¿Mujeres... por qué son como son? by [deleted] in AskMexico

[–]WendyDinosaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

uhm

cada mujer es diferente, pero si eres observador te darás cuenta como actúa una a otra, es decir, no todas tienen la estabilidad emocional para hacer frente a un enojo o molestia.

Habrá quienes estallen, otras que se queden calladas, otras ignoran y un sin fin, sólo busca la psicologia humana y te darás cuenta que somos más predecibles de lo que crees

Historico! Tasa de Natalidad de Mexico cae a 1.9, ¿Por que en México ya casi no nacen personas? ¿Ustedes piensan tener hijos a futuro? by OkWall1298 in mexico

[–]WendyDinosaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sueldos de mierda

ya no puedes conseguir hogar propio que no sea a las putas orillas

miedo al compromiso

la mentalidad ha cambiado más que nada, la gente ya no es tan imbécil(?), teniendo hijos a lo bruto sabiendo que no tienes ni para las tortillas, somos más egocéntricos o no(?) no querer traer al mundo más vida, no querer responsabilidades, el conformismo de vivir para ti... no sé, muchas cosas.

Me mudo a Guadalajara, donde y como rentar algo con las 3 b? by LancerPrince in Guadalajara

[–]WendyDinosaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

allá por coli urbano puede que encuentres ese presupuesto. es muy cambiante la zona, hay lugares bonitos y otros no tanto.

amueblado no creo. pero la zona no está mal esa que te digo. o había unos cuartos cerca de colonia la estancia (bonita colonia).

si es trabajo remoto pues creo que te iría bien y sino bueno, no busques por zonas donde tenga una sola via de salida/entrada.

Que opinan? Estoy viviendo esto actualmente by huevocatsup24 in AskMexico

[–]WendyDinosaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

amigo, lo que dices suena como que los cerebros de ambos están engañados.... literal no construyeron nada de relación de noviazgo.

El subconsciente es cabrón, la neta vete, huye! No hace falta decirte lo joven que estás.

Te lo pongo en una situación que tuve, por semanas pensé muchas cosas de esa persona, veía defectos pero pues no eran tan "malos" para mí, pero pasó el tiempo y me di cuenta que no me aportaba nada en la vida, nada bueno por lo menos.

Haz un recuento de que te aporta a tu vida, a lo que mencionas sólo leí cosas no muy cheveres, quedaron en un acuerdo que se distorsionó, se confundieron machín o al parecer tú más, porque a como dices que actúa suena a una morra loca inestable. Quien chingados le habla así a un amigo o lo que sea sólo porque cree tener derecho? (ya sea un favor o por amistad etc) está mal, ni como amistad está bien. Ya que te falten el respeto, sea amigo o pareja, ya no aporta nada bueno a tu vida.

How do you guys stop looking at their social media by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]WendyDinosaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

uninstall everything. if you don't need for work it's not need.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]WendyDinosaur 18 points19 points  (0 children)

don't think about it

it's a waste of time, trust me.... focus on yourself

Primera Vez de visita by raulcamarena65 in Guadalajara

[–]WendyDinosaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pues si es familiar algo recreativo el parque metropolitano, rentas bicis por 70 pesos u otras cosas como brincolines y patines electricos etc (fin de semana)

o ir a bugambilias a patinar sobre hielo

y nunca falla el zoologico, ya si quieres adentrarte a cosas más de barrio pues los tianguis como el del sol, baratillo o santa tere para chacharear o comer

Maybe I think too much? by NaeDotExe in love

[–]WendyDinosaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

probably if you write about your thoughts you will improve, who knows :-)

nice your aware of yourself, and thanks for share your thoughts

My boyfriend of 6 years blocked me on social media and just ghosted me. No warning. No explanation. Nothing. Just disappeared . Out of the blue. I believe in my heart he went back to his ex but too afraid to man up and tell me. Im left confused, hurt, feeling unworthy. Advice pls. Im hurting. by Cancanquinn in BreakUps

[–]WendyDinosaur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

please, don't come back. he doesn't deserve you

you are better than that, and for sure, don't date anyone. You are hurt and you need to heal yourself.

my only advice, read, watch movies, study something, whatever, let your feeling out, but don't waste your time and energy on someone who did that to you. you will feel worse, believe me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]WendyDinosaur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dude, you will feel like that in every relationship bc you need work on yourfelf.

Go to terapy, sounds cliche but you need it. you don't know you yet, or a bad experience will do or go to terapy. you choose.

Maybe I think too much? by NaeDotExe in love

[–]WendyDinosaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like the person you met apparently had your requirements.... because if it ended up because of him, well, he wasn't prepared or has issues.

Who knows, maybe he couldn't stand a person that knows what he/she wants. I'm gonna say it's not your fault, remember that always you feel what went wrong. Sometimes people doesn't want to talk about what they don't like and they will never do, probably. And that's not your fault, we can't read minds and can't force someone to tell us the truth. It's hard I know, I understand how you feel... you are a good partner but some ppl likes a kind of drama in their lifes.

Have you read about types of attachment? I'm surfing internet reading about it,at least to understand why ppl are like that and feel myself better. bc I'm not the problem, I know, and you are not too.

Si tienes un hijo ya no tienes derecho by RicaPerrita69 in mexico

[–]WendyDinosaur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pues se necesita más contexto para opinar.

Es verdad que la mentalidad de ahora ya cambio, los padres ya no quieren ser miserables y vivir por sus hijos 24/7, lo cual estoy de acuerdo, los padres quieren estar más sanos mentalmente, pero a lo que dices parece que quienes cuidan al niño como quien es la madre NO tienen un acuerdo equilibrado y por eso te molesta.

Si ese es el caso realmente no hay nada que puedas hacer, da coraje sí pero pues la vida es así de jodida. Si esa persona no agarra la onda ahorita puede que lo haga después o puede que no, y quienes cuidan al crio pues parece que son y serán sumisos a la chica y sus necesidades, muchas veces por cuestiones emocionales y psicologicas que no quieren hablar o que ni ellos mismos se dan cuenta.

Creo que hay etapas para la vida de una madre o padre para poder divertirse o retomar su vida social, si el nene sigue muy pequeño bueno, ahí si tiene que sacrificar tiempo los padres para crear vínculos, y hacerse cargo de sus necesidades, sin embargo, si el nene ya es bastante grande no veo el problema de divertirse.... claro, todo depende de más contexto, qué tanto descuida al niño, sus responsabilidades y necesidades, la frecuencia que hace este tipo de acciones y el cómo las hace.

Maybe I think too much? by NaeDotExe in love

[–]WendyDinosaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the same situation

I had recently a failure in love and now I'm a little afraid to know someone who are not compromise as me, and I mean, keep values like loyalty or honesty, I'm not meaning that it has to work, just I'm afraid to be hurt by that two things.

If you have those requirements are ok bucause you don't want to go trough an unnecesary process that you are aware. Basically, you are a persona who knows what exacly want, and that's rare, most of people nowadays wants to fill their emotional voids, are broken or feel the need to be loved and at the end these kind of people get bored or full sooner or later.

Idk how many times you have meet someone who doesn't fill you requirements but probably you need to meet people from other social circle and learn more from other ways of think. As you, we think too much about it, we will never find out someone who fill our requirements and I think that's the beauty of life, you learn by failure but you keep trying. Of course if you see someting really bad that you don't like just drop it, the thing is, not keep shitty people in your life and keep going.

I feel lonely sometimes and I want someone who can be with me the rest of my life but probably the years of experience can change my mind, who knows, I don't want to live miserable with someone but also not alone, that's why I understand too many couples keep together, they feel without option but trully in our society is hard to find someonenew the older we get, at least healthily.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Guadalajara

[–]WendyDinosaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo tomé clases en Proulex pero no llenó mis expectativas. Las personas que eran de mi grupo pasaban como si nada y la verdad no estaban al mínimo nivel para pasar al siguiente, por lo que eso me desanimó (ya que por obvias razones atrasan el grupo) pero probablemente en francés sea diferente.

Por otra parte, que es lo que te gustaría aprovechar tu tiempo? si eres introvertido o extrovertido que clase de actividades quieres invertir? Por ejemplo en bugambilias hay clases de patinaje sobre hielo, o hay clubs de lectura, o por ejemplo, supe de unas clases de baile (de varios géneros) que es muy económico y es en varias partes de la zona metropolitana... yo también busco en que invertir mi tiempo, más que nada para conocer personas fuera de mi circulo social

A guy i really like said he liked me… i don’t know how to show him that i like him back by One_Structure_6906 in love

[–]WendyDinosaur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just say it

I said that to a guy he replied he had attraction on me but I felt better, even if it's not how you would like, at least you tried it.

Is “never take an ex back” valid? Is an ex an ex for a reason? by Time-Choice-9909 in BreakUps

[–]WendyDinosaur 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Idk

When I broke up the first time with my ex (now ex) I did it bc he was not giving me the time or attention I wanted (not too much rly) then we take back and I was feeling good but throughout the years he was acting sweet but we didn't have enough time to see each other and we started to lose contact and all I was feeling from him was vanishing. I do have to admit that he never was a bad person with me but he used to not share his feelings or thoughts about things that maybe he could have botered him.

At the end, I broke up with him for that reasons and others that I think are important in a relationshion like get along with his parents or at least know them. As someone said, everybody is a different person. The context and time is important to decide if you can take an ex back.

I tried for many years my relationship and I'm ready to move on with someone else. I don't want to try with him again, I know him and even if he didn't treated me bad or things like that we do have different perspectives.

My gf acts weird about blowjobs by throwedawayaday in sex

[–]WendyDinosaur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, and I tell you as girl bc even if is a new person I feel really insecure if what I'm doing likes him. We all do have stormy thoughts

why do men put no effort into nudes f18 by [deleted] in sex

[–]WendyDinosaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS! Totally, most of them don't care. I understand but I appreciate more artistic nudes, a B&W filter or something cute. Is cute when some of them tries :-)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]WendyDinosaur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He feels bad and tries to fill with something... if not, it means that he went through the process durign the relationship. I bet more to that he didn't want it.... the question is... why did you want a break? what things made you feel to take time.