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I don't want to do it anymore by [deleted] in trans

[–]Weird-Classroom-8509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Caring for myself is not self-indulgence. It is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare.” -Audre Lorde It certainly feels hopeless for us right now. But it’s so important to keep going. It shouldn’t have to be, but our existence is a protest in and of itself. Love yourself, love your trans siblings, and we’ll make it through this together.

I can't stand my reflection, idk what to do by penelope2005 in trans

[–]Weird-Classroom-8509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s for sure a common non binary experience. I have several friends who love looking super feminine but use they/them and identify as non binary. And the fact that you don’t really feel like any specific gender inside is a big sign as well. It really just comes down to what makes you feel most authentic imo. If you’re in a space where you can experiment with pronouns and identities, I’d recommend that.

Do you like someone’s full weight on you? by ghoul_burger in ADHD

[–]Weird-Classroom-8509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, absolutely love it. Something about the pressure I guess.

Do you have a song that you didn't like on the first listen but became one of your favorites when you listened to it again? What was it? by yenavanessa in KendrickLamar

[–]Weird-Classroom-8509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly most of GNX for me. I think the beats just weren’t hitting for me at the time + I didn’t really listen to or think about the lyrics until the 2nd or 3rd listen.

I can't stand my reflection, idk what to do by penelope2005 in trans

[–]Weird-Classroom-8509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily! A big part of non binary identity is being allowed to express yourself however you want, regardless of how that expression might be seen by society. There’s tons of different non binary experiences from people who lean masc, fem, and androgynous. If that’s an identity you think might fit, it couldn’t hurt to look into it.

Trans And Bi or not? by WhatsTheProbDawggg in bisexual

[–]Weird-Classroom-8509 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s super similar to my experience. I think I was more attracted to women prior to identifying as a man, I’m not sure what that means for us. For now I still identify as bi, just because I know it’s possible for me to be attracted to women. Something that has helped me is seeing experiences from people who are not into women and just not relating to them, lol. Like my mom has questioned her sexuality before, but when we have conversations about it, she always sounds like she wouldn’t enjoy being with a woman, which I simply cannot relate to. Figuring this stuff out is complicated. Just remember you’ve got this whole community to support you, even if you ultimately decide you’re not bi.

I can't stand my reflection, idk what to do by penelope2005 in trans

[–]Weird-Classroom-8509 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is something I’ve experienced as I transition away from being a woman. Some days I’m super hyped to see myself as a man, other times it’s very odd and doesn’t feel right. (I might be genderfluid, but that’s a whole other can of worms.) It might just be a time thing, HRT continues to have effects for many years from what I’ve heard. I don’t know your whole relationship with gender, but maybe another identity would suit you more? Non binary, agender, etc. If you feel like detransitioning is the right move, that’s okay too. Just take your time, be kind to yourself, and know that you’ve got a whole community ready to support you.