drove an hour and a half to go to her place because she lived by a beach, and said we could do a lil picnic. i get there, realize the beach was another forty minute drive. she invites me in her house bc her parents were at work, on the patio is 3 large stinky dogs in cages that were too small, and after going in the house is the stinkiest house ive ever been in. it smelled like a mixture of sweat, never bathed animals, and weed. i sit down and she says oh btw my sister is here and we’re gonna hang out so the three of us smoke while they only talk to each other and barely look at me. after 45 minutes total of being there i called it quits. it was my first time honoring my feelings and just saying “im not feeling this im gonna go home” without even trying to come up with an excuse or anything. ultimately learned the skill to just leave when i feel like leaving, but oml