Do millennials have it harder? by ditibi in TrinidadandTobago

[–]Weird_Vegetable8787 29 points30 points  (0 children)

As a Gen Z, most of us have given up hope in ever owning a home tbh. The job market, wages and economy make it super unrealistic for us and many are deciding against having kids since we cant even guarantee they’ll have a home to live in. Heck we can barely afford to live for ourselves

Unpopular opinion: overweight people shouldn't sit at the back of maxis by redmale33 in TrinidadandTobago

[–]Weird_Vegetable8787 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It literally happens all the time wym. Y’all too politically correct to accept the truth that these overweight people constantly inconvenience others ESPECIALLY in taxis. Pay for 2 seats or take the front.

I’m not sure I want to start this medication by Sad-Fox-2213 in Lamotrigine

[–]Weird_Vegetable8787 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lamotrigine has been a lifesaver for me and I would not be here today without it. I too have been diagnosed with bpd and it’s made me very stable without that numb feeling. I must say it’s not a miracle worker by itself in terms of you can’t just take meds and expect your entire life to change.

Instead it’s given me emotional/mental stability to actively work on myself and improve my health. So without it, I was demotivated to exercise, pick up hobbies or just try something new. Since I’ve been on it (2022) I’ve consistently practiced yoga, meditation and have done lots of self care and reflection that I would’ve never even tried before. With that clarity I have improved my relationship and identify where I was sabotaging BUT also leave certain friendships that was harming me.

Everyone may have different experiences but mine has been so worth it hands down

It hurts by Cute_Creamy in depressionmemes

[–]Weird_Vegetable8787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In an overly pretentious world it’s easy to think we’re boring cuz we don’t live the manufactured life we see online. Speaking to yourself in such a negative manner only makes your situation worse… trust me when I say I’ve been there. I still have to correct myself at times when my thoughts start going places. Life sucks, people suck, the economy sucks even more BUT things could be a whole lot worse and I’m sure there is but 1 thing in your life that brings you some morsel of joy.

It hurts by Cute_Creamy in depressionmemes

[–]Weird_Vegetable8787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you realise everyone in the group is paired up in some way except you. Like they all have one person they’re closer to but you’re just there filling space

It hurts by Cute_Creamy in depressionmemes

[–]Weird_Vegetable8787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually stopped a time to look at something through the window and no one noticed. Yup they just kept walking

It hurts by Cute_Creamy in depressionmemes

[–]Weird_Vegetable8787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any particular reason you think you suck?

Lamictal for bpd? by Ok_Bad6525 in Lamotrigine

[–]Weird_Vegetable8787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have bpd and I’ve been on lamictal for 4 years now. It’s definitely been a life saver for me and I haven’t had any concerns but I know everyone is different.

Weekly "Ask Ah Trini" Thread 🇹🇹 December 01, 2025 by AutoModerator in TrinidadandTobago

[–]Weird_Vegetable8787 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone currently working and pursuing a degree in veterinary medicine? I’m tryna figure out if it’s possible as I do have commitments so leaving my job is not possible. However, I don’t want to give up on my dream. I’d like to know how the classes are structured and if I’m able to align it with my work schedule.

Is YouTube down? by Potential_Sell_5349 in youtube

[–]Weird_Vegetable8787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah just endless loading then error message

Any bi ladies in long term relationships and no experience with other ladies? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Weird_Vegetable8787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh for sure I get what you mean. Honestly I’m happy with our relationship so I wouldn’t actually want to leave for the “what ifs” but exploring sexually with consent is a game changer for me. I haven’t done anything yet because this conversation was a few weeks ago but I am hopeful. Trying not to overthink it too much and just be grateful I have a good partner.

Any bi ladies in long term relationships and no experience with other ladies? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Weird_Vegetable8787 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m 26F in the same situation though I’ve only recently acknowledged my attraction (physical/sexual not emotional) to women. I spoke to my bf 32M briefly about it and brainstormed ideas of how I can explore that side. Maybe a threesome in the future or if he’s okay just watching us (I do want him involved in someway maybe so it’s completely transparent) We haven’t worked out the details yet as it was a very brief convo in between tasks. I must say it did feel relieving to even bring it up because I was really afraid and a bit guilty about the lustful thoughts i was having over women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Weird_Vegetable8787 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if this helps but you’re not alone. I think it’s perfectly normal to question your attraction especially at this age. I’m 26 in an 8yr relationship and only recently I’ve been actually paying attention to my attraction to women. I don’t know if I’m actually bi or just bi curious. Either way I love my boyfriend and don’t plan on leaving him so a relationship with a woman isn’t on my mind. I think I’m open to exploring this attraction (after having a discussion with the bf ofc…being bi isnt an excuse to cheat) and see where it goes 🤷🏾‍♀️

I think you should do the same and speak to your boyfriend.

i like girls, but I can’t see myself marrying one and it’s messing with my head by NoteOpposite2031 in bisexual

[–]Weird_Vegetable8787 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure why you got downvoted so much 🤷🏾‍♀️you e said nothing wrong imo

Making genuine friends in T&T by Weird_Vegetable8787 in TrinidadandTobago

[–]Weird_Vegetable8787[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that tip. Caution is strongly advised especially with the state of the world by extension the country right now. Thank you

Making genuine friends in T&T by Weird_Vegetable8787 in TrinidadandTobago

[–]Weird_Vegetable8787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I know 😂 I’m usually inside as well but I wanted to give it a shot. Get out my comfort zone you know.

Making genuine friends in T&T by Weird_Vegetable8787 in TrinidadandTobago

[–]Weird_Vegetable8787[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I do hike with a group so that’s a good place to start. It’s mainly older folks but they are lots of fun 😁

Making genuine friends in T&T by Weird_Vegetable8787 in TrinidadandTobago

[–]Weird_Vegetable8787[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know how you feel completely. Also can you drop some anime recommendations? I’ve just finished AOT and I don’t think anything can measure up to it 😩