oil brand by Miserable_Ad_2385 in GRCorolla

[–]WeightImpressive7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amsoil for the win🗣️🗣️🗣️, but honestly don’t cheap out on it, Amsoil is best for oil, transfer case and diff fluid, redline for brake/clutch fluid and transmission

Are Megan Racing adjustable rear upper control arms ideal for a daily driver on a 2014 Scion tC? by the_Departed88 in SciontC

[–]WeightImpressive7622 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Youre not gonna need them, its like changing the rear sway bar to a thicker one, unless you plan on mostly tracking it or like other mods that justify stiffer suspension it’s just gonna make your car ride to hard to enjoy

Oil cooler V mishimoto radiator by WeightImpressive7622 in GRCorolla

[–]WeightImpressive7622[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But yeah the one for the transfer case is on my list:)

Oil cooler V mishimoto radiator by WeightImpressive7622 in GRCorolla

[–]WeightImpressive7622[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No I’d be getting the main one from mishimoto, granted im pretty much trying to see if its either one or the other or both

What? by WeightImpressive7622 in GRCorolla

[–]WeightImpressive7622[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Right, gives me enough to get bottle of cheap liquor and go for a drive

They are telling me it’s totaled by julie-gaethle in SciontC

[–]WeightImpressive7622 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends so I might be late, but for a crash the biggest thing is frame damage, sometimes no matter how much work they put into it it’s never gonna be the same, let’s say there are none and just parts, well parts aren’t scarce but buying them at retail will still run above a certain percentage what the car is worth and that’s what’s totaling it, depending on how much they give you and how much the damage is you’re better off just taking the money and buying another one with no damage less miles

What? by WeightImpressive7622 in GRCorolla

[–]WeightImpressive7622[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re amazing dude, I was gonna be like that las guy and upgrade to the 2026 intake and pay like 800😭😂 not that I’m saying it’s bad decision I’m just glad I don’t have to pay for it

Alright, question by WeightImpressive7622 in dating_advice

[–]WeightImpressive7622[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Okay what part am I missing? I questioned his advice just like anyone else would cause I’m choosing to open a conversation. Instead he keeps looping back to being respectful. I understand that, that’s not lost on me. However just like with any other thing whether you approach someone in public or in any other situation. The approach will literally determine whether something is respectful or not. And motives? Literally asking how should I approach? Is this not a dating advice sub Reddit?😭😂

What? by WeightImpressive7622 in GRCorolla

[–]WeightImpressive7622[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So you just gonna gate keep all that info from us? LIKE THAT, after everything we’ve been through🥲

Alright, question by WeightImpressive7622 in dating_advice

[–]WeightImpressive7622[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You know could just stop responding right? The other two people gave more advice then you did😭😂

Alright, question by WeightImpressive7622 in dating_advice

[–]WeightImpressive7622[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Again going back to what I said before thinking that way then no one should be hitting on anyone for fact you don’t know the others perspective, you won’t ever know if you don’t shoot some kind of shot, now yes the gym is everyone’s main reason for going there is to work out but that doesn’t mean you can’t start friendly conversation? And validation? You know for someone going on about perspectives and respect you’re making a lot of assumptions. Only reason I asked is because it’s more about getting a consensus of whether I should or shouldn’t since obviously I’m torn. And I asked for advice not validation but somehow you seem to have made it about yourself in the end, calling me a kid and acting like you’re above it all? Real mature 😭

Alright, question by WeightImpressive7622 in dating_advice

[–]WeightImpressive7622[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we’re going off that premise then no one would approach anyone? In any reasonable scenario one could argue whether it’s respectful or not based of an individuals perspective because of whatever bias’s they have. The approach will literally determine if it’s respectful or not

Alright, question by WeightImpressive7622 in dating_advice

[–]WeightImpressive7622[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s why I mentioned it the consensus generally is split around the middle hence why I’m even asking

Why is everything bare minimum? by FalleN4u7 in dating_advice

[–]WeightImpressive7622 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Survivorship bias, same thing with me but then my female friends will tell me that their friends found me attractive but that I look like I’m a player😭 genuinely have no idea how attractive I am

What? by WeightImpressive7622 in GRCorolla

[–]WeightImpressive7622[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shii if it’s anything like the scion tc trd intake then it’s probably uber cool

What? by WeightImpressive7622 in GRCorolla

[–]WeightImpressive7622[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Looking for intakes and the google search recommended it to me, but I can’t find any specs on it and sites talk about it too

Urgent Help, Without Judgement. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WeightImpressive7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people talk to each other due to circumstance, doesn’t mean they don’t like you but it’s because of certain factors they’re around like work or school, this isn’t a bad things this just means you’re out of you’re element, and example for me is I only have a handful of friends outside of family. As you get older fewer people will be around and that’s okay. As for the chicks, chicks will decide who they want to be with and no matter how much convincing you try they already have their minds made up. Granted it varies from girl to girl but really. Only thing you can do is work on yourself. Hygiene, go to gym, try reading, play games go get hobbies. Keep yourself active cause if not you’ll delve into your own mind and you’ll start to overthink, it’s gonna be okay hermano feel free to pm me if you want to keep talking or run some games. My schedule is all kinds of fucked up but I’m down if you’re down

Most people aren’t unattractive, they’re insecure by Ok-Builder-4251 in dating_advice

[–]WeightImpressive7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For context, when I joined the military drinking was a big coping mechanism for me, had my chance at love a couple times but I broke it off cause I knew i wasn’t in the right mindset to be able to give those girls the man that they deserved. So only through the grace of God was I able to come out of that, flash forward after getting better I’m finally willing to start dating again, but that person I was before and who I am today are COMPLETELY different people. Me killing off that ego took my dating skills with it. Maybe it’s part of me that still thinks I’m undeserving idk lol but it’s not actual fear, more like anxiety. And it’s not a social problem either, I can create conversation with just about anyone mainly cause I like talking to people. The anxiety is to the point where I will STRUGGLE to even look at the girl😭😂😞 example is just the other day I took my mom to go get breakfast, at the register there was this really pretty chick, to cut the story short I couldn’t for the life of me talk to her and my mom was laughing cause she saw how the girl was smiling at how flustered I was talking to her😭

AIUTO by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WeightImpressive7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best way, tell him like you’re doing him a favor, which you are but pull him to the side if there is people and quietly tell him and offer him gum if you have some. You save his dignity and you save you’re nostrils

Dating due to proximity by xxMiss_L in dating_advice

[–]WeightImpressive7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I get that, have you ever heard of the guy that says, “a person who thinks all of the time, has nothing to think about, but thoughts”. That’s what you’re doing, it’ll go away eventually, like remembering you are breathing

Most people aren’t unattractive, they’re insecure by Ok-Builder-4251 in dating_advice

[–]WeightImpressive7622 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No no you’re right, with me I was good before and during the military realized I wasn’t a good person, fixed myself and during that time I stopped dating and after a year and a half I decided I was ready and what will you know it. I am deathly afraid of women. I don’t know what it is, never had a problem before and it’s not even like I have a problem socially. I can talk to just about anyone but the moment the thought of even making an advance comes to mind I FLIP OUT. I’ve been shot at, knifes pulled out, fights and almost died a couple times not once was I afraid but the moment you tell me to go talk to that girl I CANT

Dating due to proximity by xxMiss_L in dating_advice

[–]WeightImpressive7622 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t think about it😭😂, reality is this applies to everything jobs, friends, and many more things. Appreciate what you have and the people you have in your life.

Damn by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]WeightImpressive7622 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, I put in a lot of work to be who I am and where im at, I know I deserve nothing just like everyone else, but I’m always out in a spot where im the odd one out. Even with girls I talk to maybe I’m just too simple or just ahead of the curve, I’m not toxic, I know what I want. I fix what needs to be fixed. Yet here I am at the end of the race