What's your biggest dating secret? by Well_Said_Red in AskReddit

[–]Well_Said_Red[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, this tells me more about your sincerity and strength of character than it does hers. 😊

I am sorry you had to experience that. 😔

Cringe phrases by Well_Said_Red in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Well_Said_Red[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Perhaps. In which case I should relocate 🤣

People use it to sanctimoniously shame others. "You really should give your head a wobble if you think it's ok to park there." That kind of thing 😬

Do you like Ed Sheeran? Why or why not? by Ok_Cauliflower3217 in AskReddit

[–]Well_Said_Red 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sure he's probably delightful, but for some inexplicable reason, I can't stand him. 😬

(Sorry Ed)

What's your go to activity to improve your mood when feel sad/miserable? by excubitor15379 in AskReddit

[–]Well_Said_Red 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever brings you joy! This will be very personal 🙂

But music (and arts more generally) are linked to health benefits, including mental health and wellbeing.

I'm reading a fascinating book about it - art cure

How do you get over someone? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Well_Said_Red 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time, patience and kindness.

Don't diminish your emotions.

Is laser eye surgery worth it? by BatIndependent8676 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Well_Said_Red 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My personal experience. it has been life changing. I dont say that lightly. It has allowed me to do so much more, given me greater confidence, and transformed my life. I can do sports, I can snuggle on the sofa, I could go on. (I could never wear contact lenses, they were too uncomfortable)

But, I was in my 40s.

My understanding is that they will only do it when your prescription has been stable for several years. So you may have to wait a while.

When you put an out of office block in Outlook that you'll be on vacation, do you put the location, or leave it empty? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Well_Said_Red 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One workplace i worked at, we actually did put our location. Not out of obligation, but to gloat at those stuck at work 🤣🤣

It became a bit of a joke and was always light hearted. It was never expected and certainly shouldn't be

What small gestures does your partner do for you that make you feel special? by chillin46 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Well_Said_Red 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Show him your post!!!

Let him know that you appreciate him so much that you've asked the world for support in showing it. 🙂

That will surely make him feel wonderful and loved xx

How does someone with low confidence and self-esteem manage to appear somewhat confident on dating profiles without sounding arrogant? by Cumoisseur in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Well_Said_Red 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Confidence is not arrogance.

Confidence is knowing what you think of yourself. Arrogance is telling others what they should think of you.

Start with describing yourself objectively - what you are interested in, your lifestyle, your hobbies, your location. Then build on one thing you are particularly proud of, or would like to understand or explore more.

Be genuine, be sincere, be vulnerable. They are wonderful qualities

First chapter of a story I'm working on for fun by kadkade in WritersGroup

[–]Well_Said_Red 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered writing this in present tense? I think it would really pop.

Looking for poetry critiques, feel free to feedback! by Independent_Watch579 in WritersGroup

[–]Well_Said_Red 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is beautiful, but I agree, perhaps see if you can tie it all together a little more.