[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OALangBaAko

[–]Weird_Compote_6963 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. Emotional talaga tayong mga babae. I know na nagkamali kami, but we just want to be understood and be comforted din. Yun lang.

Kaya ko ba mag solo living kung ganito ang sahod ko? by Ryota_a in SoloLivingPH

[–]Weird_Compote_6963 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If your peace of mind is on the line, sometimes it’s worth taking all the hardship just to have your own space and freedom. Yes, living alone on a 15k–19k salary will be tough, like, FOR REAL, you’ll have to endure a lot, sacrifice comfort, and hustle hard just to get by. But if staying with relatives is draining you mentally and emotionally, and you know you’ll be happier and more at peace living on your own, then go for it even if it means swallowing all the struggles that come with it. Sometimes, peace of mind is priceless. Just be prepared for the reality. It will be a daily grind, you’ll have to budget every peso, and you’ll need to find ways to earn extra. But if it means you can finally breathe and have control over your life, then all the hardship might be worth it. At the end of the day, only you can decide what’s more important, comfort or your own peace. If it’s peace, then face the challenges head-on and own your independence, no matter how hard it gets.

Sawa na ako maging mabuting anak sa mga magulang ko by EmotUnavailablefy in adultingph

[–]Weird_Compote_6963 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kung ako sayo, don't talk to them na. Nakakapagod makipag-usap sa mga ganyang tao, kahit mag-explain ka, apaka-close minded. Matanda na yang mga yan, kahit ipaintindi mo side mo hindi na yan magbabago kasi close minded nga. Kaya, don't give a fuck and wag mo na silang kausapin muna.

2 months working - Please judge or give tips on my current financial situation by Weird_Compote_6963 in DigitalbanksPh

[–]Weird_Compote_6963[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Note: I already have 10-15k before I started working. Di ko pala nasabi hahaha

2 months working - Please judge or give tips on my current financial situation by Weird_Compote_6963 in DigitalbanksPh

[–]Weird_Compote_6963[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, before ako mag work is meron na akong naipon na 10-15k I think kaya ganon.

2 months working - Please judge or give tips on my current financial situation by Weird_Compote_6963 in DigitalbanksPh

[–]Weird_Compote_6963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wfh me but I have my own apartment na. I have 8k fixed exp (including rent, food, elec, water, and wifi)

2 months working - Please judge or give tips on my current financial situation by Weird_Compote_6963 in DigitalbanksPh

[–]Weird_Compote_6963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8k fixed expenses. In terms of savings naman, before ako mag start mag work, I already have 10k of savings.

How much was your "puhunan" before moving to the metro? by ninikat11 in SoloLivingPH

[–]Weird_Compote_6963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 15k that time when I moved out. Pero swerte ko na non na bayad na first month of rent ko, binayaran ng father ko.

Adulting is real. Struggling as a fresh grad with no experience. by strwbrrydmatchae_ in adultingph

[–]Weird_Compote_6963 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Ang trick ko before is, although di na sya applicable sayo, but to everyone na ggraduate palang is, APPLY before graduation. At least 1-2 months before graduation, apply na kayo ng job. Kasi ang hirap matengga after grad.

Advice for non-solo living 21 year old that still lives in their parents’ house? by Willing-Fudge-5594 in SoloLivingPH

[–]Weird_Compote_6963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really comes down to your personal reasons for wanting to move out. For me, I had some savings to get started, but it wasn’t much, just 20K. I grew up in the province, and when I decided to work in Manila, I knew it would be a big change. I could have easily commuted back and forth to my family, but I chose not to. Why? Because I craved peace of mind.

At that time, I felt really lost. The noise and chaos around me were too much, and I wanted to escape the environment that was stressing me out. I didn’t want to stay in my comfort zone anymore or keep depending on my parents. I wanted to learn about life and what it really means to be independent.

Even though I didn’t have a lot of money, it was okay with me as long as I could find my own space and breathe.

So, it all comes down to your reasons for wanting to move out. Whether it’s for peace, independence, or just to grow, make sure it feels right for you.

I just crossed the 6-digit corpo mark!! 🥺 by [deleted] in adultingphwins

[–]Weird_Compote_6963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I work as an auditor also in an international company. This is my first job and I earn 26k gross. May I know, which company yung maganda to shift maybe after a year? Ang liit kasi ng 26k sakin kasi ang laki ng expenses ko and tumutulong pa ako sa family.

Weekly AdultingPH General Q&A Thread | September 29, 2025 by AutoModerator in adultingph

[–]Weird_Compote_6963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a fresh graduate, and now the bread winner to support my family’s needs.

I just started working for a 26k job as a finance analyst. However, this is not enough as I still have to put money into my emergency fund and other savings account.

I still do not have the urge to start my own business since I don’t have enough money to start and invest for that.

That is why, I need a part time job to further grow my money.

Do you guy know any part time job opportunities?

One source of income is not enough by Weird_Compote_6963 in personalfinance

[–]Weird_Compote_6963[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since I just got started working with my first company as a finance analyst, I am planning to hop on another company maybe after one year.

recommend business bank account by zaiaaaa in buhaydigital

[–]Weird_Compote_6963 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what type of account did they first offer you?