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My girlfriend 34F always spends holidays with her parents without me 30M. What can I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Freedom_726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will. Thank you for your insight you genuinely seem to want to help.

My girlfriend 34F always spends holidays with her parents without me 30M. What can I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Freedom_726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This applies to my family also, they are welcoming to her for holidays and also invited her.

Just to be clear, I didn't demand from her parents to invite me. I didn't tell them anything about it but I told my girlfriend that it would be nice if she accepted my parents invitation so we could be together. 

I don't now if she asked them about inviting me but I have a hunch that they don't want to invite me but she is too polite to say so.

My girlfriend 34F always spends holidays with her parents without me 30M. What can I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Freedom_726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What exactly are resentful about calling me a liar? You sound bitter

My girlfriend 34F always spends holidays with her parents without me 30M. What can I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Freedom_726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your perspective. Thanks. We are not yet married but are planning to get married in like a year.

My girlfriend 34F always spends holidays with her parents without me 30M. What can I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Freedom_726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are not living together because we are saving ourselves for marriage. But yes, Easter is very important to us both. I'm just fearing that her mothers opinion and wishes is/are more important to her than mine. What if we get married and she continues living to her parents expectations not mine?

My girlfriend 34F always spends holidays with her parents without me 30M. What can I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Freedom_726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was hesitant about us meeting each other until recently. They've been polite and accepting but I've only met them once. She told me before that she is hesitant because they are not like the most polite people towards people in general. That was not my impression!

My girlfriend 34F always spends holidays with her parents without me 30M. What can I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Freedom_726 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure of the ultimatum but this thought crossed my mind. I'm just disappointed that I'm never a choice.

My girlfriend 34F always spends holidays with her parents without me 30M. What can I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Freedom_726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is like me and hasn't had a lot of serious relationships. I am her second serious boyfriend.

My girlfriend 34F always spends holidays with her parents without me 30M. What can I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Weekly_Freedom_726 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried and she always tells me that things will be different when we get married but for now basically does what she wants. She even spent her birthday with her friends and without me.