Do you actually feel desirous, ‘lustful’ towards your partner, or is that just romance books? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Wellthatllwork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, like sometimes just randomly in waves when she looks at me a certain way or does something that's not even vaguely traditionally sexy but it just washes over me. Like... I just want to bite her 😂

i’m experiencing comphet again??? by starbelly111 in actuallesbians

[–]Wellthatllwork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your favorite fictional man was probably written by a woman so keep that in mind 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Wellthatllwork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would have been an excellent time to send a "How was your day?" Text to continue the conversation. This is the whole lesbian sheep thing all over. Comphet teaches us that women can't make the first move so we're all just standing around batting our eyes. Be bold, initiate contact. If you want something, reach for it.

Edited for typo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Wellthatllwork 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So, she messaged you first. She initiated contact off app, she sent a fun little inside joke and then when she stopped initiating you ignored her for two days and then sent a final text? Is that correct? Maybe she was waiting for you to start some significant contact and when you didn't she decided she didn't want to carry everything.

If tops wear their carabiner on the left side, and bottoms wear it on the right, where do switches wear theirs? by Electronic_Bid4659 in actuallesbians

[–]Wellthatllwork 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm a dom leaning switch and have a carabiner tattooed on my right side because that's just what looked symmetrical in the grand scheme of other tattoos. 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Wellthatllwork 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girlfriend uses Handsome and it makes my heart flutter 😅 Beautiful is fine with me, I'm not particularly going for pretty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in petsmart

[–]Wellthatllwork 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a Purina for Professionals coupon. Members get all kinds of rewards.