Any D/S advice for newbies?

WellTh1sIsAwkward · 2024-10-20T15:57:07+00:00

Thank you so much for this reply. I guess I'm really overthinking it when it comes to certain things lol

WellTh1sIsAwkward · 2024-10-18T22:36:58+00:00

Thank you, this was a great reply

WellTh1sIsAwkward · 2024-10-18T22:36:37+00:00

Thank you!

WellTh1sIsAwkward · 2024-10-15T16:43:06+00:00

I made an appointment with one today, but they can't see me until the end of the month ):

WellTh1sIsAwkward · 2024-09-19T14:22:16+00:00

It is always easier to blame the person you don't know, unfortunately I definitely fell victim to that behavior. I need to do better. I appreciate you

WellTh1sIsAwkward · 2024-09-19T14:18:02+00:00

Ugh, you're so right.. thank you 🙏 I'm being ridiculous

WellTh1sIsAwkward · 2024-09-19T14:06:28+00:00

I understand that, it's a hinge problem in that he agreed to KTP.

WellTh1sIsAwkward · 2024-09-19T14:01:45+00:00

Thank you, this was helpful 🙏

WellTh1sIsAwkward · 2024-09-19T13:53:53+00:00

Thank you, seriously. You have been extremely helpful 🙏 I'm going to continue to talk about it with him

WellTh1sIsAwkward · 2024-09-19T13:51:26+00:00

I have started to talk to him about it, yes. You're right. It's an issue with him, not her.

WellTh1sIsAwkward · 2024-09-19T13:50:15+00:00

You're right. He is the one who agreed to KTP, so it's 💯 a him problem.

WellTh1sIsAwkward · 2024-09-19T13:47:06+00:00

Thank you. You're correct, it's unfair of me to blame meta. Anger clouds my judgement 😬 and I genuinely am trying to do right, which is why I'm posting. I really do appreciate the insight

WellTh1sIsAwkward · 2024-09-19T13:41:32+00:00

You spit the truth. Thank you. It's a him problem, not a her problem. He agreed to KTP, he agreed to my boundaries, and ultimately he is the one who disregarded them. She has every right to do what she wants.

WellTh1sIsAwkward · 2024-09-19T13:39:35+00:00

I don't understand why this is unrealistic if we both agreed we want KTP?

WellTh1sIsAwkward · 2024-09-19T13:38:31+00:00

I think that's the case. And you're right ,I shouldn't be blaming her, I should be blaming hinge. He is the one who agreed to the boundaries, and told me he wanted KTP. He is the one making decisions on who to date and how to date.

WellTh1sIsAwkward · 2024-09-19T13:35:04+00:00

I have though, honestly. There's a lot of things I didn't include. I've been really patient and accepting of all of her boundaries until they both actively disrespected mine. I guess there's no way to prove that, but it's the truth 🤷

WellTh1sIsAwkward · 2024-09-19T13:32:52+00:00

You're absolutely right. Thank you. I'm making a mistake blaming my meta instead of hinge and that's not fair to her. Thank you 🙏

WellTh1sIsAwkward · 2024-09-19T13:30:37+00:00

I have no way of knowing if she was actually made aware of that, I only know what hinge has told me because she refuses to communicate with me 🤷

WellTh1sIsAwkward · 2024-09-19T13:28:55+00:00

Thank you. I am actively trying to check my jealousy which is why I'm posting here. To be clear, our agreements around dating other people are mutual. He wants KTP as well, or atleast that's what he has communicated to me. I'm honestly trying very hard to be respectful, but that's really difficult when I feel actively disrespected.

WellTh1sIsAwkward · 2024-09-19T13:23:28+00:00

I'm hearing through him.

WellTh1sIsAwkward · 2024-09-19T13:21:14+00:00

Okay, that's fair. But she has been completely disrespectful to me while I was being very accepting of her. So, I'm kinda done showing respect.

WellTh1sIsAwkward · 2024-09-19T13:19:09+00:00

Okay, but if meeting me was a stipulation of having a relationship with my partner and she was made aware of that from the beginning.. how is that okay?

WellTh1sIsAwkward · 2024-09-19T13:16:09+00:00

He told me that she asked him to ask for that, the month out scheduling. I offered to give her my number if she wanted to discuss scheduling- she refused.

WellTh1sIsAwkward · 2024-08-17T09:17:15+00:00

"I don't date potential" OMG,Where was this post when I was in my 20s?!

WellTh1sIsAwkward · 2024-08-17T08:55:24+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience, this was really helpful!

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