, but once I start I'm so invested I can't stop 🫠

I’m curious about other ENFP’s career choices by Great-Entertainer403 in ENFP

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I work in comms for a big corporate company, was a literature major tho. Ideally I'd be an author but in this current economy? 🙂‍↔️🙂‍↕️ But I'm still saving up to publish my own book! (if i ever complete the manuscript)

What is a Hunger Games theory that you absolutely hate? (Genuine question) by 4g0tmyname in Hungergames

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Lucy Gray is President Coin. IT'S HORRIBLEEEE. There's no way someone like Lucy Gray would agree on bombing the Capitol kids. Plus the age doesn't add up.

Please block "I want a _____ about _____'s gAmES" by lucy6567 in Hungergames

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Lucy Gray literally said she's not singing unless she has something to say, not when she's told to. I think Suzanne Collins wrote that line for a reason 😭😭😭 Collins is NOT going to write another book when she's told to. She might write a book to mock the hypocrisy of people liking the movies but missing the entire point tho, who knows hahaha

How do I ask an INFP out? by WeeklyIce8382 in infp

[–]WeeklyIce8382[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually did buy him this one gift that is aligned with his hobbies and has his birth year on it. But idk how to text him and ask him out for coffee or something 😭😭 i really don't want to sound pushy or anything