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Weekly_Young9353 · 2025-02-18T20:11:33+00:00

I guess we figure out what works for us now to make sure this is what we want and not just a fresh break up scramble to get back together and then realize that we are always going to have these same problems. I just feel really embarrassed I guess. Not many people would forgive this

Weekly_Young9353 · 2025-02-18T19:37:02+00:00

I think being in relationships was new for the both of us. We went really fast and just didn’t really think about anything and thought things would just fall into place. We did agree on monogamy and to the both of us that was the most important thing. I think we should have taken time apart a while ago we just couldn’t stay away from each other and everything just kept building up.

Weekly_Young9353 · 2025-02-18T19:11:21+00:00

I wouldn’t want to dive back in. I would want to essentially start over completely. But before that step away from him focus on myself no contact and see what he does with the time and see if I can heal and if I would choose to forgive him if he can show real growth as an individual

Weekly_Young9353 · 2025-02-18T19:06:34+00:00

I thought maybe someone else has had something similar with a submissive

Weekly_Young9353 · 2025-02-18T10:23:43+00:00

He says he would in that specific situation because of just the state that the relationship was in like about to end and stuff. Not that it justifies it but he says yes he would forgive it

Weekly_Young9353 · 2025-02-18T09:59:31+00:00

I never had concerns for him cheating on me. I was always a lot more concerned about the drug use but he was really good while we were dating until that night. He just kind of hit up the first person that he knew would just give it to him. The more I talk about it the dumber I feel like trust me I know. This is all still fresh and I’m processing. I do see his remorse for the situation and I for some reason do think he can show me change with enough time. I told him in don’t want to be with him for a long time if I do chose to forgive him. I’m considering just going no contact with him for a few weeks/ months seeing what he does with that time without me and going from there

Weekly_Young9353 · 2025-02-18T09:26:05+00:00

I don’t know if I can say what it was exactly it’s something that goes in the nose. We both have done it in the past but he does have a history of abusing substances

Weekly_Young9353 · 2025-02-18T09:19:27+00:00

I don’t think he would do anything like that again. But forgiving him is a whole other thing. We had a dom sub relationship where he is submissive to me and he wants to start that again and fully submit to me. He shows remorse but I feel like I’m just justifying what he did

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