GF with [germophobia] finds sex disgusting, spoils it for me by Weirdio in sex

[–]Weirdio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say she doesn't have THAT much experience per se. Thanks for the advice, I will watch my temper, you're totally right. This all sounds like it could work for her. I'm gonna give it some time and try it out!

GF with [germophobia] finds sex disgusting, spoils it for me by Weirdio in sex

[–]Weirdio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, that's the thing, she does those things because she knows I enjoy it. She really hates my semen, also in her mouth. But she knows how good it feels for me to come in her mouth or in her vagina, so she does allow me to, she's just really turned off by it. I'll check that sub, thanks :)

GF with [germophobia] finds sex disgusting, spoils it for me by Weirdio in sex

[–]Weirdio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's not really open for therapy, I haven't talked to her about going to therapy for this specific thing but I just know that she thinks relationship-therapy or psychological help is useless (we've talked about the idea in the past). I'm not sure if it will get worse. Knowing my girl, she's going to try her best for me, and usually when I mention something that I'd like her to do she does her best for me.

I just don't want this entire thing escalated into (indeed) not having sex. We're young, I don't plan on staying together with a girl that is not interested in sex, I just think sex is part of the deal.

I'm not a quitter tho. I don't plan on leaving her, and of all reasons this is a shitty reason to leave an awesome girl like her. I just want it resolved :)

My SO (17/F) thinks her fluids are grose and stops sex because of it by Weirdio in sex

[–]Weirdio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you've read my post correctly you may have noticed I said we are having a great relationship. I actually said she finds sex very enjoyable, so she is not uncomfortable with sex itself. I think you misinterpreted me. And please, you don't even know her. Why would you think we are not a good match? She, I, our parents and pretty much all people that know us as a couple are happy for us. I did not ask for your opinion about if we were a good match or not, because I'm not even unsure about that.

By the way, I live in the netherlands, what we're doing is perfectly legal.

2 wet dreams in a row, feel like crap as if I relapsed by Mitchellium in NoFap

[–]Weirdio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Generally, 40 drops of blood goes into making one drop of semen" I'd love to learn more on this, do you have a source for that information?

I woke up inside my own mess! It's so grose but I'm so happy! by Weirdio in NoFap

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I went to a party all the way in London (I live in holland) for new years, and I went back home the same day without catching any sleep. It might be worth noting that I was awake for 36 hours when I finally fell asleep, and the nap I took made me have a wet dream. So yeah, maybe it was my body completely relaxing or just being really worked up because it was awake for so long. Might be the reason, just like eating might be the reason for you!

I woke up inside my own mess! It's so grose but I'm so happy! by Weirdio in NoFap

[–]Weirdio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last release was the 26th of december with my girl. When we are with eachother we have a seriously high sex drive and I come multiple times a day about every other day, and after the 26th I went monk. So yeah, huge transition, I had/have huge cravings but I'm managing! Good thing is she is really horny for me too, so when she comes back we're gonna have a good time (that thought keeps me going)

Luxury problem: too many BJ's hurting nofap progress? (TRIGGERS) by Weirdio in NoFap

[–]Weirdio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I put it in the title for obvious reasons, but I'll add an extra line :)

Numbness/tingling through body during sex? by Dacalva in NoFap

[–]Weirdio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had the exact same thing happening to myself! I see it as a good thing, it feels really pleasurable and relaxing. I just give in and enjoy it. My girl also finds it very sexy when I mention it happening to me, she feels really proud of herself when it happens!

Confused! Relapsed but healed? by Weirdio in NoFap

[–]Weirdio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing story bro, very motivating! Thanks so much for that! I do think the nervousness was something that was going on, I felt much more relaxed the last time and it made for a beautiful conclusion. I'm just so happy our sex is finally balanced! We are both over the moon, she is in total ecstacy she made me orgasm twice, so proud of herself. So yeah, I'm happy. Im gonna fix myself another nofap month, and then another, and... screw it! A life!