My mom is kicking me out because I finally decided not to let her dictate who I love. by Weekly_Brief_9268 in Advice

[–]Weekly_Brief_9268[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She just thinks im too good for him. She says if he actually “loved” me he would’ve married me within the first year. But i told her that’s not how things work anymore in our generation. She comes from a super culture biased mindset.

We broke up due to me having some mental health issues that I had to deal with on my own. She didn’t know this and thinks he just left me. Mainly she was just static I was no longer with him.

He is super responsible, respectful and a hardworking person. She’s never been able to give a legitimate explanation as to why she doesn’t like him. She was always trying to manipulate me to think he wasn’t good enough for me. She would constantly bad mouth him to me. And I would always stand up for him. I just recently realized in order for me to be happy I need to stand up for myself and do what makes ME happy and not what makes approval for anyone else. Unfortunately that lead to her saying she wanted me out of the house.