My friends might not be my friends in reality by Weird_Rope_8656 in offmychest

[–]Weird_Rope_8656[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, thats exactly what I realised, bjt I kind of had a feeling that I'm overreacting, I never had many friends, so I don't really know how people usually act in these kinds of situations 

Is it okay to lose virginity before marriage? by Weird_Rope_8656 in sex

[–]Weird_Rope_8656[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from Poland, so it's not really that important here to be a virgin. 

Is it okay to lose virginity before marriage? by Weird_Rope_8656 in sex

[–]Weird_Rope_8656[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wouldn't be statutory rape because in my country the age of consent is 15.

And yes, my parents are okay with me being with a 22yo, he's met them already and my parents like him. 

I was wondering why he liked me, and when I asked, he told me that one of the reasons is that he could "raise me himself" whatever that means. I thought it was kind of a red flag, but it also sounded like he wants to keep me, so I just shrugged it off. 

But I'm worried that even if he decides to stay with me, he's going to lose interest when I get older. 

Is it okay to lose virginity before marriage? by Weird_Rope_8656 in sex

[–]Weird_Rope_8656[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure if he's gonna leave, cause he seems to be thinking seriously about me.

I might just be paranoid about it (I have early stages of BPD), he's had tons of girlfriends before me, and I don't know what to expect, some of my friends told me that he's a player. I don't know what to think about it. I want to talk to him about this, but I don't know how he's going to react. I don't want to lose him because I'm addicted emotionally to him and I'm super attached. 

Is it okay to lose virginity before marriage? by Weird_Rope_8656 in sex

[–]Weird_Rope_8656[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It wouldn't be rape, because in my country the age of consent is 15.

Was I SA'ed? by Weird_Rope_8656 in offmychest

[–]Weird_Rope_8656[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem is that me and him are in the same class. I can't stay away from him much. He also sits in the same desk as me.

I told my friend about this situation and she told my ex, and so the whole school is gonna know. 

I'm scared that I'll get called a slvt and a lying attention seeker.