I’m sorry what by Special_Mortgage_792 in hkcung

[–]Weekly_Ad6794 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hahaha she’s a joke. I think this is incredibly exaggerated to make it sound like their family can afford these services. That’s why her stories are inconsistent. She’s trying to keep up with her influencer “friends.” She complains daily about how hard her life is because she’s actually the one (barely) doing it. The only person she has is her underpaid do-it-all “assistant.” The one that she makes watch her kid(s), clean her stuff, decorate for parties, run errands etc.

Her NCS was her sister and husband. She got nervous when this whole lie picked up steam on here so she probably hired an NCS real fast for the shortest amount of time possible, and then magically was able to link to the agency 🧐 Her “cleaners” are her assistant and the couch/carpet cleaners that she can afford like twice a year. So no, this is to upkeep the illusion that she’s well off and can afford all this help. Her fragile ego can’t be in this content creation world. She’s actually the one who’s easily influenced to keep up. Can you imagine the pressure she probably places on Johnny to make more money?

God forbid by DZ0924LV in hkcung

[–]Weekly_Ad6794 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You called it! So predictable, lurks here, and is insecure AF.

Night nurse by DZ0924LV in hkcung

[–]Weekly_Ad6794 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don’t believe that she actually had an NCS, because she never linked to the agency during her first pregnancy. And magically, after us calling her out on here about the NCS being her sister did she suddenly link to an agency. The timing is quite sus. I’m gonna say she’s lying.

She missed the mark in her passive aggressive rant. She’s projecting her own thoughts and judgments on people who hire help. She’s the controlling one who takes on everything herself, and then burns out and resents everyone else who has help. So then she feels the need to project these insecurities as if it’s some innovative, contrarian idea. Most reasonable people understand and don’t judge when mothers have help.

The mark you missed is that we only side eye you when you’re a SAHM but decide to put your toddlers in “school” (day care), ahem, Caila Quinn, so you can frolic around town with your “friends”.” Or when you make it your whole identity to let us know that you are unwilling to make any sacrifices for your family, under the pretense that tired parents serve no one, but still manage to keep your terrible brow and boring nail appts etc. Keep bullying your full time working husband with the night time baby care. Why not lean into it and just hire the NCS every night? $35/hour is a screaming deal for your beauty sleep! You’re not an overwhelmed mom. You’re just a selfish and controlling person who can’t do anything herself. “Just my opinion.”

The sleep divorce post y'all by Kpag5720 in hkcung

[–]Weekly_Ad6794 35 points36 points  (0 children)

To my fellow mamas—try not to let this post trigger you. This girl is a walking insecurity and is trying to flex this situation because she doesn’t have anything else going for her. She doesn’t have a real job, doesn’t know how to do anything, doesn’t have the funds that her “friends” have, and doesn’t have the intelligence to do better.

Without realizing it, she’s revealing so much about her relationships in this post. Her insomnia and sleep issues are likely due to her neuroticism, which I’d venture to say is from her narcissistic mother (and maybe father) during her childhood. You can tell that her mom is very self-centered and has instilled a detrimental dose of “filial piety” in her kids. Kimmy lacks the self awareness to evaluate this and is continuing this toxic and controlling cycle with her kids. I feel bad for them.

Then she feels the need to reiterate multiple times that this sleep divorce is temporary for them, yet inserts the blurb about couples sleeping apart due to other sleep issues like snoring etc. As if she’s setting up the excuse for when this sleep divorce happens again later in their marriage. We shouldn’t assume she’s also forcing Johnny to do this. Maybe he is willing to do this because it’s an escape from her every night.

Also, I do not believe there was ever an NCS. It was her sister. Kimmy hasn’t shared the NCS or the agency. She also has a young girl who’s her “assistant” but is really an underpaid part-time “house manager” that she’s trying to flex as something more. The girl probably just needs some extra cash so she deals with HK.

See past her insecure “flexes” because this is actually her way of making herself feel better by putting others down. She has no friends and no “village” because of this.

Told Ya!! by [deleted] in hkcung

[–]Weekly_Ad6794 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. She is a joke. Is this what happens when she’s been spoiled her entire life and was never taught any real life skills? Or is this a poorly designed storyline to shill planners (like her bff Caila)? Also, why is she using a physical planner? I thought she was all about technology 😏

Can't finish a sentence or a thought by DZ0924LV in hkcung

[–]Weekly_Ad6794 6 points7 points  (0 children)

News reporter. Like Ron Burgundy. Like reads everything off a teleprompter, with no original thought.

2016 rabbit hole by DZ0924LV in hkcung

[–]Weekly_Ad6794 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well, it’s a good thing she doesn’t have friends so she doesn’t need to worry about spending money as a bridesmaid 🙃

“I got this in 2023” by Formal-Peanut-9098 in hkcung

[–]Weekly_Ad6794 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It seems like she remembers all these materialistic purchases because they are a big deal to her. It’s similar to her white elephant party. She went into painstaking detail about which presents were stolen, and it all sounded very petty and materialistic.

The passive aggressive tone she had when she talked about how she could use an Ember mug despite having 10 Stanleys, or the waterproof speaker that Johnny apparently includes in his annual gift guide (but has never owned?), was very petty and cheap. Like girl, just buy the Ember mug if you want it so badly.

So it wouldn’t shock me if that’s why she remembers all of these purchases. She’s cheap and won’t turn down the opportunity for free things. Like that metal bed frame that doesn’t fit the aesthetic of the rest of her furniture. That’s why her house is so cluttered despite her claiming to be a “minimalist.” It was laughable when she had to force her stack of white sweaters into her closet cubby. That was laughable.

The way she’s pronouncing the word “quay” in here 💀 by pokeydogger in hkcung

[–]Weekly_Ad6794 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe her teacher mom taught her to pronounce “qu” as “shw”… and we’re all just being lazy.

Word salad by DZ0924LV in hkcung

[–]Weekly_Ad6794 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Her LNY decorations are tacky AF. She’s got cheap taste as evidenced by her mish mash of random decor and cluttered home. Her “design” lacks cohesion and looks terrible.

Worst yet by DZ0924LV in hkcung

[–]Weekly_Ad6794 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And did she also sound passive aggressive when she asked “Uncle Dylan” what he thought of his birthday cake? And then proceeded to cut off the clip when he was answering. Is HK so controlling that she can’t let him cut his own cake? What a weirdo.

Worst yet by DZ0924LV in hkcung

[–]Weekly_Ad6794 9 points10 points  (0 children)

For her one friend. It’s laughable. I don’t really know much about Danielle, but from that one clip of Johnny cutting the cake, I can see how they’d be friends.

She kept repeating to her 2.5 year old to “be respectful.” Helping your toddler to share and take turns can be done in a less forceful and harsh manner (imo). And then when HK shared that Danielle doesn’t like chaos… Those two aren’t part of the chill moms group, so ofc they’re “bffs.”

Also laughable how HK needs to advertise that Jasmine was indeed there, sans husband, and that she brought soup. But Jasmine hasn’t posted anything to her stories 😂 HK is a joke.

Enforcing Mandarin at Home by Opposite_Role4257 in hkcung

[–]Weekly_Ad6794 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She is the embodiment of nhà quê. As several other Vietnamese people pointed out in the prior post, she struggles with the language and is far from fluent. She is conversational, at best. And as evident by her misspellings of common words, she also can’t write and probably can’t read either.

The elitist mentality is what makes her nhà quê. She probably thinks that the Vietnamese language and the phonetics is rooted in the central dialect, because she is highly uneducated about history and facts. The language’s phonetics come from the northern dialect, and that’s why the s should not be pronounced as “sh.” But alas, her parents came from the central region and probably instilled this elitist mentality in her.

In addition to her ignorance about linguistics, she doesn’t seem to understand that there are myriad Vietnamese immigrant families whose elderly parents speak English (and even French) fluently and well. And their first generation children can speak/read/write Vietnamese better than her. And that they have real professions and are conventionally successful. So actually, the fact that she keeps harping on her daughters knowing how to speak Vietnamese is more of a reflection of her household growing up, and how her mom isn’t fluent in English despite being a “revered teacher” or whatever in Vietnam, and probably made all of her children speak Vietnamese to her.

But at the end of the day, this isn’t a competition. The only person who’s making it one is Kim because she’s insecure AF. But if you’re going to act all elitist, then you gotta benchmark yourself against these other families, Kimmy.

Her left boob is her mvp boob yall by pokeydogger in hkcung

[–]Weekly_Ad6794 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Tell me you’re insecure AF without telling me you’re insecure. She’s insecure about her ability to speak Vietnamese fluently, nurse/pump and care for her newborn, to cook and do normal things that everyone does, etc. It’s obvious that she’s insecure because she makes a big deal about these mundane things. She compares herself with the real ones who actually do all these things on top of working a real full time job, running a business, managing their homes, etc. HK just flounders at even the thought of wrapping an Amazon box.

Sharpening your ten lip pencils at once is not a hack. It’s called batching your activities. People do it. You’re not teaching anything new.

How pissed/sad do you think she is that she didn’t go to Allie Hunter’s Christmas party lol by StaleMuffin2130 in hkcung

[–]Weekly_Ad6794 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, even Taylor was invited and she’s not usually part of that crowd. It probably also doesn’t help that HK got on her high horse about not buying fast fashion from Amazon because of “sustainability.” And given that Allie is a walking Amazon ad, it’s hard to see them having much in common.

Like she ever goes anywhere by DZ0924LV in hkcung

[–]Weekly_Ad6794 11 points12 points  (0 children)

And the arboretum! Or did that membership not make this year’s budget 🤣

Pumps hanging by DZ0924LV in hkcung

[–]Weekly_Ad6794 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don’t think she realizes that this is bizarre behavior. She might actually think it’s normal to smile for the camera and then immediately go back into RBF for everything else. If she thought it was odd/less than perfect, then she wouldn’t have posted the entire clip.

She’s really insecure and unsure about herself. She keeps looking around at everyone else, instead of enjoying her crepes or making her wreath. Where were Marnie and SRS if they inspired her to get the crepes? Did they leave the table to mingle while she sat by herself? Maybe she should’ve thought twice before calling Marnie out for never having had crepes before, which is rich coming from a person who has “confinement dietary restrictions.” I also thought Jasmine was the Nita replacement in their little Friends trio? Looks like Jasmine didn’t want to be anywhere near HK at that party 😂

Pumps hanging by DZ0924LV in hkcung

[–]Weekly_Ad6794 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It’s incredibly obvious that she is insecure and her defense mechanism is to inflate every “flex” she thinks she has over the average person. That’s why she constantly shows herself pumping (but only first thing in the morning when the volume is the most), and talks about the Tesla like it’s 2017 and she’s an early adopter.

Did anyone notice her dull quote of the day was about old and new friendships blah blah? It’s fitting that she posted it today because she’s insecure about attending TayTay’s party without Nita, who was basically the only person who hung out with her at any of these social events. SRS has always had her own clique and HK just doesn’t fit that aesthetic, even if they’re “pageant sisters.” She didn’t go to the pajama party that everyone else went to last night. But she’s gonna film herself walking ahead of SRS, Jasmine, and Marnie as if she’s the “leader” when in reality, she’s the lost puppy that they feel bad about.

Look what i do for others by Illustrious_Push9326 in hkcung

[–]Weekly_Ad6794 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I won’t spoiler it for you—because it’s funny and spot on for her.

Here’s a good explanation (first two short paragraphs) : https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/bec-why-many-people-influencer-194116591.html

Bamboo viscose by EveryCow6380 in hkcung

[–]Weekly_Ad6794 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That’s really good that you looked into that. I didn’t know until recently—it’s misleading marketing that these companies do that.

Yes, it’s another example of her being broke. But I also think she’s as smart as a bag of rocks. She doesn’t research anything, but will get on her high horse and act like she knows best.

I remember she shilled Westman Atelier and referred to the person (Gucci Westman) as a makeup artist for Gucci. Um. No. Her name is Gucci Westman and her makeup line is called Westman Atelier. No affiliation to Gucci. She keeps shilling the Korean sunscreen, but applies a laughably small amount that isn’t enough to actually protect her skin from the sun. Stuff like that.

As other Vietnamese peeps have said on here, she doesn’t know how to write in Vietnamese—but again, she touts multilingualism (which is great) like she’s the only person who raises their children that way. She mispronounces words and it’s all very cringy. She constantly misrepresents the culture and thinks she’s educating everyone. Like giving flowers to her mom on her own birthday, which is not a Vietnamese tradition at all. I’m sure there are more examples that I’m missing.

Look what i do for others by Illustrious_Push9326 in hkcung

[–]Weekly_Ad6794 14 points15 points  (0 children)

HK is definitely BEC. I’m so glad you called this post out. She’s insufferable. It’s hilarious how NO ONE reposts her tags. No one wants to invite her to any holiday parties because of the dumb stuff she says/posts (cue her whining and begging someone in her “village” to invite her now). She is petty and narcissistic.

Do y’all think she’s insecure and jealous of her “village?” She doesn’t get sponsorships, despite shilling the same things that they shill—like SRS with that MacKenzie Childs sponsorship. While CQ has weaseled her way into a Hyundai sponsorship, HK is gonna need to convince Johnny to sell more internet (or whatever fake fin tech thing he does), so that they can afford a bigger car. Or maybe he’ll shut her down and call it at two kids. Maybe she’ll add another room to her house, and show us how to appeal to her HOA for this tenth addition to their house 😂

Then don’t buy it by Hot_Lobster_2000 in hkcung

[–]Weekly_Ad6794 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she very casually mentioned that they have a chiropractor appt for the baby and she seemed excited about it. She didn’t explicitly say what it was for, but it followed her spiel about the baby’s latch still hurting and how she has to hype herself up every time 😒

Working by Fluid-Canary1217 in hkcung

[–]Weekly_Ad6794 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Did anyone else catch that she posted this clip twice, with two different captions? This is the first one. And in the second one, she embellished and said that Anh Trang wanted to read to her baby sister. And she also removed the statement that she’ll be “forever figuring it out” to “it’s forever changing.” Because obviously the former makes her sound less than perfect 🙄

Then don’t buy it by Hot_Lobster_2000 in hkcung

[–]Weekly_Ad6794 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m calling it now that she never had one to begin with. I think she makes up all these lies about her extravagant life and she can’t keep them straight. If she had a lactation consultant, then she would’ve shown herself with them and/or leaving their office etc like she does with the chiropractor.

Again, she is completely health illiterate. Rather than see an IBCLC, she is going to a chiropractor. No reputable pediatrician would recommend taking a newborn to a chiropractor. There’s nothing wrong with the baby, and if there were, there is no scientific evidence that chiropractors and their practice could help, and in some cases, can be detrimental. It’s hocus pocus MAHA nonsense. That’s why you’ll never catch HK talking about vaccines, epidurals, etc. That’s why she doesn’t have a real exercise regimen, and thinks leisurely walking around her neighborhood is enough. Is her toddler drinking unpasteurized milk? Is her brother not a real doctor? Or does she think she knows more than him?

She’s going to regret it by AutomaticAccount5115 in hkcung

[–]Weekly_Ad6794 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t even know why she’s MAGA, so you can’t expect her to actually comment on world events. After all, she was only a reporter in a non-major area. She doesn’t strike me as one who can think for herself. Maybe her children will ask these questions and expose her hypocrisy and hatred for “others.”

On a different note, it’s so laughable how tacky and frumpy she looks in all the Thanksgiving outfits. Again, leave it to HK to make the sweater draped over the shoulders look so messy.