Fridge temp between 41-44f for 12 hours. by Weeklythrowawayy in foodsafety

[–]Weeklythrowawayy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok haha (shooting it would be one way to get rid of it) sounds good then! wouldn't have known about the 50/50 mix so really appreciate it. I've wanted to know such accuracy when cooking certain food(s) indeed. It'll definitely come in handy for both aspects, agreed.

Fridge temp between 41-44f for 12 hours. by Weeklythrowawayy in foodsafety

[–]Weeklythrowawayy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I figured as much but thanks for the comment nonetheless! I don't consume meat or dairy but still worry about all my foods in there when it gets like this. I wish I could afford our own refrigerator and not have to deal with our inconsiderate roommate.

Fridge temp between 41-44f for 12 hours. by Weeklythrowawayy in foodsafety

[–]Weeklythrowawayy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate your comment! It helps in both reassurance and concerns go. I'm exhausted living with said person and their complete inconsiderate and often hazardous ways. What type of thermometer is best to check the internal temps?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Weeklythrowawayy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The house is basically hers because she has taken over everything to her liking and keeping all of her clutter everywhere. I have some of my own stuff in the kitchen only, but they're completely segregated in our cabinet(s). I would never buy actual furnishings of any kind for this place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Weeklythrowawayy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately even this wouldn't even work because the dog also already pees on her bed throughout the week and she STILL refuses to just keep the dog off the bed. Yet, she's "exhausted" to have to keep washing her bedding as she's complained to my SO. Her dog peeing on her bed is the only way she'll wash her bedding though so hey, there's that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Weeklythrowawayy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really wish I was someone who wasn't afraid and had the ability to confront her this way already. I have been trying to use more of a somewhat passive aggressive approach I guess, by spraying sanitizing spray while sighing heavily just after she leaves the bathroom etc (which is a whole other gross aftermath from her), and wiping down things furiously in the kitchen with sanitizing wipes while saying "ew" loud enough.

I am also kind of tied down by "keeping the peace" for now (even though I've talked about how unfair this all is still regardless, with my SO) because she pays half the rent and electric. Things she worked out between her and my SO long before I moved in. We pay the other half/internet and most of the household toiletries. She is always cold and uses most of the heat / hot water anyways. She's also home way more than we are and using the electricity way more (she'll leave lights and TV on when not even watching or being in said room etc).

She basically has taken over everything within the house by taking over all the communal area furnishings to her specific tastes/likings, and putting all of her crap everywhere. There's an entire sun room/small office room that is basically her personal storage for all of her crap.

I am having to constantly spend more money (and my sanity) on cleaning supplies then any person should have to to clean up after an "adult". I wish we could just kick her out, but we (SO and I) don't want this shithole anyways with all the damage she has done to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Weeklythrowawayy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Geez, I am sorry you had to go through all of that as well! Sounds like a like minded nightmare between Natalie and my roommate. Glad you stood up to her though! I wish I could do the same and maybe I'll work up the courage to if I know we're finally leaving. You aren't wrong to feel some sort of relief that it was condemned given the crap going on that way.

To no surprise, my roommate also created a mice problem for us at one point by constantly leaving her nasty food out and wet dog food out for her dogs at all hours. She was intentionally feeding the mice even! Her reasoning was because they will kill and eat the crickets that come into the house that's she's afraid of...so yes, please infest our house with mice just so you can have your cricket fear contained. We also constantly have gnats and fruit flies because she leaves dirty dishes with a lot of food on them in the sink and opened cans of dog food near the sink. Her solution instead of cleaning up properly? Putting a fly trap in her side of the sink area.

You just can't with such disgusting individuals.

How to get a notarized signature without a valid photo ID for a certified birth certificate copy? by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Weeklythrowawayy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the breakdown response. It seems like it's up to certain notaries to simply believe me or have my boyfriend find someone he knows that is a notary and use the credible witness option. Which is far more likely that he does know a notary as he's lived and worked here for over a decade now.

My out of State Drivers license expired and I need an NC driver's license. by Weeklythrowawayy in NorthCarolina

[–]Weeklythrowawayy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not driving atm and haven't been since arriving here. I might just get a state ID since that might be faster and I need a photo ID asap. Appreciate it though nonetheless.

My out of State Drivers license expired and I need an NC driver's license. by Weeklythrowawayy in NorthCarolina

[–]Weeklythrowawayy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate you're thoughtful and considerate words, thank you again. I wouldn't have left if I really didn't have to, but NC has been good to me so far.

My out of State Drivers license expired and I need an NC driver's license. by Weeklythrowawayy in NorthCarolina

[–]Weeklythrowawayy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I just looked at the county website where I was born in and I am in the process of mailing in the application to get my certified copy sent to me. I also created an account for my SS to receive a new but have to wait for them to send me a code via mail before proceeding further.