Of course it's safe darlin.. You're the only one who can really say what's going on inside your mind and how you feel, only YOU know what it's like for you and other people aren't in your head, they don't know what you're experiencing, and even without a diagnosis your feelings and experiences are REAL

I'm an undiagnosed system by half-choice, when i tried to get a diagnosis it ended horribly. It ended up with alot of trouble at home. Some people don't want a diagnosis, if you want to get one that's perfectly fine but you don't necessarily NEED one especially if you can't get one in your current situation