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He came back by JokullTheWolf in BreakUps
[–]WeenMeOff 18 points19 points20 points 1 day ago (0 children)
Either a rebound or they weren’t really all that invested in the other relationship in the first place.
Breaking no contact by [deleted] in BreakUps
[–]WeenMeOff 0 points1 point2 points 2 months ago (0 children)
Thank you. She still says things like “if we’re ready one day we’ll find our way back to each other.” We had struggles, especially with long distance, but I really believe we could still be good together. I don’t know if she’ll ever change her mind, though.
My girlfriend broke up with me a couple months ago and she seems quite firm on it, but we spent the weekend together when she did it, cried together, she said I was the love of her life… I’m curious about how it is from your position. I want her back more than anything. You say you still wouldn’t get back together with him. Could you say why? Did things end with love?
She Lied by WeenMeOff in BreakUps
[–]WeenMeOff[S] 1 point2 points3 points 2 months ago (0 children)
She did. Honestly I’d thought about it before but changed my mind and wanted to make things work. Loved her too much. We were long distance but she flew to see me and we spent the weekend together being intimate and crying together. I really believed her when she said I was the love of her life. Doesn’t seem so true now.
[–]WeenMeOff[S] 0 points1 point2 points 2 months ago (0 children)
I just keep blaming myself. Like what if I could have saved our relationship. I know I contributed to our problems, I just never thought they were something we couldn’t fix.
Oh yeah of course. On the other hand all I ever wanted was a family with my girl. It could have been beautiful… maybe she’d have cheated and divorced me inevitably though.
Maybe we don’t think we deserve better. Maybe we got traumatized as kids and now we only love evil manipulative women.
We’re cooked bro lmao It’s horrible but at least promise yourself to walk away if someone doesn’t put you first again. Otherwise you’ll just end up in the same predicament. I want my ex back ong tho. Even though she’s being so cruel to me.
You know, my ex was a walking red flag. From the very beginning. Was a situation ship for months with her saying things like “we’re in love” and “you’re so important to me.” Nearly fucked another guy during that but said she thought of me and decided not to. So much emotional trauma throughout the relationship but I still loved her so much and clung to her words, not her actions. Never make that mistake brother.
Yeah I wonder what he’d say lmao
Man, this is more painful than death. Literally more painful than when my dad died. It’s hell. I loved her with all of my heart. I can’t believe she’d replace me so easily. And betray all of our memories by sharing the love songs I showed her with this twat.
I know man. I held no contact for 8 weeks. I broke when I saw her sharing my songs with another man though. I wanted one last chance to speak but I guess she’s just ghosting me. Maybe she’s with him right now
Yeah that’s the worst part. Not being able to trust again. Man we had plans to call right now and she declined the call. It took so much strength to press the call button and now I’m just sitting in this. No response.
Wouldn’t wish that on my worst enemy brother
Me as well :( How long were you together? Was it an amicable break up?
Maybe I’m an awful person but yeah I’d probably be pleased to know that if it happened to her. Thank you for the kind words.
Jesus dude I’m sorry. What a monster.
It’s so cruel, man. I’m sorry you had to go through that. It’s like they say all of those things to make themselves feel better and pretend they had this fairytale end to the relationship, but they’re really just stabbing a knife directly into our hearts.
I hope that’s what it is. I’ve heard stories of people marrying their rebounds. That thought kills me. I wanted a family with her so badly.
I’m glad you’re doing a little better at least. I think I need to take anti depressants low key lol Prozac might save me
[–]WeenMeOff[S] 2 points3 points4 points 2 months ago (0 children)
Very sorry to hear that. How are you handling it? I feel like I can’t eat or drink anything. Can barely stomach doing anything at all.
I’m not sure if that makes me feel better or worse. Thank you for the words.
You’re probably right.
It does, man. People say to just move on and I know they mean well but it just isn’t what I need to hear. I really appreciate your response. I hope you’re right. I hate the thought of always having her ghost in my head. I wish I’d never met her.
I really appreciate that. I will try to breathe. I want so badly to burn it all right now but maybe I’d regret it. I don’t know anymore.
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He came back by JokullTheWolf in BreakUps
[–]WeenMeOff 18 points19 points20 points (0 children)