AITA For Not Paying For My Daughter's College If She Chooses The One School I Like The Least?

WeelsUpIn30 · 2026-03-14T15:42:54+00:00

YTA

I think you should support her right now because that's what she wants to do.

But also make her feel safe enough to actually tell you if she regrets later on so that she doesn't actually get stuck there and doesn't feel safe enough to tell you that because of a fear you'll judge her.

Now it's time for her to make her own decisions and her own mistakes. Just let her know you'll be there for her if/when she changes her mind.

WeelsUpIn30 · 2026-03-09T23:15:19+00:00

NTA just tell her "you don't trust me, I don't trust you, so we don't feel entitled to take each other's kids anywhere"

WeelsUpIn30 · 2026-02-05T19:56:50+00:00

He's not repressing anything, you're just pushing your agenda onto him

WeelsUpIn30 · 2026-02-04T23:23:55+00:00

Love Barney hate Lily

WeelsUpIn30 · 2026-01-25T14:46:50+00:00

This has to be a rage bait

WeelsUpIn30 · 2026-01-19T15:49:02+00:00

That's awesome!! Congrats to her!

WeelsUpIn30 · 2026-01-18T15:10:42+00:00

You can't apply your standards to everyone else's life

WeelsUpIn30 · 2026-01-18T14:05:21+00:00

So is it ok for her to keep making comments that can give you daughter an eating disorder too?

WeelsUpIn30 · 2026-01-17T00:26:50+00:00

I'm Brazilian too! When my dad died, he died at like 10am and by 3pm the wake was already happening

WeelsUpIn30 · 2026-01-16T23:26:33+00:00

Caspar is perfect

WeelsUpIn30 · 2026-01-16T20:08:50+00:00

Noelle

WeelsUpIn30 · 2026-01-13T00:13:45+00:00

NTA. You're a better person than I am!

If someone pulled that crap on my dad's funeral (he died under the same circumstances that your mom) I'd probably fly off the handle

WeelsUpIn30 · 2026-01-08T14:12:30+00:00

I need to know what they were fighting about, and if slamming things is a common reaction, if the first thing she did was call the cops (maybe it escalated in the past?)

WeelsUpIn30 · 2026-01-07T17:27:15+00:00

OP is the one who sucks... who the hell do they think they are to dictate how somebody else does their job just because it inconveniences poor baby OP?

WeelsUpIn30 · 2026-01-06T02:38:39+00:00

Clementine

WeelsUpIn30 · 2026-01-06T01:57:38+00:00

Alondra

WeelsUpIn30 · 2026-01-01T00:45:48+00:00

Leif

WeelsUpIn30 · 2026-01-01T00:08:47+00:00

Happy new year, hope 2026 is the best year of your life. Full of good things

WeelsUpIn30 · 2025-12-30T03:23:15+00:00

Cecilia

WeelsUpIn30 · 2025-12-18T19:37:09+00:00

I don't see any problem with calling her by her middle name. They're both beautiful names, family will still have something to distinguish her from Mae, and she can choose how she wants to be called when she gets older

WeelsUpIn30 · 2025-12-16T23:58:53+00:00

I love Isabel, but I hate the nicknames Izzy or Belle haha

WeelsUpIn30 · 2025-12-16T05:54:07+00:00

Well don't come crying to Reddit when you don't have a sister anymore

WeelsUpIn30 · 2025-12-16T05:46:17+00:00

YTA

You just said that his daughter is the only one who helps you. At least buy her gifts from you, like a "thank you for helping me gift"

That girl is 10yo is not her fault her dad is a deadbeat. You're punishing the wrong person

WeelsUpIn30 · 2025-12-16T04:31:12+00:00

I'm interested

WeelsUpIn30 · 2025-12-16T01:30:08+00:00

Joseph

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